Every time

Had to explain, "It's been ingrained in me that if i keep people happy, then they won't want to HURT me. I'm aware, I'm working on it, but it takes conscious effort and time to alter something I've been doing since I learned to walk."

I appreciate the want to "help" but every single time we hang out, she has no concept of how much money she blows through. But will lecture me about having a 10 dollar monthly payment on a meditation/ sleep app I use every day.

-Went through taco bell for breakfast. (Daily occurrence for her, has a fully stocked pantry and SNAP)
-decided we needed to go to a sit-down restaurant instead of someplace quick for a burger half the price.
-took us through Scooters coffee despite having a case of energy drinks at her home.