My Poor Husband…
betterwithph.bsky.social
My Poor Husband…
@betterwithph.bsky.social
Once upon a time, a choir & theater kid did none of the things she planned but still found happiness. Also, a PROUD 💙Dem in Texas💙!!!
A true NY Slice, any day, every day!!!
December 16, 2024 at 4:23 AM
deserve happiness, health, freedom, and love.
If you made it this far, thank you.
~Steph 💙
December 15, 2024 at 7:37 PM
they are.
I don’t care if you believe in God, who you love, where you were born, how much money you have, what language you speak, or what your past mistakes might be. I am here to be a friend, an advocate, a shoulder on which you can cry, and a warrior for your rights. We are all human and we all
December 15, 2024 at 7:36 PM
falls apart. They profess to live as Christ. They do not.
In the 20+ years since, I have deconstructed. I have remarried. I have had more children. I. Have. Found. Happiness. And my love for God has never waned. Christ taught us to LOVE our brothers and sisters. ALL of them. And to meet them where
December 15, 2024 at 7:32 PM
say, I left the Church. I didn’t leave my faith or my love for God. I left the institution that would rather me blindly follow an organization’s interpretation of a book and that cared nothing for my mental well-being or the general wellbeing of my children. Members must stay in check or it all
December 15, 2024 at 7:28 PM
they when I was seeking help. For years? None of them would speak up because they couldn’t and wouldn’t speak against the senior pastor - the only one who still told me I was doing wrong. Behind closed doors they gave me love but when those doors were open again, I was looked down upon. Needless to
December 15, 2024 at 7:23 PM
currently miserably, and breathing, and real. A couple weeks later, when I went to each individual pastor to let them know I would be ending my marriage, all but one supported me. Those that did, expressed shock that I’d made it “this long” and relief that I was getting out. So, where the heck were
December 15, 2024 at 7:20 PM
multiple sins you commit, daily, by being together, such as fighting in front of the children, keeping them in a toxic home, potentially exposing them to harm from his “illness”…” I cried. Someone finally understood that my life was not a black and white passage from a rule book. My life was living,
December 15, 2024 at 7:13 PM
One day, I was seeking the council of our prayer minister who asked me if I believed the Bible. Obviously I said yes. She then asked if that meant I believe that all sin is equal in the eyes of God. Again, I said yes. She looked at me and said, “What is worse - the single son of divorce or the
December 15, 2024 at 7:09 PM
A personal mentor told me my vows were “in sickness and in health” and that my husband was obviously in sickness - to divorce him would be going against my vows, my God, my faith, everything… Life went from bad to effing horrible. I was beyond miserable.
December 15, 2024 at 7:07 PM
One evening, my ex had the brilliant idea to expose himself to a Sonic carhop. A couple weeks later, a detective came to the house, looking for him. He denied it but I knew he did it. Again, I sought council. My pastor and many others within the church counseled me to “support him in his illness”.
December 15, 2024 at 7:03 PM
Never miss the truly important things, even if it’s for a cat and horse show!
December 15, 2024 at 6:52 PM
I have questions but the biggest one is - are you high?! 🤣
December 15, 2024 at 8:15 AM