yea fair sorry i misinterpreted you, i definitely saw that in some places

yeah clothes is straight up a nightmare, combined with poverty, in five years we have like. next to no clothes we actually like. at the same time, i'm literally surrounded by fat trans women both irl and online, the support and love definitely exist. it's not really a hopeless existence.

i mean i think you should kill people who hate you for being a fat trans woman. it sure sucks, just not sure if what you're saying is the best attitude to have to keep living in a world where people hate you.

other people being evil is no good reason to hate who you are. though the oppression does make it unbearably difficult. whatever. have a glass of wine. 🍷

though i have to say that men have more respected options later on, even if it doesn't help in the moment. either way, it's about finding the right people and accepting yourself, and that doesn't happen by making yourself out to be a cautionary tale, the worst that could happen to anyone.

it's interesting how being fat is a source of dysphoria for both transfems *and* transmascs because being fat isn't included as part of any "self-respecting" and accepted gender expression. "being fat makes me look like a guy" and "being fat makes me look like a girl" happen with equal frequency.

not saying you're evil or whatever to be clear, and there is various Concerning stuff common in some transfem spaces that is "supposed to" improve transition (weight cycling), but overall i've encountered fatphobia and girls starving themselves mid-transition everywhere, and the contrary nowhere.

literally every person i know lol, please find better internet. i mean also generally this sounds sorta fatphobic and transphobic, as if this is the worst possible fate, and that's sorta unoptimal if it's internalized. like i'm a fat trans woman and i love it and everyone i know also does.