Brenda
@brendawambui.bsky.social
Experience Curator | Policy Nerd | Figuring out the platform and protocol
I like taking things/people at face value...WYSIWYG vibes, if a person is treating you with disregard, don't make excuses for them, it's because that's what they want to do. If they're letting things fall into disrepair, it's because that's what they want. Makes things easier IMO.
November 29, 2025 at 3:23 PM
I like taking things/people at face value...WYSIWYG vibes, if a person is treating you with disregard, don't make excuses for them, it's because that's what they want to do. If they're letting things fall into disrepair, it's because that's what they want. Makes things easier IMO.
Lol, it was a mess, my 2023 crush is a very messy character TBH, but that makes them more...intriguing? 🤣 My closest friends have forbidden me from engaging, but we'll see 🤣
A few weeks ago, TikTok (unprovoked, mind you) showed me a post by the ex of my 2023 crush where it was mentioned that they broke up, and now my nosy ass wants to know what happened 😭 Knowledge is power 😂
August 6, 2025 at 8:21 AM
Lol, it was a mess, my 2023 crush is a very messy character TBH, but that makes them more...intriguing? 🤣 My closest friends have forbidden me from engaging, but we'll see 🤣
It always baffles me when someone tries to play neurotypical games with me, especially when they're aware I run a completely different OS...the mess that works over there won't work over here, why even do that honestly? Come at me direct, say what you want, anything else is just a waste of your time
August 6, 2025 at 8:19 AM
It always baffles me when someone tries to play neurotypical games with me, especially when they're aware I run a completely different OS...the mess that works over there won't work over here, why even do that honestly? Come at me direct, say what you want, anything else is just a waste of your time
A few weeks ago, TikTok (unprovoked, mind you) showed me a post by the ex of my 2023 crush where it was mentioned that they broke up, and now my nosy ass wants to know what happened 😭 Knowledge is power 😂
May 13, 2025 at 7:58 PM
A few weeks ago, TikTok (unprovoked, mind you) showed me a post by the ex of my 2023 crush where it was mentioned that they broke up, and now my nosy ass wants to know what happened 😭 Knowledge is power 😂
Happy Star Wars Day everyone!
May 4, 2025 at 1:28 PM
Happy Star Wars Day everyone!
You know, you could do a lot for a person but they still would choose comfort/fear of discomfort over coming out of themselves to honour that, and hide behind the fact that they didn't know if it would be appropriate (that is, plausible deniability). I don't like being right about people this way.
April 17, 2025 at 11:15 PM
You know, you could do a lot for a person but they still would choose comfort/fear of discomfort over coming out of themselves to honour that, and hide behind the fact that they didn't know if it would be appropriate (that is, plausible deniability). I don't like being right about people this way.
Fastest I’ve solved a puzzle in a minute!!
March 31, 2025 at 11:28 PM
Fastest I’ve solved a puzzle in a minute!!
I did it! I’m knackered, but I got it done.
I have to knock out three proposals by Monday while recovering from pneumonia and resting adequately. This is gonna be tough but I'm up for the challenge. Will respond to myself here once I get to the other side! 💪
March 31, 2025 at 5:14 PM
I did it! I’m knackered, but I got it done.
Two of my fave discoveries of the weekend >>>
A fantastic night club, and Savannah 0.0!!! So glad to have an addition to Heineken 0.0!!
A fantastic night club, and Savannah 0.0!!! So glad to have an addition to Heineken 0.0!!
March 31, 2025 at 8:45 AM
Two of my fave discoveries of the weekend >>>
A fantastic night club, and Savannah 0.0!!! So glad to have an addition to Heineken 0.0!!
A fantastic night club, and Savannah 0.0!!! So glad to have an addition to Heineken 0.0!!
Someone from my aerobics class has passed away…I knew and liked her a lot. May she rest in peace. 💔
March 30, 2025 at 10:26 AM
Someone from my aerobics class has passed away…I knew and liked her a lot. May she rest in peace. 💔
When was the last time I heard this song?! ❤️
March 29, 2025 at 4:21 PM
When was the last time I heard this song?! ❤️
Found a new hideout near home. They’re lovely, and insisted on lighting a fire for me. One of the waiters remembers me from one of my Westie hideouts.
