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Sophie (she/faer) - intersectionality ✊ - "MDNI" DNI
@cafesoftie.bsky.social
🤷‍♀️ i wanna just be a kid, but also, i need everyone to be free, so i guess ill just keep struggling.

Ppl with "Minor DNI" in your profile DNI. Meanwhile, anti-fascists of all ages may interact with me 🩷
For my 30 minute bus ride I'd stare off into the trees and imagine magical things in the forests.

Then i moved so close to a school that id hear the warning bell and run out the door... And still usually be late... But barely!
December 13, 2025 at 1:56 PM
Public school teachers can be the absolute best and worst of society.

The people who love children and the people who knew they sucked at their undergrad and pivoted to teachers college for "an easy job".
December 13, 2025 at 1:53 PM
I know you're in crisis, but this lack of healthcare is yet another reason we (collectively) need to be doing everything possible to bring upon revolution. Internationally, from the Netherlands to the Philippines to Palestine to Canada.
December 11, 2025 at 12:26 PM
No tests? Shouldn't they also try to figure out what's causing the pain? If there's no direct tests, then shouldn't they have a diet specialist person try to help?

There should be more support...

(I say this, but in my region [Ontario, Canada] they tell me the same when it comes to stomach pain.)
December 11, 2025 at 12:24 PM
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This is in response to a post i saw that argued that we should stop policing what people post, but then they blocked comments and even blocked quote reposts.

Their post was exactly the kind that invites dialogue, so it should have been open. It's a conversation that requires nuance, not reaction
December 7, 2025 at 3:03 PM
So put yourself outside in the wind, and tough out the wind, so you can grow taller!

🌳
December 7, 2025 at 3:00 PM
Oh, the counter productive thing, i forgot to say it. Exercising and eating healthily, so your strong enough to easily climb things, like counters. Also flexibility makes it easier. Also eating healthily mean veggies and protein.

IMO the healthier i am, the more i feel myself and myself is small.
December 7, 2025 at 2:50 PM
Even when i was 190, my 120 ex-gf was never bothered by all of my weight on her.

Sure, i wish i was smaller, but looking in the mirror, i look cute. When people hold me, i feel small.
December 7, 2025 at 2:50 PM
I know it might sound counter productive, but what has helped me, is simply "being" smaller. Like... I climb things, my kitchen counters, stairs, standing on a bench or on anything. Also leaning on others (trust me, we aren't that heavy.
December 7, 2025 at 2:50 PM
Also, on the psychology side of things. I know that it being dark by 4pm, has been really hard on me. I'm going out of my way to be with others during these (literally) dark times.
December 7, 2025 at 2:43 PM
Colourful snow-pant overalls and a skirt over top!

Im surprised more ppl don't wear a skirt over snowpants 🤷‍♀️
December 7, 2025 at 2:42 PM
That'd either be lonely OR you'd just lie about your age, which is MORE dangerous!!
December 4, 2025 at 4:10 AM
Also i just checked out your profile and it says your 22. You're barely above 18. Why is it always the youngest ppl kicking the ladder from under them x.x.

Did u seriously have no yearning to be in community w ppl who shared your fetish interest just 5 years ago?
December 4, 2025 at 4:10 AM
I realize skin colour is vague as heck, lol. My point is that it's pushed by rich fascists. Internet censorship, including of youths, is another feather in the cap of white supremacist fascism. The youth are our strongest Vanguard against white supremacy. (based off the limited history ive read)
December 4, 2025 at 4:03 AM
Look up adultism and youth liberation stuff to learn more.

Im defending their right to participate in the community here.

As for the white supremacy stuff, check out who funds the "keep kids safe online" bills that have been sweeping globally. Hint: it has a certain skin colour behind it.
December 4, 2025 at 4:00 AM
Do you consider talking about sex with a teenager "not ok"? Do you think abstinence education is effective? Do you think it's best to pretend sex doesn't exist, with teenagers?

Children are the most marginalized group on earth, because we don't treat them like equal human beings.
December 4, 2025 at 4:00 AM
You should investigate why you wrote "inappropriate in general". Why do you think kink is inappropriate for teenagers? What do you think that is "in general" ie. Common sense?
"A lot of" does that mean we should apply your rational to all kinks? What do u mean by "engaging with that"?
December 4, 2025 at 4:00 AM
Those people (who want to take advantage of them) exist everywhere, esp real life. We live in a white supremacist society that grooms children ubiquitously.

So what makes Bluesky kink spaces uniquely harmful?

Fun fact, the most likely person to SA a child is their uncle. Not some stranger.
December 4, 2025 at 3:46 AM
What a horrifying world we live in.

I... I think i miss clip art 😰
December 4, 2025 at 3:42 AM
Tbc, people (incl me) will always be here if you need it. So if another issue comes up, ask for help again!

We need to be there for each other, always.
November 23, 2025 at 7:24 PM