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She/Her, The Djinn of your Djreams
Just a gal with a fat ass and an ever fatter diaper!
Pro-Kink! Gross antis get the fuck outta here!
Trans Rights! BLM! 1312!
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Just a gal with a fat ass and an ever fatter diaper!
Pro-Kink! Gross antis get the fuck outta here!
Trans Rights! BLM! 1312!
Loves to chat! Feel free to DM!~
Discord: misshoneypie
Again, I'd be willing to hold her for your sake~
March 21, 2025 at 9:51 PM
Again, I'd be willing to hold her for your sake~
Truth be told I don't trust having my DMs open on here but if you really want to contact me here you can leave a comment and I'll get to you when I can!
March 21, 2025 at 9:32 PM
Truth be told I don't trust having my DMs open on here but if you really want to contact me here you can leave a comment and I'll get to you when I can!
Since I'm not bothering with this anymore. Especially since StinkyTwinkie52 blocked me for the sake of hiding anyone speaking up for Minty after she was blocked & they weren't bothering with communication with her:
Thanks for some semblance nuance on both sides, at least.
Thanks for some semblance nuance on both sides, at least.
December 29, 2024 at 7:38 PM
Since I'm not bothering with this anymore. Especially since StinkyTwinkie52 blocked me for the sake of hiding anyone speaking up for Minty after she was blocked & they weren't bothering with communication with her:
Thanks for some semblance nuance on both sides, at least.
Thanks for some semblance nuance on both sides, at least.
I'd say a few more things but I feel as though that's invasive to Minty's privacy. All I can say is that I did take time to talk to her about it which is something that can't be said for most others in this thread, outside of her partner.
Anyways I'll stop with this.
Anyways I'll stop with this.
December 29, 2024 at 7:22 PM
I'd say a few more things but I feel as though that's invasive to Minty's privacy. All I can say is that I did take time to talk to her about it which is something that can't be said for most others in this thread, outside of her partner.
Anyways I'll stop with this.
Anyways I'll stop with this.
We can use words like "vague" or whatever for the ToS but as I told someone before the artist told them to expect an update which implies the artist would say something first. Practicing patience is nice in any situation.
December 29, 2024 at 7:22 PM
We can use words like "vague" or whatever for the ToS but as I told someone before the artist told them to expect an update which implies the artist would say something first. Practicing patience is nice in any situation.
No offense or anything but this is still on OP for purchasing and agreeing to the ToS. Even if they "don't agree with the practices" they aren't a victim. Ask about terms prior to purchasing, don't step on the artist's boundaries.
The word I'm looking for here is nuance.
The word I'm looking for here is nuance.
December 29, 2024 at 7:22 PM
No offense or anything but this is still on OP for purchasing and agreeing to the ToS. Even if they "don't agree with the practices" they aren't a victim. Ask about terms prior to purchasing, don't step on the artist's boundaries.
The word I'm looking for here is nuance.
The word I'm looking for here is nuance.
I don't agree with you.
Asking an artist for a commission update within a whole week and asking the day after Christmas is still really fucking weird. There's some nuance to it.
Asking an artist for a commission update within a whole week and asking the day after Christmas is still really fucking weird. There's some nuance to it.
December 29, 2024 at 7:11 PM
I don't agree with you.
Asking an artist for a commission update within a whole week and asking the day after Christmas is still really fucking weird. There's some nuance to it.
Asking an artist for a commission update within a whole week and asking the day after Christmas is still really fucking weird. There's some nuance to it.
And, once again, because I don't care if I sound like a broken record. It's still very weird to bother an artist the day after Christmas.
December 29, 2024 at 6:27 PM
And, once again, because I don't care if I sound like a broken record. It's still very weird to bother an artist the day after Christmas.
Not what I'm getting at. It adds up to just being patient and waiting for the artist to get to you. Nice reach, though.
Once again, waiting two weeks for a commission isn't bad. Even if we're talking about "scolding" or whatever, my point is that what the artist communicated meant to leave her be.
Once again, waiting two weeks for a commission isn't bad. Even if we're talking about "scolding" or whatever, my point is that what the artist communicated meant to leave her be.
December 29, 2024 at 6:27 PM
Not what I'm getting at. It adds up to just being patient and waiting for the artist to get to you. Nice reach, though.
Once again, waiting two weeks for a commission isn't bad. Even if we're talking about "scolding" or whatever, my point is that what the artist communicated meant to leave her be.
Once again, waiting two weeks for a commission isn't bad. Even if we're talking about "scolding" or whatever, my point is that what the artist communicated meant to leave her be.
You even admit that OP cut ties which just solidifies they weren't trying to like, have a conversation or learn from anything. How hard is it for you people to ask questions?
Unless you have valid proof OP tried communicating with them. But I already know anything brought up will be false.
Unless you have valid proof OP tried communicating with them. But I already know anything brought up will be false.
December 29, 2024 at 6:20 PM
You even admit that OP cut ties which just solidifies they weren't trying to like, have a conversation or learn from anything. How hard is it for you people to ask questions?
