Benjamin Kaylen | Travel, Mindset, Freedom
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You don’t get what you want.
You get who you are.
So choose wisely.
Live it first.
Then life will reflect it back.
-Choose love.
You get who you are.
So choose wisely.
Live it first.
Then life will reflect it back.
-Choose love.
April 18, 2025 at 3:24 AM
You don’t get what you want.
You get who you are.
So choose wisely.
Live it first.
Then life will reflect it back.
-Choose love.
You get who you are.
So choose wisely.
Live it first.
Then life will reflect it back.
-Choose love.
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❧ This is Universal Law
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Stop being at the effect.
Start being the cause.
The universe doesn’t reward you.
It mirrors you.
At every moment.
❧ This is Universal Law
━━━━━❂━━━━━
Stop being at the effect.
Start being the cause.
The universe doesn’t reward you.
It mirrors you.
At every moment.
April 18, 2025 at 3:23 AM
━━━━━❂━━━━━
❧ This is Universal Law
━━━━━❂━━━━━
Stop being at the effect.
Start being the cause.
The universe doesn’t reward you.
It mirrors you.
At every moment.
❧ This is Universal Law
━━━━━❂━━━━━
Stop being at the effect.
Start being the cause.
The universe doesn’t reward you.
It mirrors you.
At every moment.
Reality shifts.
Fast.
Doors open.
People show up.
You come alive.
And that’s exactly what happened to me.
Fast.
Doors open.
People show up.
You come alive.
And that’s exactly what happened to me.
April 18, 2025 at 3:23 AM
Reality shifts.
Fast.
Doors open.
People show up.
You come alive.
And that’s exactly what happened to me.
Fast.
Doors open.
People show up.
You come alive.
And that’s exactly what happened to me.
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❧ Here’s the hard truth
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You’ll never be ready.
You’ll never feel 100% safe.
But when you go first—
When you act from the version of you who already has it...
❧ Here’s the hard truth
━━━━━❂━━━━━
You’ll never be ready.
You’ll never feel 100% safe.
But when you go first—
When you act from the version of you who already has it...
April 18, 2025 at 3:22 AM
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❧ Here’s the hard truth
━━━━━❂━━━━━
You’ll never be ready.
You’ll never feel 100% safe.
But when you go first—
When you act from the version of you who already has it...
❧ Here’s the hard truth
━━━━━❂━━━━━
You’ll never be ready.
You’ll never feel 100% safe.
But when you go first—
When you act from the version of you who already has it...
Place your attention on fear—
And you’ll create more to fear
Place your attention on love—
And reality shapes around it
That’s not “manifestation.”
That’s Natural Law.
And you’ll create more to fear
Place your attention on love—
And reality shapes around it
That’s not “manifestation.”
That’s Natural Law.
April 18, 2025 at 3:22 AM
Place your attention on fear—
And you’ll create more to fear
Place your attention on love—
And reality shapes around it
That’s not “manifestation.”
That’s Natural Law.
And you’ll create more to fear
Place your attention on love—
And reality shapes around it
That’s not “manifestation.”
That’s Natural Law.
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❧ The Law of the Mirror
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"As above, so below; as within, so without."
— The Kybalion
Reality reflects what you are—
Not what you want.
Your life is a projection of your state,
Not your plans.
❧ The Law of the Mirror
━━━━━❂━━━━━
"As above, so below; as within, so without."
— The Kybalion
Reality reflects what you are—
Not what you want.
Your life is a projection of your state,
Not your plans.
April 18, 2025 at 3:21 AM
━━━━━❂━━━━━
❧ The Law of the Mirror
━━━━━❂━━━━━
"As above, so below; as within, so without."
— The Kybalion
Reality reflects what you are—
Not what you want.
Your life is a projection of your state,
Not your plans.
❧ The Law of the Mirror
━━━━━❂━━━━━
"As above, so below; as within, so without."
— The Kybalion
Reality reflects what you are—
Not what you want.
Your life is a projection of your state,
Not your plans.
One who had studied everything from esoteric creation to occult truths.
