And if Suga, and more people around the world can learn and grow from this, then that is a great thing. All this hate and toxic ass behavior that has stemmed from it so far is not a great thing….. it makes kpop look ridiculous to the rest of the world.

And as being someone that has gone through this and has a loss from it…. I feel I have the space to speak on it. People make mistakes…. Even idols. Idols are after all regular people. Part of life is learning and growing and when mistakes happen, you learn and grow from them+

This wrong that happened. I know he will make amends. I hope he uses his platform to speak on this issue. DD is a very serious issue all over the world, and no one should have to go through losing someone they love because of it+

But I have come to terms with what happened and I know people make mistakes. I am so very grateful that no one was hurt by Sugas serious lapse in judgment. I forgive and I appreciate him admitting fault and I have hope that he will try and correct+

On the way home one a country road and the car was engulfed in flames. 2 of the 3 people in that car made it out that night. My sister was not one of them. This event has been triggering for me. I have had mixed feelings from the start +