Today, I’m grateful for service staff. May the universe always show them great kindness. ❤️
Today, I’m grateful for service staff. May the universe always show them great kindness. ❤️
March 29, 2025 at 4:10 PM
Found a new hideout near home. They’re lovely, and insisted on lighting a fire for me. One of the waiters remembers me from one of my Westie hideouts.
Today, I’m grateful for service staff. May the universe always show them great kindness. ❤️
Today, I’m grateful for service staff. May the universe always show them great kindness. ❤️
Nightcap before bedtime at one of my absolute favourite places in NBO. So happy to have outsided today!
March 28, 2025 at 10:05 PM
Nightcap before bedtime at one of my absolute favourite places in NBO. So happy to have outsided today!
Today I look like a cross between a wellness scammer and a character on SATC and this is dusting me properly 😂 each time I see myself in the mirror I laugh 😂😂😂
March 28, 2025 at 4:01 PM
Today I look like a cross between a wellness scammer and a character on SATC and this is dusting me properly 😂 each time I see myself in the mirror I laugh 😂😂😂
Should I throw a party for my 35th?? I think I should!!
March 28, 2025 at 2:43 PM
Should I throw a party for my 35th?? I think I should!!
Back on Spotify. This has been in my head since morning 😂
March 28, 2025 at 12:33 PM
Back on Spotify. This has been in my head since morning 😂
I have to knock out three proposals by Monday while recovering from pneumonia and resting adequately. This is gonna be tough but I'm up for the challenge. Will respond to myself here once I get to the other side! 💪
March 28, 2025 at 11:40 AM
I have to knock out three proposals by Monday while recovering from pneumonia and resting adequately. This is gonna be tough but I'm up for the challenge. Will respond to myself here once I get to the other side! 💪
Also, in this life, do not get pneumonia 😭😭😭 I haven’t seen dust like this since I had COVID in 2022 😭😭😭
March 27, 2025 at 8:32 PM
Also, in this life, do not get pneumonia 😭😭😭 I haven’t seen dust like this since I had COVID in 2022 😭😭😭
In a (very big) sense, I’m proud of myself for stating my thoughts out loud, fear of the consequences be damned…I’m proud of myself/us for giving it a fair shot, and as my mother says, you should only regret it when you half ass it…I did not half ass it. Onwards.
March 27, 2025 at 8:20 PM
In a (very big) sense, I’m proud of myself for stating my thoughts out loud, fear of the consequences be damned…I’m proud of myself/us for giving it a fair shot, and as my mother says, you should only regret it when you half ass it…I did not half ass it. Onwards.
I need to learn how to grow button and oyster mushrooms. I love mushrooms so much, and I must find a way to ensure I have an unending supply.
March 11, 2025 at 11:57 AM
I need to learn how to grow button and oyster mushrooms. I love mushrooms so much, and I must find a way to ensure I have an unending supply.
I have someone’s power bank and I think they are avoiding me (it’s my former partner’s, lol) should I buy it a cable and claim it as mine? The USB-C is only input, not output, so it needs a USB-A to lightning cable 🤔
February 24, 2025 at 10:20 AM
I have someone’s power bank and I think they are avoiding me (it’s my former partner’s, lol) should I buy it a cable and claim it as mine? The USB-C is only input, not output, so it needs a USB-A to lightning cable 🤔
This coming week is a no-outsiding week. This weekend has been too busy…I have a two dates and that is IT, and it’s because we fixed them a while back, otherwise I’d push them to the weekend after.
February 23, 2025 at 3:37 PM
This coming week is a no-outsiding week. This weekend has been too busy…I have a two dates and that is IT, and it’s because we fixed them a while back, otherwise I’d push them to the weekend after.
I miss small town living FR…a month ago I went to Naivasha and I can see it for me, just a few chickens/ducks, a veggie patch/tiny farm, a mix of mains power/solar power/generator backup, WiFi, a fully kitted out kitchen, a cosy shower and my car, and life would be grand RN.
February 23, 2025 at 3:10 PM
I miss small town living FR…a month ago I went to Naivasha and I can see it for me, just a few chickens/ducks, a veggie patch/tiny farm, a mix of mains power/solar power/generator backup, WiFi, a fully kitted out kitchen, a cosy shower and my car, and life would be grand RN.