I wrote more about conditional belonging, transactional intimacy, and where real power actually lives here:
theoryinvelvet.com/on-condition...

#theoryinvelvet #princessscar #criticalintimacy #bodypolitics

I’m no longer interested in belonging that requires self-erasure.

I’m not negotiating my worth with anyone who only sees me after they’ve taken what they wanted.

The systems that ask us to earn gentleness.
The relationships where you’re only valued when useful.
The spaces that demand you shrink to fit.

Once you see it, you can’t unsee it.

👋🏽 hi ☺️

I’m toying with the idea myself ☺️

theoryinvelvet.com/on-condition...