Serving unimaginable levels of cunt

Everyone has fated mates. Where are all the fated enemies? I met a kid in preschool, we took one hard look at each other and our grudge holds 30+ years later. #romantsy

Anyone recommend a romantsy book where trauma and torture aren't the main avenue for character development? I'm tired of reading the same boring imprisonment/dungeon whatever over and over. Where is: "who did this to you?"
Glances at scar
"Oh.. uh. Me? I fell from a tree trying to befriend a bird."