He didn’t give me “steps.”
He handed me a mirror.
And I finally saw:
I was waiting for the world to change
Instead of changing myself first
I was creating my own suffering
By what I was placing my attention on.
He didn’t give me “steps.”
He handed me a mirror.
And I finally saw:
I was waiting for the world to change
Instead of changing myself first
I was creating my own suffering
By what I was placing my attention on.
April 18, 2025 at 3:20 AM
One who had studied everything from esoteric creation to occult truths.
He didn’t give me “steps.”
He handed me a mirror.
And I finally saw:
I was waiting for the world to change
Instead of changing myself first
I was creating my own suffering
By what I was placing my attention on.
He didn’t give me “steps.”
He handed me a mirror.
And I finally saw:
I was waiting for the world to change
Instead of changing myself first
I was creating my own suffering
By what I was placing my attention on.
━━━━━❂━━━━━
❧ I created my own suffering
━━━━━❂━━━━━
I wanted to be a digital nomad.
But instead, I stayed stuck in an office job I didn’t love for years.
Always planning. Never moving.
Until I met a mentor—
❧ I created my own suffering
━━━━━❂━━━━━
I wanted to be a digital nomad.
But instead, I stayed stuck in an office job I didn’t love for years.
Always planning. Never moving.
Until I met a mentor—
April 18, 2025 at 3:20 AM
━━━━━❂━━━━━
❧ I created my own suffering
━━━━━❂━━━━━
I wanted to be a digital nomad.
But instead, I stayed stuck in an office job I didn’t love for years.
Always planning. Never moving.
Until I met a mentor—
❧ I created my own suffering
━━━━━❂━━━━━
I wanted to be a digital nomad.
But instead, I stayed stuck in an office job I didn’t love for years.
Always planning. Never moving.
Until I met a mentor—
• Waiting to get in shape before meeting people
• Waiting to save money before taking risks
• Waiting for the external world to show up in a certain way before you take action
But here’s the truth:
You’re at the effect.
And there’s no power there.
• Waiting to save money before taking risks
• Waiting for the external world to show up in a certain way before you take action
But here’s the truth:
You’re at the effect.
And there’s no power there.
April 18, 2025 at 3:18 AM
• Waiting to get in shape before meeting people
• Waiting to save money before taking risks
• Waiting for the external world to show up in a certain way before you take action
But here’s the truth:
You’re at the effect.
And there’s no power there.
• Waiting to save money before taking risks
• Waiting for the external world to show up in a certain way before you take action
But here’s the truth:
You’re at the effect.
And there’s no power there.
Want freedom?
Become aware.
✧ Stop feeding your old beliefs.
✧ Start feeding what you love. ❤️
Become aware.
✧ Stop feeding your old beliefs.
✧ Start feeding what you love. ❤️
April 16, 2025 at 2:30 AM
Want freedom?
Become aware.
✧ Stop feeding your old beliefs.
✧ Start feeding what you love. ❤️
Become aware.
✧ Stop feeding your old beliefs.
✧ Start feeding what you love. ❤️
➤ The story becomes belief (“This is the way it is”)
➤ The belief shapes perception (“This is how the world works”)
➤ Perception shapes behavior (“This is how I must act to survive”)
— This becomes your life.
➤ The belief shapes perception (“This is how the world works”)
➤ Perception shapes behavior (“This is how I must act to survive”)
— This becomes your life.
April 16, 2025 at 2:29 AM
➤ The story becomes belief (“This is the way it is”)
➤ The belief shapes perception (“This is how the world works”)
➤ Perception shapes behavior (“This is how I must act to survive”)
— This becomes your life.
➤ The belief shapes perception (“This is how the world works”)
➤ Perception shapes behavior (“This is how I must act to survive”)
— This becomes your life.
When energy is withheld, the ego asks:
“Why do I hurt?”
It seeks validation and creates a story:
“I must earn love.”
“I must shrink to be safe.”
“Why do I hurt?”
It seeks validation and creates a story:
“I must earn love.”
“I must shrink to be safe.”
