Breesays
@breesays.bsky.social
Writer, editor, hiker, solo mom, Ace. Word wizardry for Setlist.fm.
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Breesays
@breesays.bsky.social
· Nov 30
Are you telling me no one wants to be in a relationship where we text every day but only see each other in person every 4-9 months?
Tis the season where I wilfully disturb my own sleep by keeping the Xmas lights on indefinitely. Also the cats undecorating half the tree every night. 🎄
December 18, 2025 at 4:32 AM
Tis the season where I wilfully disturb my own sleep by keeping the Xmas lights on indefinitely. Also the cats undecorating half the tree every night. 🎄
You not getting what you want is not abuse.
December 16, 2025 at 6:11 AM
You not getting what you want is not abuse.
There's a Reason Women Aren't Swooning Over AI Like Men Are
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open.substack.com/pub/thenoosp...
There's a Reason Women Aren't Swooning Over AI Like Men Are
Or rather, a great many reasons
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December 15, 2025 at 6:20 PM
There's a Reason Women Aren't Swooning Over AI Like Men Are
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open.substack.com/pub/thenoosp...
I've never felt more alone than when Googling something and predictive text has no suggestions.
December 13, 2025 at 6:10 AM
I've never felt more alone than when Googling something and predictive text has no suggestions.
My six year old just said, "I'm going to read the sad chapters of this book so I can cry myself to sleep." (The Christmas Pig)
December 11, 2025 at 4:35 AM
My six year old just said, "I'm going to read the sad chapters of this book so I can cry myself to sleep." (The Christmas Pig)
I was eavesdropping on a a conversation the other day about the Mean Girls "would you like someone to butter your muffin" - that made me realize it's... Innuendo? Can someone tell me what it means in a gentle way? I don't understand what the muffin is
December 5, 2025 at 4:45 AM
I was eavesdropping on a a conversation the other day about the Mean Girls "would you like someone to butter your muffin" - that made me realize it's... Innuendo? Can someone tell me what it means in a gentle way? I don't understand what the muffin is
Okay my memoir will be called Coming Of Ace. Once I change all the names, who wants to read? (Actually I need beta readers and feedback) #asexuality #ace (do we use hashtags here?)
November 17, 2025 at 5:00 AM
Okay my memoir will be called Coming Of Ace. Once I change all the names, who wants to read? (Actually I need beta readers and feedback) #asexuality #ace (do we use hashtags here?)
Happy Singles Day (11/11) theconversation.com/singles-day-...
Singles’ Day is a $150B holiday in China. Here’s why I think ‘11/11’ will catch on in the US
Singles are reshaping culture and commerce in Asia. A professor of marketing explains why the US could be next.
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November 11, 2025 at 5:02 PM
Happy Singles Day (11/11) theconversation.com/singles-day-...
My newest interview with All Time Low is up, but so are some previously-lost photos from the time Buzznet (me and Karen) took Alex and Jack to Disneyland, in 2007 www.setlist.fm/news/11-25/m...
Marquee Memories: All Time Low
Alex and Jack on HFStival, the Pop Disaster Tour, The Foos at Reading and Everyone's Talking!
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November 7, 2025 at 7:30 PM
My newest interview with All Time Low is up, but so are some previously-lost photos from the time Buzznet (me and Karen) took Alex and Jack to Disneyland, in 2007 www.setlist.fm/news/11-25/m...
get out of my bed medium.com/@breesays/ge...
Get out of my bed
Have you ever fallen in love with a song, but then take issue with like, one line?
medium.com
October 30, 2025 at 5:46 AM
get out of my bed medium.com/@breesays/ge...
Didn't do much for ace week 2025 - medium.com/@breesays/ac...
Ace Week 2025
And if you’re not getting answers, ask better questions
medium.com
October 26, 2025 at 3:59 AM
Didn't do much for ace week 2025 - medium.com/@breesays/ac...
When you interview @thestruts.bsky.social and (almost) everyone gets the white boots memo
October 10, 2025 at 4:54 AM
When you interview @thestruts.bsky.social and (almost) everyone gets the white boots memo
Watch my newest interview with Travie McCoy of @gymclassheroes.bsky.social on Milli Vanilli, Fall Out Boy and more youtu.be/KelzfiA67AY?...