Unless you have valid proof OP tried communicating with them. But I already know anything brought up will be false.
Unless you have valid proof OP tried communicating with them. But I already know anything brought up will be false.
Once again, OP had like 48 hours to apologize or converse with the Minty but suspiciously didn't. So you can't put "teaching" someone on Minty's plate.
That's not her problem. They are not friends, they are complete strangers.
That's not her problem. They are not friends, they are complete strangers.
December 29, 2024 at 6:20 PM
Once again, OP had like 48 hours to apologize or converse with the Minty but suspiciously didn't. So you can't put "teaching" someone on Minty's plate.
That's not her problem. They are not friends, they are complete strangers.
That's not her problem. They are not friends, they are complete strangers.
Like I don't get it. You're all nitpicking her ToS but ignore a clear bit of communication. And honestly being told you'll get an update + having a ToS that states to give an artist space go pretty hand-in-hand. Nothing about it is "vague" in this context. Holy hell.
December 29, 2024 at 6:11 PM
Like I don't get it. You're all nitpicking her ToS but ignore a clear bit of communication. And honestly being told you'll get an update + having a ToS that states to give an artist space go pretty hand-in-hand. Nothing about it is "vague" in this context. Holy hell.
And this is where the issue really lies, in my opinion. It's a nothing behavior that could have waited until the week ended. Instead OP comes in asking the artist for an update instead of waiting. If the artist says "Expect an update" that usually means the ARTIST WILL CONTACT THEM FIRST.
December 29, 2024 at 6:11 PM
And this is where the issue really lies, in my opinion. It's a nothing behavior that could have waited until the week ended. Instead OP comes in asking the artist for an update instead of waiting. If the artist says "Expect an update" that usually means the ARTIST WILL CONTACT THEM FIRST.
"3. from the first message, twinkie did not expect the commission to be done, maybe not even started."
... Then why message the artist with what is essentially nothing......? What do you get from that? If the artist explicitly tells you to expect an update then that alone tells you to wait.
... Then why message the artist with what is essentially nothing......? What do you get from that? If the artist explicitly tells you to expect an update then that alone tells you to wait.
December 29, 2024 at 6:11 PM
"3. from the first message, twinkie did not expect the commission to be done, maybe not even started."
... Then why message the artist with what is essentially nothing......? What do you get from that? If the artist explicitly tells you to expect an update then that alone tells you to wait.
... Then why message the artist with what is essentially nothing......? What do you get from that? If the artist explicitly tells you to expect an update then that alone tells you to wait.
Maybe it's because you don't frequently buy commissions and maybe I'm a broken record here but asking within a week of getting a commission AND asking the day after a national holiday is still really awful.
December 29, 2024 at 5:57 PM
Maybe it's because you don't frequently buy commissions and maybe I'm a broken record here but asking within a week of getting a commission AND asking the day after a national holiday is still really awful.
Yeah and when the artist made a one week pushback their decisions are called "harsh" and "unprofessional". How is she supposed to feel? Again, a two week wait for a commission isn't even offensive.
December 29, 2024 at 5:57 PM
Yeah and when the artist made a one week pushback their decisions are called "harsh" and "unprofessional". How is she supposed to feel? Again, a two week wait for a commission isn't even offensive.
"Immediately put on a DNI list"
Wrong. OP didn't apologize or try to converse and the DNI thing happened about a day and a half later. Please stop pretending you know the context.
Wrong. OP didn't apologize or try to converse and the DNI thing happened about a day and a half later. Please stop pretending you know the context.
December 29, 2024 at 5:50 PM
"Immediately put on a DNI list"
Wrong. OP didn't apologize or try to converse and the DNI thing happened about a day and a half later. Please stop pretending you know the context.
Wrong. OP didn't apologize or try to converse and the DNI thing happened about a day and a half later. Please stop pretending you know the context.
Taking 50% is crude, yeah. But considering the lack of communication on OPs end and them being the first to cast the stones at this point... Hm.
December 29, 2024 at 5:45 PM
Taking 50% is crude, yeah. But considering the lack of communication on OPs end and them being the first to cast the stones at this point... Hm.
Artist has stated in private that the OP went completely silent for over 24+ hours, OP didn't apologize or try to reach any form of understanding, and OP was also first to block and make the callout post.
I don't want to hear about "spiteful" behavior.
I don't want to hear about "spiteful" behavior.
December 29, 2024 at 5:45 PM
Artist has stated in private that the OP went completely silent for over 24+ hours, OP didn't apologize or try to reach any form of understanding, and OP was also first to block and make the callout post.
I don't want to hear about "spiteful" behavior.
I don't want to hear about "spiteful" behavior.
Unfortunately an artist isn't aware of this until someone points it out. So again, things fall onto the client. If you want "universal understanding" it requires trial and error. Especially if an artist who doesn't have English as their first language.
December 29, 2024 at 5:36 PM
Unfortunately an artist isn't aware of this until someone points it out. So again, things fall onto the client. If you want "universal understanding" it requires trial and error. Especially if an artist who doesn't have English as their first language.