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My mother used to love this song.

I’ve definitely been considering joining.

I’m medication-compliant, I’ve been in therapy for 4 consecutive years (but have gone to sessions on and off since I was 15), and I work on bettering myself on my own because the work is never done—and that’s not a bad thing.

Maybe I’m just overthinking it, I don’t know. But it’s not a fun feeling.

I’ve learned a lot from DBT as well as simply growing up and gaining the sort of perspective one only acquires from getting older, but I will always misstep in such a way without understanding which unspoken rules I’ve broken, even when I ask in as kind and non-(passive)aggressive a manner as I can.

I don’t mean that in a guilt-trippy way; I am the driver of my own life and although many of the things that have happened to me and the unique way that my brain works aren’t my fault, they’re still my responsibility (and, indeed, my moral imperative) to manage. It’s just very lonely and confusing.

Yup. 💀 Oh well.

Yeah. I was shocked when the moderators removed content I reported (that was posted solely to upset JC fans). I’ve tried to get them to ban this one user that actively harasses JC fans and even goes so far as to admit to doing so, but nothing happened; I had to block them.

They still post there.

You know that one post about a “heterosexual” woman having been set up with a masculine lesbian by her friend and texting said lesbian the very next day trying to act all coy about wanting to fuck again, but immediately getting called out?

Yeah, that’s them to me.

well as a plethora of comments from angry Wngxn shippers. I may not necessarily agree with that user, but it was wholly unnecessary to do. It’s just riling up emotionally volatile people (of whom a large subsection have been shown to happily harass fans they disagree with).

Being a Chengxian shipper makes it especially irksome. Like…JC isn’t real. He can’t decanonize Wngxn. He can’t hurt you. He’s words on paper.

Someone in that subreddit posted some random Chngxn shipper’s opinion about something without censoring their username and it already has 272 upvotes as +

If you like JC, JGY, XY, or even LXC, you’re basically a pariah and on par with being a real-life abuser to a lot of these “fans.”

If LWJ and WWX are such moral paragons to you, then emulate them and strive to do real good in your communities, be they online or offline. They wouldn’t act this way.