Chandra N
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Chandra N
@cniklew.bsky.social
She/Her - Because my pronouns are MY choice! As is anything to do with MY body!
Proud seeker of the real resistance - It's gotta exist, right?
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Mental Health Therapist
Lover of sports
Former Investigative/Crime/City Reporter
Proud Latina wife and mom
Well I started the UNOFFICIAL Hagerstown Flying Boxcars Fan Page on Facebook so maybe I'll start the UNOFFICIAL Boxcars Fan account on here! :) Lord knows I have the ability since I have to keep up with everything anyway.
March 6, 2025 at 9:54 PM
Unable to find peace anymore. I'm SCARED. I'm telling my family to convince people we're only White and my LGBTQ son to keep quiet. Western Maryland is RED and, regardless of what state we live in, we're looking to ALL of the non-Trump reps for hope.
March 5, 2025 at 2:44 AM
YES! Wonderfully said.
February 10, 2025 at 11:04 AM
No worries! I agree with you. I think we all have our strengths and I hope that we respect everyone and how they fight so we can work as a team. It'll work as long as we appreciate the people who do things in ways we can't or won't.
February 9, 2025 at 11:31 PM
...begrudge your anger or anyone's. Just make sure you don't lose yourself to it if it gets too big to control.
February 9, 2025 at 11:28 PM
I understand that. Although I entered into a heterosexual marriage, I am part of the community. My two older children are part of the community and, as far as my son is concerned, he is no longer comfortable being who he is due to fear. I promise I empathize and I would NEVER invalidate or...
February 9, 2025 at 11:28 PM
No, but unfortunately he probably actually believes it. All we can do is keep speaking the truth.
February 9, 2025 at 11:24 PM
I hear you. Still, I'm a user on this platform and I won't coddle them, either, because I know how to stand up for myself without becoming one of them. That's just the way I'm dealing with it, but everyone decides for themselves what they want to do moving forward.
February 9, 2025 at 11:22 PM
Some people do and who did worse is a matter of perception. They're thinking the same thing about us and since we look to them the way they look to us, nothing will change.
February 9, 2025 at 9:16 PM
What's wild is I have heard four reasons for boycotting the Superbowl and two of them are coming from the MAGA folks. This is probably why the ticket prices (if I read it correctly) are the lowest they've been in more than a decade.
February 9, 2025 at 8:58 PM
Good point! I think I misread that one completely! For some reason, I thought it meant someone who tries to act more important than they are. Which, ironically, is probably Musk.
February 9, 2025 at 8:51 PM
People played nice before? I missed that. I saw people caught off guard because they believed their friends, family, and neighbors weren't going to put such a toxic person in office. Being respectful and firm is a possibility. We can be unwavering and loud without slinging insults that mean nothing.
February 9, 2025 at 8:50 PM
Considering the controversy over the football refs right now, this might be a rough example. That being said, 100 percent agree with you!
February 9, 2025 at 7:29 PM
I disagree with DEI being racist in any way and I understand White privilege (thanks to a video shared with me years ago, believe it or not). But I also understand why it's an odd concept. I don't think that it's been explained very well in the past. OR I'm just a very visual learner.
February 9, 2025 at 7:27 PM
Can't say I ever got used to that part, but I think that has to do more with my anxiety! Happy to see someone taking the skill and running with it! :)
February 9, 2025 at 7:19 PM
Who we voted for doesn't have anything to do with the type of people we are when interacting with others. Nobody will listen to us if we don't show the difference. It can't just be with our beliefs because that hasn't worked. Hate vs hate doesn't encourage progression toward inclusion.
February 9, 2025 at 7:17 PM
We're keeping it simple for the moment! Buffalo chicken dip is the favorite! We have a variety of chips, along with cannoli chips for "dessert!" Pretty sure we're going to break and get pizza at some point. :)
February 9, 2025 at 7:12 PM