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Anybody inquiring beyond anything more than surface level would have to, otherwise I imagine it'll be summarized as just the discontent with the previous administration and the postcovid economy, and the xeno/trans phobia, because it's unbelievable just how well that played out with this demographic
July 3, 2025 at 11:04 PM
Anybody inquiring beyond anything more than surface level would have to, otherwise I imagine it'll be summarized as just the discontent with the previous administration and the postcovid economy, and the xeno/trans phobia, because it's unbelievable just how well that played out with this demographic
But in regards to why they would vote for a campaign openly and loudly promising massive deportations of people who look like them, like with any other "(insert minority) for Trump," it's the lack of self worth that's vapidly validated with being made to believe they may be "one of the good ones."
July 3, 2025 at 10:42 PM
But in regards to why they would vote for a campaign openly and loudly promising massive deportations of people who look like them, like with any other "(insert minority) for Trump," it's the lack of self worth that's vapidly validated with being made to believe they may be "one of the good ones."
Appeal to conservative and religious values, fear mongering of trans people, xenophobic sentiment in regards to other people who "didn't work as hard as them to get here receiving handouts from the radical left," a dash of misogynist/racist skepticism electing a woman of color for president.
July 3, 2025 at 10:38 PM
Appeal to conservative and religious values, fear mongering of trans people, xenophobic sentiment in regards to other people who "didn't work as hard as them to get here receiving handouts from the radical left," a dash of misogynist/racist skepticism electing a woman of color for president.
And now I get the disappointment in not finding any merch with your colors or the mention of your tribe, hopefully we'll see that change in coming years along with more people you can instantly connect with through this worldview. You will always belong in queer spaces, happy pride!
June 17, 2025 at 3:40 AM
And now I get the disappointment in not finding any merch with your colors or the mention of your tribe, hopefully we'll see that change in coming years along with more people you can instantly connect with through this worldview. You will always belong in queer spaces, happy pride!
Alright, this is great! Everything in the link is super helpful, but having your firsthand experience and explanation so thoroughly makes me feel like I've really learned something. Thank you so much for your patience all throughout today.
June 17, 2025 at 3:40 AM
Alright, this is great! Everything in the link is super helpful, but having your firsthand experience and explanation so thoroughly makes me feel like I've really learned something. Thank you so much for your patience all throughout today.
Sorry if the question is dumb or insensitive, I can infer from unlabeled that you don't wanna be clumped up to any existing "category," including asexual, so I'm assuming some sexual attraction exists. Or is it pretty much preferring not to talk about it at all? Which, valid, haha.
June 16, 2025 at 9:52 PM
Sorry if the question is dumb or insensitive, I can infer from unlabeled that you don't wanna be clumped up to any existing "category," including asexual, so I'm assuming some sexual attraction exists. Or is it pretty much preferring not to talk about it at all? Which, valid, haha.
Similar to the discourse of bisexual/pansexual, where to external parties the manifestation may look the same, but what matters is the perspective of the individual and their approach to sexuality, what would you say the distinction is between unlabeled and something like demisexual?
June 16, 2025 at 9:52 PM
Similar to the discourse of bisexual/pansexual, where to external parties the manifestation may look the same, but what matters is the perspective of the individual and their approach to sexuality, what would you say the distinction is between unlabeled and something like demisexual?
So I would love to learn more about this, even though it's not your job to educate anybody, but you are the first unlabeled person I know of that goes to pride events, and it'd be a good way to create what seems to be overdue awareness for it? But obviously your choice.
June 16, 2025 at 9:51 PM
So I would love to learn more about this, even though it's not your job to educate anybody, but you are the first unlabeled person I know of that goes to pride events, and it'd be a good way to create what seems to be overdue awareness for it? But obviously your choice.
Now, I'm not saying a person who's unlabeled must share those views, but simply that the people I'm referring to exist. It made me correlate Unlabeled not with someone who wants the community of queer people, but as someone more concerned with rejecting kinship with it.
June 16, 2025 at 9:51 PM
Now, I'm not saying a person who's unlabeled must share those views, but simply that the people I'm referring to exist. It made me correlate Unlabeled not with someone who wants the community of queer people, but as someone more concerned with rejecting kinship with it.
All I know about the Unlabeled label (pardon the semantics) and all I've encountered from people who use it is the types of experiences I mentioned before, such as men who express a degree of curiosity and attraction for homoeroticism, but that look down on "full-on" queer people.
June 16, 2025 at 9:51 PM
All I know about the Unlabeled label (pardon the semantics) and all I've encountered from people who use it is the types of experiences I mentioned before, such as men who express a degree of curiosity and attraction for homoeroticism, but that look down on "full-on" queer people.
Just by the snippets of your life that you post here, like somewhat recently you said you've referred to a future partner as they for some time and what it means to you, it gave me that impression of ongoing journey. Obviously I was wrong, and now I know you've been out as unlabeled for 2 years.
June 16, 2025 at 9:50 PM
Just by the snippets of your life that you post here, like somewhat recently you said you've referred to a future partner as they for some time and what it means to you, it gave me that impression of ongoing journey. Obviously I was wrong, and now I know you've been out as unlabeled for 2 years.
To be honest, and as I obviously had in mind when I reached out this morning, I had the impression that you were openly and consciously still at a discovery stage of finding your place within the queer spectrum, and that Unlabeled was the more accurate way to describe that.
June 16, 2025 at 9:50 PM
To be honest, and as I obviously had in mind when I reached out this morning, I had the impression that you were openly and consciously still at a discovery stage of finding your place within the queer spectrum, and that Unlabeled was the more accurate way to describe that.