Marquee Memories: Gym Class Heroes
YouTube video by setlist.fm
youtu.be
October 9, 2025 at 6:51 PM
Watch my newest interview with Travie McCoy of @gymclassheroes.bsky.social on Milli Vanilli, Fall Out Boy and more youtu.be/KelzfiA67AY?...
Joseph Gordon-Levitt: Meta’s A.I. Chatbot Is Dangerous for Kids www.nytimes.com/video/opinio...
Video: Opinion | Joseph Gordon-Levitt: Meta’s A.I. Chatbot Is Dangerous for Kids
Mark Zuckerberg has a vision for how A.I. could be used in Meta’s universe. But the actor and filmmaker Joseph Gordon-Levitt is here to point out a flaw: the lack of federal guardrails around how chat...
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October 6, 2025 at 5:11 PM
Joseph Gordon-Levitt: Meta’s A.I. Chatbot Is Dangerous for Kids www.nytimes.com/video/opinio...
I am enjoying the Taylor Swift discourse more than I am enjoying TS12. Get at me with those articles, theories, comparisons. But I'll be listening to @cartelband.bsky.social Chroma 2025 thanks
October 5, 2025 at 5:23 AM
I am enjoying the Taylor Swift discourse more than I am enjoying TS12. Get at me with those articles, theories, comparisons. But I'll be listening to @cartelband.bsky.social Chroma 2025 thanks
What if there was a genie who granted very mid wishes, like being able to find the exact right item of clothing right away in your laundry chair. Also, I know you have a laundry chair.
October 5, 2025 at 2:16 AM
What if there was a genie who granted very mid wishes, like being able to find the exact right item of clothing right away in your laundry chair. Also, I know you have a laundry chair.
If you go to setlist.fm right now to search for a setlist of your choosing, you will see (pop up) my interview with KennyHoopla
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September 30, 2025 at 5:39 AM
If you go to setlist.fm right now to search for a setlist of your choosing, you will see (pop up) my interview with KennyHoopla
I think Desi Lydic might be my new idol (sorry Gwen) but she is very skinny and several months young than me
September 18, 2025 at 4:28 AM
I think Desi Lydic might be my new idol (sorry Gwen) but she is very skinny and several months young than me
there's a problem with how we talk about young people open.substack.com/pub/angelcak... (agree!)
there's a problem with how we talk about young people
dispatch from someone who is unc
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September 15, 2025 at 7:54 PM
there's a problem with how we talk about young people open.substack.com/pub/angelcak... (agree!)
a dream that turned into a blog: medium.com/@breesays/sh...
She kept my castles
Last night I had a dream that I went back to my childhood home, and the nearly-condemned shed in the backyard was cleaned up, cleared out…
medium.com
September 7, 2025 at 7:21 PM
a dream that turned into a blog: medium.com/@breesays/sh...
new blog: my blackbox warning medium.com/@breesays/bl...
Black Box Warning
There are things I hesitate to write about because those truths, my truths, would alter my future. Maybe no one would read it (If a tree…
medium.com
August 31, 2025 at 8:51 PM
new blog: my blackbox warning medium.com/@breesays/bl...
I wanted to watch "we were liars" bc I liked the book but it was just pretty people staring at each other? Vom
July 5, 2025 at 5:07 AM
I wanted to watch "we were liars" bc I liked the book but it was just pretty people staring at each other? Vom
I need LYMA to stop targeting me. You are a 6k at-home laser. I'm a sucker for self-improvement but I just watched the series finale of Squid Game and know that nothing matters.
July 3, 2025 at 6:05 AM
I need LYMA to stop targeting me. You are a 6k at-home laser. I'm a sucker for self-improvement but I just watched the series finale of Squid Game and know that nothing matters.
I always say I never re-watch TV shows but I realized I put on stand up specials as background alllll the time. Mostly @ilizas.bsky.social and Taylor Tomlinson. "I'm sorry Chad, please don't get out of the kayak."
June 29, 2025 at 4:07 AM
I always say I never re-watch TV shows but I realized I put on stand up specials as background alllll the time. Mostly @ilizas.bsky.social and Taylor Tomlinson. "I'm sorry Chad, please don't get out of the kayak."