April 16, 2025 at 2:29 AM
When energy is withheld, the ego asks:
“Why do I hurt?”
It seeks validation and creates a story:
“I must earn love.”
“I must shrink to be safe.”
“Why do I hurt?”
It seeks validation and creates a story:
“I must earn love.”
“I must shrink to be safe.”
🌀 Nurturing from Mother (Feminine): Ages 0–18 months
→ shapes self-worth, approval, belonging
🌀 Acknowledgment from Father (Masculine): Ages 3–4 years
→ shapes trust, significance, capacity
→ shapes self-worth, approval, belonging
🌀 Acknowledgment from Father (Masculine): Ages 3–4 years
→ shapes trust, significance, capacity
April 16, 2025 at 2:28 AM
🌀 Nurturing from Mother (Feminine): Ages 0–18 months
→ shapes self-worth, approval, belonging
🌀 Acknowledgment from Father (Masculine): Ages 3–4 years
→ shapes trust, significance, capacity
→ shapes self-worth, approval, belonging
🌀 Acknowledgment from Father (Masculine): Ages 3–4 years
→ shapes trust, significance, capacity
Most of your negative beliefs aren’t yours.
“I’m not good enough.”
“I don’t belong.”
“I don’t have what it takes.”
These are inherited.
Passed down unconsciously.
“I’m not good enough.”
“I don’t belong.”
“I don’t have what it takes.”
These are inherited.
Passed down unconsciously.
April 16, 2025 at 2:28 AM
Most of your negative beliefs aren’t yours.
“I’m not good enough.”
“I don’t belong.”
“I don’t have what it takes.”
These are inherited.
Passed down unconsciously.
“I’m not good enough.”
“I don’t belong.”
“I don’t have what it takes.”
These are inherited.
Passed down unconsciously.
Choose consciously.
April 15, 2025 at 3:50 AM
Choose consciously.
You’re not here to heal your identity.
You’re here to create through it.
You’re here to create through it.
April 15, 2025 at 3:25 AM
You’re not here to heal your identity.
You’re here to create through it.
You’re here to create through it.
The ego needs to see the path.
The creator moves without proof.
One comes from fear.
The other, love.
The creator moves without proof.
One comes from fear.
The other, love.
April 15, 2025 at 3:25 AM
The ego needs to see the path.
The creator moves without proof.
One comes from fear.
The other, love.
The creator moves without proof.
One comes from fear.
The other, love.
Most people live trying to fix their past. (a)
Few choose to create their future. (b)
Few choose to create their future. (b)
April 15, 2025 at 3:24 AM
Most people live trying to fix their past. (a)
Few choose to create their future. (b)
Few choose to create their future. (b)
Your power can only live in two places:
➤ Identity (a)
➤ End result (b)
➤ Identity (a)
➤ End result (b)
April 15, 2025 at 3:24 AM
Your power can only live in two places:
➤ Identity (a)
➤ End result (b)
➤ Identity (a)
➤ End result (b)
Why do we fail?
We keep feeding our old beliefs unconsciously.
We keep feeding our old beliefs unconsciously.
April 15, 2025 at 3:24 AM
Why do we fail?
We keep feeding our old beliefs unconsciously.
We keep feeding our old beliefs unconsciously.
In every moment:
You reinforce the old…
Or create the new.
Where is your attention?
You reinforce the old…
Or create the new.
Where is your attention?
April 15, 2025 at 3:24 AM
In every moment:
You reinforce the old…
Or create the new.
Where is your attention?
You reinforce the old…
Or create the new.
Where is your attention?
Focusing on how is ego.
Being a creator means choosing what you love.
(the end result)
Being a creator means choosing what you love.
(the end result)
April 15, 2025 at 3:23 AM
Focusing on how is ego.
Being a creator means choosing what you love.
(the end result)
Being a creator means choosing what you love.
(the end result)
You’re not creating.
You’re reinforcing.
You’re reinforcing.
April 15, 2025 at 3:23 AM
You’re not creating.
You’re reinforcing.
You’re reinforcing.