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ContraryMerry
@contrarymerry.bsky.social
Demisexual Polyamorous Adventure lover who refuses to be underestimated. Who knew I'd be living my best life at 63? The unretouched picture above was taken 11-10-2024
Sometimes I have to listen to my body, and I hate it when I have to listen to my body but today it told me "Merry, it's time to rest for a bit before everything gets crazy." so I'm going to rest today.

UGH!
November 21, 2025 at 8:36 PM
It's HERE! I'm 64 today, and honestly, the past year has been so wonderful in spite of the losses, that I'm looking forward to what my 64th year will bring.
July 13, 2025 at 9:10 AM
I don't celebrate the 4th of July anymore. On the night of July 4, 2004 I was raped, so now that's what I remember EVERY 4th of July. I can't celebrate the anniversary of a crime that changed me so much. I love the US but I hate this day. I don't want sympathy. I just want acceptance.
July 4, 2025 at 3:25 PM
@sparktroopercris.bsky.social
Was thinking about you, then noticed it was your Birthday. Sending love.
June 19, 2025 at 8:47 PM
In case anyone is really wondering, I am doing well. I had a phone appointment with my doctor and all my labs are really good. My doctor went so far to say that he's proud of me and that means a lot. Also, I'm in a good place regarding my relationships. No plans to fly anywhere this year.
June 17, 2025 at 10:26 AM
Las Vegas weekend was Magical! Seriously! They had a magician.
Here's a picture of the ceiling in the lobby at The Bellagio
May 26, 2025 at 1:12 PM
Going to Las Vegas for Mother's Day Weekend with my handsome/sexy Companion.

He makes me feel lucky to have him in my life.
May 9, 2025 at 3:09 PM
Today is the day. Time to stop avoiding the HUGE elephant in the suffocatingly tiny room.
February 7, 2025 at 2:53 PM
I've decided to confront my unhappiness head on. But not till Thursday at least.
February 4, 2025 at 3:56 AM
I keep forgetting that I have this.

I'm in a weird position at the moment, madly in love and happy beyond belief, and on the other side, sad and angry because of being left to my own devices.
It's not supposed to be this way, and I don't know how to fix it.
February 1, 2025 at 6:45 PM
Yes people, I do have a dog a black lab pibble mix, and she's WONDERFUL!
December 12, 2024 at 8:25 PM
Not an ad, but I have Life360 on my phone along with my Household members. Last night, my date stopped for gas, and my husband sent the following text: 𝑨 𝒎𝒐𝒕𝒆𝒍? 𝒀𝒐𝒖 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒉𝒐𝒎𝒆 𝒕𝒐𝒏𝒊𝒈𝒉𝒕?

I had LOTS of fun explaining that I was at the gas station next door!
December 7, 2024 at 9:01 PM
@griffin198.bsky.social I am SO in love, and I waited for you to call me and you didn't, so here it is in PUBLIC for ALL to see!
December 4, 2024 at 6:49 PM
Is this love?
𝑾𝒆 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒈𝒆𝒕 𝒇𝒓𝒊𝒔𝒌𝒚 𝒊𝒏 𝒂 𝒃𝒖𝒓𝒍𝒂𝒑 𝒔𝒂𝒄𝒌 𝒃𝒂𝒃𝒚. 𝑰 𝒅𝒐𝒏'𝒕 𝒄𝒂𝒓𝒆.
Well it sure feels like love to me!
December 1, 2024 at 7:58 AM
Why is it that when I tell people I'm 63, they think I'm no longer interested in sex? I have a very healthy sex drive, and I hope to continue for MANY years! ::RAWR!::
November 30, 2024 at 9:12 AM
Saturday, not only the last day of the month, but the beginning of 10 days of insanity!
November 30, 2024 at 9:06 AM
It is a Gift to love others, but a Blessing to be truly Loved back by them.
November 29, 2024 at 11:10 AM
Just remember to never underestimate woman in her 60s
November 29, 2024 at 8:41 AM