Contrary to Trump's dangerous tirade, U.S. military service members have a right to refuse illegal orders and even a duty to do so.

Everyone in the military swears an oath to the Constitution, not to a particular president of the United States or anyone else in the chain of command.

Last thing: if you’re in the position to need this advice, don’t deny yourself small pleasures. First, psychologically, restricting yourself makes it more likely you will have a fraught moment and spend more than you want. But more importantly:

You are living through a shitshow.

I have beaten

the sex pest

who was in

the primary

and who

you were probably

endorsing

for Mayor

Forgive me

he was disgusting

so perverted

and so old