Cheryl McNeilly
cherylmcneillyphd.bsky.social
Cheryl McNeilly
@cherylmcneillyphd.bsky.social
child of the 70s
(mostly cat pix)
i really would be somewhere extremely remote by now, with a shaved head and new identity
November 22, 2025 at 1:21 AM
So do I! Always read her, always will.
November 22, 2025 at 12:02 AM
did someone slip him amphetamine in his diet coke?
November 21, 2025 at 11:57 PM
I've been laughing so hard that I actually forgot about the extreme pain from my leg that I broke yesterday.

This is marvelous. I am awestruck.
November 21, 2025 at 11:54 PM
i think the main prompt for the altruistic behavior (giving a seat) is being reminded about altruism, not possible punishment.

There's a whole line of psych research on environmental variables that increase altruism, and one powerful variable is watching an altruistic act.
November 21, 2025 at 11:28 PM
excellent! will start rummaging through my disguise closet
November 21, 2025 at 11:22 PM
don't tell sandal but i'm going to try resubmitting my application tomorrow but i'm going to wear a hat, different clothes, and possibly a mustache
November 21, 2025 at 11:21 PM
sandal's face looks exactly like the grouchy old lady in the graduate college office who inspected dissertations for correct margins, pagination, etc.

She rejected a LOT of submissions
November 21, 2025 at 11:18 PM
My state is a one-person consent state re recording -- if yours is you can do it openly or secretly. We ended up with an attorney attending every meeting, and he recorded everything. It got a lot more civilized from there.
November 21, 2025 at 10:54 PM
The IEP team had all sorts of ways to tell us they thought we were out of line when we were just trying to get them to comply. It's just a tactic, and IMHO is born of laziness.

Our situation became really ugly, and involved recording every minute of the meeting (to keep them from lying to us).
November 21, 2025 at 10:51 PM
my little cat is sometimes peacefully snoozing on me, or in my lap, or I'm absentmindedly petting her -- and I have absolutely no idea how long she's been there
November 21, 2025 at 6:00 PM
also, socialism? why? how about "raw sewage" or "rabid bats"?
November 21, 2025 at 5:50 PM
here's hoping this is just a warmup for some actual work one of these days
November 21, 2025 at 5:48 PM
No. Nope. Not ok.
November 21, 2025 at 4:45 PM
The U.S. has let down the entire world. We deserve to be international pariahs until we re-establish a functional democracy.

May our entire U.S. oligarchy drop dead and be whisked off to hell.
November 21, 2025 at 4:36 PM
i laughed through till the end, then she said "amen" as if her whining had been a prayer and then all i wanted was to slap her
November 21, 2025 at 4:26 PM
me neither, flanoy!
my face looks just like that
November 21, 2025 at 4:17 PM
black cat in sunlight!
November 21, 2025 at 10:00 AM
I regularly listen to Casefile, which is Aussie, and the accent is so comforting that the icky crime details sort of fade out a little.
November 21, 2025 at 4:24 AM
Thankfully everyone at home is being tremendously helpful, and the boys are being very protective. Feels like the next few days are going to be rough, but I'll figure it out.

I had no idea how much stuff I carry around the house -- with no hands free I'm going to have to wear a backpack.
November 21, 2025 at 3:48 AM
I got a PIC line bacterial infection once during a migraine hospitalization. Can also happen with regular IVs - I can't remember most of the three days because I was delirious, and I'm lucky to be alive.

NEVER risk skin bacteria entering your bloodstream. Not worth the risk.
November 21, 2025 at 2:38 AM
adorable!
November 21, 2025 at 1:09 AM
i think you misspelled "punchable"
November 21, 2025 at 1:01 AM
please let this be real
he's embracing his inner white trash
November 21, 2025 at 12:51 AM