Chelle_the_Humanist
@chellethehumanist.bsky.social
An Autistic Humanist
Sociologist
Sociologist
I have not been 21 in 21 years.
November 24, 2025 at 7:34 AM
I have not been 21 in 21 years.
I used to enjoy saying "it is what it is," but now I realise it is what it is for those who do nothing.
September 8, 2025 at 9:46 AM
I used to enjoy saying "it is what it is," but now I realise it is what it is for those who do nothing.
A bad moment is not a bad day, and a bad day does not equal a bad life.
July 7, 2025 at 2:28 AM
A bad moment is not a bad day, and a bad day does not equal a bad life.
I expected the not guilty verdict, so I am not surprised. The justice system was created to protect those who rank higher in the wealth and influence hierarchy. As a result, they would avoid risking exposure. #diddy
July 3, 2025 at 8:32 AM
I expected the not guilty verdict, so I am not surprised. The justice system was created to protect those who rank higher in the wealth and influence hierarchy. As a result, they would avoid risking exposure. #diddy
Abusers weaponise honesty to avoid accountability. When someone is open about being a terrible person, there is no merit to be given.
June 29, 2025 at 8:45 AM
Abusers weaponise honesty to avoid accountability. When someone is open about being a terrible person, there is no merit to be given.
I left the church because I did not see or feel the energy of a loving Jesus. And now I know that energy never existed. I related to the loving message because love has always come from within me. I am love, and so are you. I stopped giving away my power to an unidentified ghost.
June 27, 2025 at 4:42 PM
I left the church because I did not see or feel the energy of a loving Jesus. And now I know that energy never existed. I related to the loving message because love has always come from within me. I am love, and so are you. I stopped giving away my power to an unidentified ghost.
I do not think Christians understand that if a god exists, it must exist outside of collective consciousness, outside of what we may or may not feel and experience that we label as "god," or as a result of "god."
June 10, 2025 at 4:07 PM
I do not think Christians understand that if a god exists, it must exist outside of collective consciousness, outside of what we may or may not feel and experience that we label as "god," or as a result of "god."
In romantic relationships, there is a distinction between a desire to communicate and surveillance.
June 4, 2025 at 5:59 AM
In romantic relationships, there is a distinction between a desire to communicate and surveillance.
You cannot threaten me with your absence because your presence is extremely annoying, so please leave.
May 19, 2025 at 6:07 AM
You cannot threaten me with your absence because your presence is extremely annoying, so please leave.
You should enquire as to what he imagines when he dreams of his dream girl. His dream could be your worst nightmare.
May 10, 2025 at 4:00 AM
You should enquire as to what he imagines when he dreams of his dream girl. His dream could be your worst nightmare.
Reposted by Chelle_the_Humanist
I feel I need to remind everyone that religious trauma is real and is coded into the body the same as other traumas. Everyone’s bodies code different experiences as traumatic so while religion is not inherently traumatic to everyone, it doesn’t mean there aren’t millions with real cPTSD from it rn.
May 3, 2025 at 6:13 PM
I feel I need to remind everyone that religious trauma is real and is coded into the body the same as other traumas. Everyone’s bodies code different experiences as traumatic so while religion is not inherently traumatic to everyone, it doesn’t mean there aren’t millions with real cPTSD from it rn.
Your romantic/intimate relationships should be safe for you.
May 4, 2025 at 4:09 PM
Your romantic/intimate relationships should be safe for you.
Sociopaths have no concern for human feelings, and psychopaths have no regard for human life.
May 3, 2025 at 8:23 PM
Sociopaths have no concern for human feelings, and psychopaths have no regard for human life.
You do not throw a fit when you are not chosen; you say "okay" and move the fuck on.
April 20, 2025 at 7:22 AM
You do not throw a fit when you are not chosen; you say "okay" and move the fuck on.
Forgiveness only pacifies you and makes it easier for them to hurt you again.
April 7, 2025 at 6:03 AM
Forgiveness only pacifies you and makes it easier for them to hurt you again.
All men need to do to hurt women and children is what they have been doing, which is to harm us at will. If the men are going to cause harm, they will just continue to do so at home, at church, or at a school. But dressing as a woman? That is not what is happening.
March 14, 2025 at 12:57 AM
All men need to do to hurt women and children is what they have been doing, which is to harm us at will. If the men are going to cause harm, they will just continue to do so at home, at church, or at a school. But dressing as a woman? That is not what is happening.
Maintaining an unhealthy relationship is not an accomplishment. Being brave enough to want better for yourself and to leave is.
March 2, 2025 at 7:28 PM
Maintaining an unhealthy relationship is not an accomplishment. Being brave enough to want better for yourself and to leave is.
I have never lost a man worth keeping.
March 2, 2025 at 7:23 PM
I have never lost a man worth keeping.
I need people to accept that someone is not closeted because they have not made their sexuality and sexual preferences public knowledge (Disclaimer: predatory behavior is unacceptable in private or public and should not be considered here).
March 1, 2025 at 5:47 PM
I need people to accept that someone is not closeted because they have not made their sexuality and sexual preferences public knowledge (Disclaimer: predatory behavior is unacceptable in private or public and should not be considered here).
Abusive persons regard defending yourself against their mistreatment of you as disrespectful.
February 25, 2025 at 4:47 PM
Abusive persons regard defending yourself against their mistreatment of you as disrespectful.
Just because you have abandoned who you are doesn't mean that others have to do the same.
February 22, 2025 at 9:47 AM
Just because you have abandoned who you are doesn't mean that others have to do the same.
Decisions and feelings are different; you can still make good choices even when things are uncertain and you're anxious.
February 16, 2025 at 5:25 AM
Decisions and feelings are different; you can still make good choices even when things are uncertain and you're anxious.
You can have my empathy, but not my humanity. — Tammie
February 16, 2025 at 3:44 AM
You can have my empathy, but not my humanity. — Tammie
I am not grateful for things I don't want. The thought only counts when it's thoughtfully considering what I want.
February 15, 2025 at 8:14 PM
I am not grateful for things I don't want. The thought only counts when it's thoughtfully considering what I want.
Fighting sleep
February 12, 2025 at 8:02 AM
Fighting sleep