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🏳️‍🌈🇨🇭Conny
@conny1980.bsky.social
lover of #SapphicBooks, alpha/beta reader, autistic, human glue, perfectly imperfect, supporter of the underdogs, kindness matters, married, NoToBullies, LWithTheT

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One of my happy places is anywhere in the mountains. Things just look somehow different up here. More quiet. 😌

mountains
alps
January 10, 2024 at 1:55 PM
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Love this quote. I won’t ever fully know how someone else feels or what they experienced. Just like only I know about my experiences & how I feel. Even if someone experienced something similar, we won’t feel the same about it.
December 24, 2023 at 11:43 AM
Love this quote. It’s in the moments of quietness in a world that is often too loud I am able to recharge.

Quietness
ActuallyAutistic
November 17, 2023 at 11:20 AM
And often the quiet people are those with the best ideas. If they don’t get missed in the middle of all the noise…

Silence
QuietPeople
November 10, 2023 at 10:23 AM
Love to see these guys on my way to work. 🥰

GreyHeron
November 6, 2023 at 1:17 PM
I finished yesterday in less than a week which is amazing after not being able to read for some time. I loved it and I’m happy that I still have a few books by her I can dive in. Like this one. 🥰
October 26, 2023 at 5:26 AM
Being alone in places like this one is what helps me to recharge from a world that is often too loud, too confusing or just too much. It’s being in a happy place.

ActuallyAutistic
October 21, 2023 at 2:55 PM
I wasn’t able to read for a few weeks by now, so I thought I try to go back to where it all began. German books. And yeah a book by my favourite German speaking author definitely helps to get back into it. It’s a slow process & it’s only a few pages per day, but I take it. 😌
October 19, 2023 at 7:36 PM
I know many people struggle with being alone or just sit in silence. Hearing all kind of noises in a non filtered way, means I need silence like the air to breathe. Some times ago I was thinking about silence and wrote down my thoughts on it.

ActuallyAutistic
October 18, 2023 at 8:52 AM
I feel this.
October 15, 2023 at 9:33 AM
And even if it doesn’t always feel like it, it’s a strength and in the end makes you, you.

Sensitivity
BeingSensitive
BeKindToYourself
October 8, 2023 at 5:50 AM
I definitely feel this. Still learning to believe it a 100%. But getting there. The right people will definitely help to believe in it. 😌

ActuallyAutistic
October 1, 2023 at 5:04 AM
ActuallyAutistic
September 28, 2023 at 11:18 AM
There are so many things we get told to do differently. Like when you need a slower pace, you get told you’re too slow. Or when you feel things deeply you get told you’re too intense. But we are who we are & I know I can’t change these things. And that’s ok.
ActuallyAutistic
Introverts
September 18, 2023 at 9:56 AM
This is so true and these people are rare. If you know where you stand with someone, if they are there in all kind of ways and then in the end bring calmness, you know you’re in good hands. Calmness is probably the one thing that amazes me the most. When I feel at peace around someone.
September 17, 2023 at 3:17 AM
A few years ago someone sent this to me when I was struggling. We have parted ways at some point because the time has come to walk into different directions. But this will be something I’m forever grateful for. Maybe it will help someone else as it helped me.

BeKindToYourself
September 16, 2023 at 9:07 AM
I made it to the bookshop in York
@emilybanting.co.uk and look at you. 🥰 Proud of you. ❤️
September 13, 2023 at 1:15 PM
If you have found someone like this, never let them go. ❤️
September 12, 2023 at 1:50 PM
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September 10, 2023 at 3:53 PM
Honesty and Authenticity go a long way. For me it’s everything when someone can tell me the same thing directly into my face, they tell others about me behind my back. It’s what I always try to do myself. Not always easy but necessary for me.

ActuallyAutistic
September 10, 2023 at 6:36 AM
BeYou
MyTwoCents
ActuallyAutistic
September 8, 2023 at 3:49 AM
@emilybanting.co.uk I know you have probably already seen it and you had the date in mind. 😆 Still have to shout in your direction and tell you, look what’s finally out on audible. 🥰
September 5, 2023 at 10:19 AM