I said "thank you for, at the very least, being an ally," meaning that regardless of how you may present or come off to others in your everyday life, you are at least outspokenly supportive of the LGBTQ+ community. I didn't mean that that was your only place within it, and I'm sorry I wasn't clear.
June 16, 2025 at 5:51 PM
I said "thank you for, at the very least, being an ally," meaning that regardless of how you may present or come off to others in your everyday life, you are at least outspokenly supportive of the LGBTQ+ community. I didn't mean that that was your only place within it, and I'm sorry I wasn't clear.
I wish you the best on your ongoing journey on and toward happiness, and that you are able to find the word or words that feel like home to you, even if they can't cover the complexity of your being on their own. And I hope that whatever those words are, you can feel so proud of them.
June 16, 2025 at 4:22 PM
I wish you the best on your ongoing journey on and toward happiness, and that you are able to find the word or words that feel like home to you, even if they can't cover the complexity of your being on their own. And I hope that whatever those words are, you can feel so proud of them.
I've followed you on here for a while and have always found you to be a thoughtful, caring individual with fun quirks and great capacity to communicate your plethora of views and feelings about the challenging world around us. Thank you for, at the very least, being an ally.
June 16, 2025 at 4:22 PM
I've followed you on here for a while and have always found you to be a thoughtful, caring individual with fun quirks and great capacity to communicate your plethora of views and feelings about the challenging world around us. Thank you for, at the very least, being an ally.
Ultimately, these labels exist for a reason, and whether some may rely heavily on them to define their personality or not, they describe features of our sexuality that not only serve as markers to others, but show that we're proud to be something the world convinced us was bad and we're making good.
June 16, 2025 at 4:22 PM
Ultimately, these labels exist for a reason, and whether some may rely heavily on them to define their personality or not, they describe features of our sexuality that not only serve as markers to others, but show that we're proud to be something the world convinced us was bad and we're making good.
By nature, in particular with our individualistic western values, we are often put off by being put in a box like we're in some type of assembly line, and it's your right to reject it altogether, but then you have to grapple with the consequence that that may isolate you from a sense of belonging.
June 16, 2025 at 4:21 PM
By nature, in particular with our individualistic western values, we are often put off by being put in a box like we're in some type of assembly line, and it's your right to reject it altogether, but then you have to grapple with the consequence that that may isolate you from a sense of belonging.
Part of the never easy discovery journey of our self is letting go of views we were indoctrinated into. Even as an openly and proud gay man, it took me YEARS to come to terms with the fact that I was, indeed, one of the gay men I'd been made to fear and look down on my whole life.
June 16, 2025 at 4:21 PM
Part of the never easy discovery journey of our self is letting go of views we were indoctrinated into. Even as an openly and proud gay man, it took me YEARS to come to terms with the fact that I was, indeed, one of the gay men I'd been made to fear and look down on my whole life.
You can see so many instances online —not at all related to you— of men doing mental gymnastics to come up with a term that makes it clear that even though they get turned on with the idea of playing with a dick, they are DEFINITELY not gay or bi or any of that f*ggot bullshit.
June 16, 2025 at 4:21 PM
You can see so many instances online —not at all related to you— of men doing mental gymnastics to come up with a term that makes it clear that even though they get turned on with the idea of playing with a dick, they are DEFINITELY not gay or bi or any of that f*ggot bullshit.
It's totally okay to not feel comfortable with any of the existing labels while you're still figuring out and trying to define what it is that you want to live openly as, but also understand that pushing for an "unlabeled" community can lead to erasure for others who have fought to find that pride.
June 16, 2025 at 4:20 PM
It's totally okay to not feel comfortable with any of the existing labels while you're still figuring out and trying to define what it is that you want to live openly as, but also understand that pushing for an "unlabeled" community can lead to erasure for others who have fought to find that pride.
Yes, the only thing I liked about skyrim, which I immediately dropped after
April 11, 2025 at 4:25 AM
Yes, the only thing I liked about skyrim, which I immediately dropped after
That's true, I guess that realization is just hitting harder now than ever with the look of the console being virtually the same (though admittedly it is a pretty minimalist design and little could be done to change it) and the name of it having a big ol' 2 in front of it. Again, still very excited.
January 16, 2025 at 8:47 PM
That's true, I guess that realization is just hitting harder now than ever with the look of the console being virtually the same (though admittedly it is a pretty minimalist design and little could be done to change it) and the name of it having a big ol' 2 in front of it. Again, still very excited.
--the fact that this is not a console upgrade like the DSi or the Switch OLED, but the official next console to take us to the 2030s, it's a bit underwhelming. The failure of the WiiU is what bred the innovation of the Switch, and it's sad that only that type of financial do-or-die inspires such.
January 16, 2025 at 6:36 PM
--the fact that this is not a console upgrade like the DSi or the Switch OLED, but the official next console to take us to the 2030s, it's a bit underwhelming. The failure of the WiiU is what bred the innovation of the Switch, and it's sad that only that type of financial do-or-die inspires such.
I completely understand why it's good business to go this route, and like I said, I know with certainty that the games to come will be great, but Nintendo has established themselves in a league of their own —gone are the days of the console wars— due to their imaginative approach to gaming, and--
January 16, 2025 at 6:29 PM
I completely understand why it's good business to go this route, and like I said, I know with certainty that the games to come will be great, but Nintendo has established themselves in a league of their own —gone are the days of the console wars— due to their imaginative approach to gaming, and--
I'm telling you, would a depressed person do this??
December 5, 2024 at 3:49 PM
I'm telling you, would a depressed person do this??