oh hey, i'm still alive!

i went through a breakup, got sa'd, bio family tracked me down, dad died, cat almost died, reconnected with my ex, started seeing a boy for the first time—

a lot of bad, a lot of good, a lot of change. 2026 is going to be a big year for life.

let's hop to it y'all 💚

just as a reminder, people want to love someone who loves themselves!

be kind to yourself like you once thought you deserved. it's only thursday, baby. the proverbial friday can be here once again.

been a little quiet taking some time off social media, but wanted to share a picture from when i went ice skating the other day!

i hadn't been in years, but me being into rollerblading now helped me get the hang of it. 🥰

you can tell who has never been to chicago, because everyone who doesn't live in chicago think it's some sort of guerrilla warfare battleground, and in reality it's quiet and just houses, more houses, and a target every so many miles.

got to see my boy toy tonight 😍

i'm going to the grocery store, by something for dinner, eat said dinner, and then relax with some video games with friends. nothing to be done except thrive in spite of evil.

have hope, friends. we're going to be okay.

made this at work today:

me when i undoubtedly put sugar ray on:

bonus selfie from Saturday 🥰

we started watching the king of the hill revival last night and have been having an absolute blast with it. i really thought it was going to land flat, but they really have hit like the old stuff so far.

tonight's itinerary:

be easy on yourself, girls.

you can't give people the love they need if you can't give that to yourself.

got pulled into a commerical sales meeting at work this mornign and had to give an impromptu presentation, and i think i did well. 🙂

like an evangelical communion in every sip

the last thing you see before you die is this:

the last thing you smell before you die is wet cat food:

sunday itinerary:

this is my partner's bird mal! mal has bird epilepsy and is gay for his cockatiel boyfriend 🥰

everybody say hi mal!

this is my partner charlotte! we just celebrated 3 years together, and she is my best friend in the whole wide world. she got me into rollerblading and is also my successful uhaul lesbian love story 🥰

hi hi! i'm meli! just a trans girl from chicago that loves rollerblading, video games, movies, and comic books. 💚

you can also find me writing sci-fantasy and horror stories, posting pictures of my cats, and watching king of the hill.

she/her 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