In cutthroat cultures, people kiss up and kick down. They protect themselves by currying favor with people in power and exploiting those without it.

In supportive cultures, people speak up and shield down. They protect others who lack power by raising problems to those who have it.

“I was just being myself” is not an excuse for disrespectful behavior. It signals a lack of concern for others.

Authenticity without empathy is selfish. Authenticity without boundaries is careless.

It’s good to be true to your values. It’s important to show regard for others’ values too.