Beri
@berimedia.bsky.social
Human on the internet trying my hardest to balance out the negativity with some wholesomeness. Here's the digital spaces I exist in https://allmylinks.com/beri-media
There will be no self deprecating humor as a coping mechanism today, and if you catch yourself doing it as punishment you must hug yourself and look at pictures of fluffy animals.
December 3, 2025 at 4:09 PM
There will be no self deprecating humor as a coping mechanism today, and if you catch yourself doing it as punishment you must hug yourself and look at pictures of fluffy animals.
This year on the internet I leaned way more into community wellbeing management. A direction I was led down due to the prompting of @antthunderfun.bsky.social and while I'm still finding my feet with the trust of Ant, @avatarliger.bsky.social and @kaplunkk.bsky.social I will continue my learning. 1/
December 3, 2025 at 4:07 AM
This year on the internet I leaned way more into community wellbeing management. A direction I was led down due to the prompting of @antthunderfun.bsky.social and while I'm still finding my feet with the trust of Ant, @avatarliger.bsky.social and @kaplunkk.bsky.social I will continue my learning. 1/
You are doing wonderful, and whether or not its your best is irrelevant. in fact you probably shouldn't do you best, just do enough.
December 2, 2025 at 4:26 PM
You are doing wonderful, and whether or not its your best is irrelevant. in fact you probably shouldn't do you best, just do enough.
The small things are sometimes just as important as the big things. Dont lose sight of them.
December 1, 2025 at 3:50 PM
The small things are sometimes just as important as the big things. Dont lose sight of them.
Tempering your expectations doesn't mean settling for less. it means some things have different values to some people and you shouldn't just judge people by that metric. everything has context
November 30, 2025 at 4:26 PM
Tempering your expectations doesn't mean settling for less. it means some things have different values to some people and you shouldn't just judge people by that metric. everything has context
Dont be mad at your brain when it doesnt do the thing. examine why it might not instead.
November 29, 2025 at 4:19 PM
Dont be mad at your brain when it doesnt do the thing. examine why it might not instead.
are we all remembering the airplane rule of selfcare? You can't help other people if you're not taking care of yourself first.
November 28, 2025 at 4:26 PM
are we all remembering the airplane rule of selfcare? You can't help other people if you're not taking care of yourself first.
Being wrong isn't a mark on you as a person, Causing harm for the sake of gain or convenience are, seeking help its a sign of weakness its a sign of growth and strength.
November 27, 2025 at 4:33 PM
Being wrong isn't a mark on you as a person, Causing harm for the sake of gain or convenience are, seeking help its a sign of weakness its a sign of growth and strength.
One of the lines I've most resonate with is a "There are three things all wise men fear: the sea in storm, a night with no moon, and the anger of a gentle man." it's also consequently why I strive towards kindness constantly.
November 26, 2025 at 4:29 PM
One of the lines I've most resonate with is a "There are three things all wise men fear: the sea in storm, a night with no moon, and the anger of a gentle man." it's also consequently why I strive towards kindness constantly.
Maintaining an open mind can be hard. but it is worth it, and so are you.
November 25, 2025 at 4:36 PM
Maintaining an open mind can be hard. but it is worth it, and so are you.
You're gunna make it. the way forward may unfortunately be half built or falling apart but its there. nothing needs to be perfect and that includes you, although you're pretty close.
November 24, 2025 at 4:10 PM
You're gunna make it. the way forward may unfortunately be half built or falling apart but its there. nothing needs to be perfect and that includes you, although you're pretty close.
Allyship and activisim isnt always loud. If youre not able to be vocal or demonstrative there are other ways.
November 23, 2025 at 4:35 PM
Allyship and activisim isnt always loud. If youre not able to be vocal or demonstrative there are other ways.
Just because something is easy for you, doesnt make it easy for everyone. be mindful of the way you think through things and remember we're literally all evolved to be different.
November 22, 2025 at 4:22 PM
Just because something is easy for you, doesnt make it easy for everyone. be mindful of the way you think through things and remember we're literally all evolved to be different.
Nobody is immune to propaganda. but fear not, cause if you spend just a little bit of time educating yourself, you can roll back years of societal propaganda in moments.
November 21, 2025 at 3:35 PM
Nobody is immune to propaganda. but fear not, cause if you spend just a little bit of time educating yourself, you can roll back years of societal propaganda in moments.
Knowing you limits and choosing to push them is commendable. but have you tried, forgiving yourself for shit that shit you've done in the past?
November 20, 2025 at 4:20 PM
Knowing you limits and choosing to push them is commendable. but have you tried, forgiving yourself for shit that shit you've done in the past?
Alo, that space you're taking up? you could probably take up more. give yourself some breathing room. Be proud of what you've done.
November 19, 2025 at 4:29 PM
Alo, that space you're taking up? you could probably take up more. give yourself some breathing room. Be proud of what you've done.
It is always better to talk to people instead of the version of you you have in your head. approach a conversation with an open mind and you'll be surprised at the results.
November 18, 2025 at 4:22 PM
It is always better to talk to people instead of the version of you you have in your head. approach a conversation with an open mind and you'll be surprised at the results.
Alo, dont forget that sometimes its ok to eat foods for your brain and not for your body. just not all the time.
November 17, 2025 at 3:57 PM
Alo, dont forget that sometimes its ok to eat foods for your brain and not for your body. just not all the time.
geev you self more credit, Fight the urge to play down you effort. You deseve every nice thing said to you
November 16, 2025 at 4:16 PM
geev you self more credit, Fight the urge to play down you effort. You deseve every nice thing said to you
alo, this is your reminder that hyper focus isnt just a thing that occurs on a hobby. A hyper focus can attact to ANYTHING, a person, an activity, a food. and sometimes they're detrimental
November 15, 2025 at 4:26 PM
alo, this is your reminder that hyper focus isnt just a thing that occurs on a hobby. A hyper focus can attact to ANYTHING, a person, an activity, a food. and sometimes they're detrimental
being happy within your own body is a hard thing, if you have it that's amazing, but don't lord it over people that don't. and DEFINITELY don't do it when those people are celebrating their body for what it is not what they want it to be.
November 13, 2025 at 4:11 PM
being happy within your own body is a hard thing, if you have it that's amazing, but don't lord it over people that don't. and DEFINITELY don't do it when those people are celebrating their body for what it is not what they want it to be.
Sometimes a thing is not for you, that doesn't make it bad that makes it not for you.
November 12, 2025 at 4:23 PM
Sometimes a thing is not for you, that doesn't make it bad that makes it not for you.
Your friends don't hate you, you're not bothering them and yo do mean a lot to them. Now say it out loud.
November 11, 2025 at 4:17 PM
Your friends don't hate you, you're not bothering them and yo do mean a lot to them. Now say it out loud.
Knowing your limits is all well and good, but know your thresholds as well. recognize when you approach your limits
November 10, 2025 at 4:28 PM
Knowing your limits is all well and good, but know your thresholds as well. recognize when you approach your limits
"violence is not the answer" is propaganda However. this doesn't mean violence should be your first answer. or anywhere near your initial reaction.
November 9, 2025 at 4:12 PM
"violence is not the answer" is propaganda However. this doesn't mean violence should be your first answer. or anywhere near your initial reaction.