I am 36. My mom is dead and my dad is estranged.

I’m disobeying them every day in how I parent my own child.

Example One: I do not pressure my own child to go to college in the future.

Please tell me: are you disobeying your parents as an adult? How?

I’m disobeying my parents at least once a day, and that’s how I know I’m a good mom.