That makes sense, especially the part about versness being queerness within queerness. Existing outside that binary. Like, isn’t that the point of being queer? To be unbothered by the binary? I always thought it was lol.

Apart from internalized homophobia, do you think the slander comes from envy? Envy that vers men don’t have the hetero hangups and are unbothered? That vers men choose joy rather than violence?

My mood around all the open-mouth coughers. Also why I’ll keep my mask on in public 😷

There is too much yay in this pic! Love seeing you both in it 🤩

A friend and I were saying the other day that there’s no such thing as a total top, only a gay man who’s closed off to joy. I still stand by that 💪🏽

I wasn’t expecting Matt Bomer to charm me over in the Rose Nyland role, and here we are. 🤣

Days like yesterday, I feel like Boston weather is like someone else’s toddler throwing a tantrum and you’re stuck with them in an enclosed space and their parents aren’t telling them to mind themselves in public so you just have to wait out the tantrum or wait until they leave.