I know some may think I'm being rude by not participating, but I have a huge family. Someone is always getting married or pregnant. I think it's rude to force me to engage.

It takes so much energy from me to pick out a comfortable outfit, comfortable shoes, to put makeup on, just to go to an event with people I don't care to engage with. I'm only now realizing at 46 that I have always hated these events.

Religion

I think she hated having other cats in the house so much that she was making herself sick... kinda like Jay did when we tried to get him to eat broccoli... this baby has been having a tantrum for nearly 20 years because I dared to bring home other cats.

now, putting together this new information with some old information, Layla gets so upset in car rides, she makes herself throw up... I literally have to give her anti-nausea meds hours before we go to the vet... so, all this means that I don't think she actually has tummy issues...