Zeeke
@candidcafe.bsky.social
Family man on the verge of mental breakdown. This account is my way to cope.
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Zeeke
@candidcafe.bsky.social
· Jan 11
Respect isn’t optional. I’m her partner, not her emotional punching bag or complaint outlet. Funny how I was a stranger before 'I do,' and staying one might be the only way to earn her respect. #MarriageMatters #RespectGoesBothWays #KnowYourWorth
My wife told me I'm resentful and hold grudges. A wolf in sheep's clothing. She was the one keep reminding me of my past errors in various conversations. That's what wives do, right? She's always right and her husband always wrong?
February 11, 2025 at 12:37 AM
My wife told me I'm resentful and hold grudges. A wolf in sheep's clothing. She was the one keep reminding me of my past errors in various conversations. That's what wives do, right? She's always right and her husband always wrong?
Hmm... I think I have just made a big mistake.
January 14, 2025 at 2:24 PM
Hmm... I think I have just made a big mistake.
When she calms down, I have always been resolved to forgive her. But it has happened to often already. Maybe it's time that I should stay out of her, creating some distance. So I won't be hurt again when she starts acting up.
#BuildingUpDefenses
#BuildingUpDefenses
January 14, 2025 at 4:43 AM
When she calms down, I have always been resolved to forgive her. But it has happened to often already. Maybe it's time that I should stay out of her, creating some distance. So I won't be hurt again when she starts acting up.
#BuildingUpDefenses
#BuildingUpDefenses
Men, it’s time to set boundaries and prioritize personal growth. Create space for reflection and let her adjust to the new you, instead of you bending to her every demand.
#SelfGrowth
#Boundaries
#PersonalDevelopment
#HealthyRelationships
#SelfGrowth
#Boundaries
#PersonalDevelopment
#HealthyRelationships
January 12, 2025 at 12:29 PM
Men, it’s time to set boundaries and prioritize personal growth. Create space for reflection and let her adjust to the new you, instead of you bending to her every demand.
#SelfGrowth
#Boundaries
#PersonalDevelopment
#HealthyRelationships
#SelfGrowth
#Boundaries
#PersonalDevelopment
#HealthyRelationships
Behind her angelic smile lies a master manipulator. #TruthHurts
January 12, 2025 at 12:22 PM
Behind her angelic smile lies a master manipulator. #TruthHurts
Her love was conditional. Her wrath was endless.
I stayed for love. She stayed for control.
#WakeUpCall
#ToxicRelationship
I stayed for love. She stayed for control.
#WakeUpCall
#ToxicRelationship
January 12, 2025 at 12:22 PM
Her love was conditional. Her wrath was endless.
I stayed for love. She stayed for control.
#WakeUpCall
#ToxicRelationship
I stayed for love. She stayed for control.
#WakeUpCall
#ToxicRelationship
My silence was my survival, but it only made her louder.
#LearnedHelplessness
#LearnedHelplessness
January 12, 2025 at 12:20 PM
My silence was my survival, but it only made her louder.
#LearnedHelplessness
#LearnedHelplessness
Since when did marriage become a battlefield where I always have to surrender? #MarriageStruggles #RelationshipThoughts #EmotionalReflections #MarriageMatters #LifeJourney
January 12, 2025 at 1:37 AM
Since when did marriage become a battlefield where I always have to surrender? #MarriageStruggles #RelationshipThoughts #EmotionalReflections #MarriageMatters #LifeJourney
The one and only reason I prefer this brand was bcoz their service center is just around the corner.
#skeptical
#skeptical
January 12, 2025 at 1:21 AM
The one and only reason I prefer this brand was bcoz their service center is just around the corner.
#skeptical
#skeptical
Respect isn’t optional. I’m her partner, not her emotional punching bag or complaint outlet. Funny how I was a stranger before 'I do,' and staying one might be the only way to earn her respect. #MarriageMatters #RespectGoesBothWays #KnowYourWorth
January 11, 2025 at 11:52 PM
Respect isn’t optional. I’m her partner, not her emotional punching bag or complaint outlet. Funny how I was a stranger before 'I do,' and staying one might be the only way to earn her respect. #MarriageMatters #RespectGoesBothWays #KnowYourWorth
Nobody warned me that saying 'I do' was like signing a deal with the devil. Should’ve guessed it when a priest was part of the process.
#MarriageBlues
#SoldMySoul
#WeddingRegrets
#PriestlyWarnings
#TillDeathOrRegret
#MarriageBlues
#SoldMySoul
#WeddingRegrets
#PriestlyWarnings
#TillDeathOrRegret
January 11, 2025 at 11:44 PM
Nobody warned me that saying 'I do' was like signing a deal with the devil. Should’ve guessed it when a priest was part of the process.
#MarriageBlues
#SoldMySoul
#WeddingRegrets
#PriestlyWarnings
#TillDeathOrRegret
#MarriageBlues
#SoldMySoul
#WeddingRegrets
#PriestlyWarnings
#TillDeathOrRegret
The more you give to a woman, the less she values you. She'll build this mental sickness, believing she is entitled and it is your job to keep giving to her.
#RealityCheck
#RealityCheck
January 11, 2025 at 1:19 PM
The more you give to a woman, the less she values you. She'll build this mental sickness, believing she is entitled and it is your job to keep giving to her.
#RealityCheck
#RealityCheck
Women preach independence but want men to shoulder their burdens.
#Contradiction
#Contradiction
January 11, 2025 at 1:13 PM
Women preach independence but want men to shoulder their burdens.
#Contradiction
#Contradiction
Trust a woman, and she'll betray you when it benefits her most. Just like fellow men.
#LessonsLearned
#LessonsLearned
January 11, 2025 at 11:41 AM
Trust a woman, and she'll betray you when it benefits her most. Just like fellow men.
#LessonsLearned
#LessonsLearned
Women demands love, but refuse to earn it. They think they themselves must be loved. Well, sister, there are millions of you out there, and only 1 love that I have.
#TruthHurts
#TruthHurts
January 11, 2025 at 11:11 AM
Women demands love, but refuse to earn it. They think they themselves must be loved. Well, sister, there are millions of you out there, and only 1 love that I have.
#TruthHurts
#TruthHurts
January 11, 2025 at 10:23 AM
I stayed to fixed things, but I was the one who broke.
#Shattered
#Shattered
January 11, 2025 at 8:31 AM
I stayed to fixed things, but I was the one who broke.
#Shattered
#Shattered
Some women don't want a partner; They want a trash can.
#EmotionalTrashCan
#EmotionalTrashCan
January 11, 2025 at 3:51 AM
Some women don't want a partner; They want a trash can.
#EmotionalTrashCan
#EmotionalTrashCan
How did I end up as the villain in a story I never wrote?
#TiredOfGames
#TiredOfGames
January 11, 2025 at 1:49 AM
How did I end up as the villain in a story I never wrote?
#TiredOfGames
#TiredOfGames
January 11, 2025 at 1:30 AM
Her words were sweet venom, poisoning me slowly.
#Manipulation
#Manipulation
January 11, 2025 at 1:11 AM
Her words were sweet venom, poisoning me slowly.
#Manipulation
#Manipulation
It's not love if it's only there to hurt you.
#ToxicLove
#ToxicLove
January 10, 2025 at 6:13 PM
It's not love if it's only there to hurt you.
#ToxicLove
#ToxicLove