Brendan Souvenir (He/Him)
@brendansouvenir.bsky.social
Software Engineer, West Coast Swing Instructor, Shadow Work.
Empathy, Community, and Communication.
Those who deserve grace most are the ones who offer it generously to others, and rarely for themselves.
Empathy, Community, and Communication.
Those who deserve grace most are the ones who offer it generously to others, and rarely for themselves.
Have a list of what your "Needs" and "Nice-To-Haves" are *before* you get into the relationship. And don't compromise your needs. Period.
Build a super strong space for trust in the first 6 months. Be able to say *anything* truly vulnerable to each other during that time.
Follow for more. <3
Build a super strong space for trust in the first 6 months. Be able to say *anything* truly vulnerable to each other during that time.
Follow for more. <3
January 28, 2025 at 10:41 PM
Have a list of what your "Needs" and "Nice-To-Haves" are *before* you get into the relationship. And don't compromise your needs. Period.
Build a super strong space for trust in the first 6 months. Be able to say *anything* truly vulnerable to each other during that time.
Follow for more. <3
Build a super strong space for trust in the first 6 months. Be able to say *anything* truly vulnerable to each other during that time.
Follow for more. <3
Edit: Title is "Why I Won't Vote"
January 28, 2025 at 9:47 PM
Edit: Title is "Why I Won't Vote"
I've been really liking the mantra "Intolerance of intolerance" lately.
People who make a space safe for others who mean well, that's valuable.
But those who are unaccepting of others, and harm them, showing a lack of tolerance for that is important for facilitating a healthy space.
People who make a space safe for others who mean well, that's valuable.
But those who are unaccepting of others, and harm them, showing a lack of tolerance for that is important for facilitating a healthy space.
January 27, 2025 at 11:29 PM
I've been really liking the mantra "Intolerance of intolerance" lately.
People who make a space safe for others who mean well, that's valuable.
But those who are unaccepting of others, and harm them, showing a lack of tolerance for that is important for facilitating a healthy space.
People who make a space safe for others who mean well, that's valuable.
But those who are unaccepting of others, and harm them, showing a lack of tolerance for that is important for facilitating a healthy space.
These people often did not give us space to feel our emotions and rejected our words.
In order to move past this, one must break down that pattern, ask ourselves what happens if we WERE to give ourselves that space, and explore our emotions and self inside that opportunity.
Truest form of self-love
In order to move past this, one must break down that pattern, ask ourselves what happens if we WERE to give ourselves that space, and explore our emotions and self inside that opportunity.
Truest form of self-love
January 24, 2025 at 4:49 PM
These people often did not give us space to feel our emotions and rejected our words.
In order to move past this, one must break down that pattern, ask ourselves what happens if we WERE to give ourselves that space, and explore our emotions and self inside that opportunity.
Truest form of self-love
In order to move past this, one must break down that pattern, ask ourselves what happens if we WERE to give ourselves that space, and explore our emotions and self inside that opportunity.
Truest form of self-love
The fact that you are apologetic, well- intentioned, and selfless, shows that you deserve grace and understanding from others.
True friends wouldn't want to harm you, even when they are harmed. Loving is accepting the unintended harm, providing gentle feedback, and then wanting to be with you still.
True friends wouldn't want to harm you, even when they are harmed. Loving is accepting the unintended harm, providing gentle feedback, and then wanting to be with you still.
January 24, 2025 at 11:21 AM
The fact that you are apologetic, well- intentioned, and selfless, shows that you deserve grace and understanding from others.
True friends wouldn't want to harm you, even when they are harmed. Loving is accepting the unintended harm, providing gentle feedback, and then wanting to be with you still.
True friends wouldn't want to harm you, even when they are harmed. Loving is accepting the unintended harm, providing gentle feedback, and then wanting to be with you still.