Don't really care about them talking shit, just about them shrugging off the safety or needs of their pets.

It's hard for me to ignore that so I just try to advocate for them when and where I can.

I pointed out the non-ionized radiation isn't going to give me cancer, kill me immediately or even cook my flesh unless I leave my hand in there, but goddamn, not a safe appliance to have running at face level.

My concern was met with

"it's fine - it not gonna do anything to you"

I'm sure some of the condescension stems from when I was worried about using the old microwave - because, as you attempted to grab your food, it started turning BACK ON and RUNNING with the door OPEN.

sometimes it be like that tho

as a treat!

fr I have a wedding I'm supposed to go to in December, but there's a good chance I'm not going to be able to.

I'm supposed to be a bridesmaid, I've known her for 20+ years, and she's my best friend and I probably can't make it to her fucking wedding.

I had already lost so many things that held sentimental value through 2 sudden moves I didn't want to make - while they go buy their 27th fucking lamp from goodwill

I mean... crisis averted - BUT WTF

THE CHICKEN IS FINE
ITS NOT EVEN BURNT
WTAF

ANYWAYS

-> because initially when i tried unlocking it, the little display screen beeped at me and read "TOO HOT" and the small gap you make trying to open the door when locked resulted in a small greasy billow of smoke, and the door was warm on the outside which it never is-

UPDATE: I was terrified I was going to open the door of the oven and find a blackened mess of metal and chicken and freaking out trying to figure out how I would explain this to my landlord ->