While I see the appeal, it never really clicked for me. I'm impressed by the dedicated artists and writers on it's side though.

Eventually, the very presence of the other becomes a source of comfort, calming down by reflex.

Hmmm... Calm... unless we're talking about life or death situations, because no matter how mature, if pushed too far 🐺 will lose it.

Learning how to manage their conflicts is a slow process.

They hold back from punching without a good reason, they scream less, they take a moment before letting anger take control.
They get to know each other, the things that tick them off and how to prevent a blow up.

They both kinda predict what the other might be thinking while fighting. The flow of the conversation doesn't give them a break.
By the time everything had been said, they realise that *wow, we chose to waste time and energy and for what?*