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Brandy
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Chiefs 🏈, Hawkeyes 🖤💛, Fever 🏀 , St Johns 🏀, Big East, Yankees ⚾️ Royals ⚾️, Sporting KC ⚽️ local AAA ⚾️

💙 take your bs elsewhere 💙 f*ck Trump 💙

🖤 Widow. Mom. Surviving. Writing. “What's next" (who said this?) 🖤
I think also, widowed ppl have to realize that “dating” might not really be that in the beginning

It can just be survival. It’s OK to bond with someone for conversation, for touch & as a distraction. Our brains want us to survive

So it’s OK no matter if u look for survival months in or wait years
April 25, 2025 at 2:01 PM
The 1st yr, he had already bought some gifts as he passed in Nov

It was hard & special

We r a matching pj family. I still buy him a pair. A couple months before Xmas I turn them into a bear

The kids unboxed their pjs & new bear on Xmas Eve. Our morning picture still in some way includes him.
April 25, 2025 at 1:56 PM
This. I had very low B12. I took a daily pill. Within 3 months I was testing on the high side

Not everyone needs to take supplements every day or long term

It’s important to test to see if you even need a supplement & your body may respond quickly so retest

Too much can be as bad as too little
April 8, 2025 at 3:37 AM
I think … at some point without warning … you learn to sit next to the “not ok” - devastation - pain - loneliness … you become comfortable with them/accept them and in that you action … you find some kind of peace.

It’s never okay again but you find a new way to exist. 🫶🏻
April 6, 2025 at 10:41 PM
Come on. You gotta provide more details. 😂😂
April 6, 2025 at 2:36 AM
I’ve typed a lot of sentences that included fuck …maybe some questioning of intelligence

In the end? It just makes ME feel gross. Nothing I say will snap any1 out of a cult & in the end I’m just sacrificing my values/mental health going low

I don’t want to lose who I am - they aren’t worth it.
April 6, 2025 at 2:02 AM
I’m going to have to block you Kelly. 🤣 awesome content as always … makes me so flight twitchy and “home sick”.
April 5, 2025 at 4:35 PM
If people truly wanted to put their keyboard warrior fingers and mouths to good use ^^^^^ Thank you for leading the way.
April 5, 2025 at 9:21 AM
Love it. I should have come to the city this weekend.
April 5, 2025 at 9:19 AM
Sara, it’s not about u. It’s about their own insecurities, limitations & needs … & his need for validation from the Bluesky girls.
Ur better off to block

I’ve read ur posts. Changes could occur but they wont. I don’t need consent to have an opinion - neither do u. The gang up mentality is gross
April 5, 2025 at 9:01 AM
This is spectacular!
April 5, 2025 at 3:59 AM
That looks amazing
April 4, 2025 at 11:29 PM