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Our 2025: B&K Wrapped
Buckle up,it's time to unpack the adventure-packed year that was 2025! From sun-soaked escapes to hidden gem hikes, we crisscrossed the globe, and visited some countries that have been on our bucket list. Whether it was sipping espresso in a cozy café, snorkeling with sea turtles off Austrailian coast, or hiking in the Atacama Desert, this year tested our limits, and left us with a serious case of "where do we go next?" As we are enjoying the crackling fire in the fireplace, exchanging gifts, and recharging for 2026, we're spilling _all_ the stats in our B&K Wrapped: 2025 edition. Ready to see how we stacked up? ## Around the Globe Again **6 - 🇦🇷🇺🇾🇨🇱🇦🇺🇳🇿🇨🇦 New Countries** From South America to the Australian Continent we added 2 Continents and 6 countries in 2025 which is the same as yeas year! We finally got to **Canada** , which has been on our list for a long time. We also added our first South American countries with **Uruguay** , **Argentina** , and **Chile**. Rounding it out with our far flung favorites **Australia** and**New Zealand!** **33 - ✈️ Flights** We packed in 33 flights this year: We flew on every day of the week but Tuesday for some reason… and yes our backpacks still get pulled at security (camera gear will do that). Our most flown aircraft was a Boeing 737-800, and the newest aircraft we flew on in 2025 was only 6 months old, an A330-900neo! **9 - 💺Different Airlines** We doubled last year with the number of airlines we flew on. From small operators to the giants we flew: **American Airlines** , **Qantas** , **Virgin Australia** , **Latam** , **Aerolineas Argentinas** , **Air New Zealand** , **True South** , **United** , and with our switch this year to **Delta** , they were our most flown airline with 1/3 of our flights in 2025. **22 - 🛬 Airports** We visited Almost 70% more airports than last year. Our favorite this year? Hard to pick just one, like last year. Montreal was very nice, loved the design, and was very efficient both in and out. However the views landing at Queenstown Airport are unlike anything else on this planet… 1.**7x - 🌎 Around the World by Miles Flown** Yes, with over 42,000 miles in the air we circled the globe almost twice. Thats 40% more than last year, might be hard to top in 2026…. **101 hr - ⏳ in Flight** This year we spent over 100 hours in flight on a plane. Thats quite a long time, thats 2.5 work weeks! On the flip side we lost over 6 hours this year due to delays….which is not as fun. **2 - 🚅 Train Trips + 1 - Funicular** We took only two train trains in 2025 which is a big drop from the 8 we took in 2024. Both of the trains this year were with Amtrak, and just one Funicular in Santiago, Chile! We promise to take more trains in 2026…(we might even have some already booked) **1 - ⛴️ High Speed Ferry + 1 regular Ferry** We also took two high speed ferry this year, twice the number as last year. This time from Argentina to Uruguay, as it was quite an experience (or maybe a struggle as it was a very early morning for us) and a round trip ferry from Cairns to Fitzroy Island. **1 - 📱Lost iPhone** That was an expensive mistake we hope not to repeat in 2026….. ## Trip Highlights **Chile’s Wildlife** : spotting exotic animals at 13,000ft (4000 m) felt like we were filming a National Geographic documentary (dream job!). That was our number one moment from 2025, and something we wish we would have scheduled more time for… It was the trip of a lifetime! **South America:** This was our first time stepping foot on this continent and it was an amazing experience. From sea level to Patagonia, to the Atacama high desert, this was an amazing trip, with some unique videos. * Argentina Playlist * Uruguay Playlist * Chile Playlist **Australia & New Zealand: **also increadable experiences from the shores Sydney, to the mountains of Queenstown, and the Hobbit houses of Hobbiton, winter was an amazing time for us. * Australia Playlist * New Zealand Playlist **Canada:** Oh Canada, how we should have visited sooner, we had plans, we tried, but it just never happened… but maybe that was for the better. We finally planed a visit to Montréal this year, and now we can’t wait to go back. Winter was fun, but maybe next time we will try summer, just to switch it up! * Canada Playlist ## What’s Next? We’re already mapping the 2026’s journeys, we have a few already booked! We can’t wait to bring you along for the ride, sharing all the vlogs, photos, and moments that make travel such a rewarding experience. Again, thank you All for being part of our community, whaching our videos, and clearing us on! Here’s to another year of travel, stories, and new friends **Warm Regards,** Ben & Kayla _P.S. if you are not following us on instagram you should, we post a some of our stories in real time over there!_
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December 25, 2025 at 6:41 PM
Montreal, Canada (Winter)
"You are going to **Canada IN WINTER? WHY?** " We heard that question repeatedly after telling friends about our trip to our 22nd country: Canada. More specifically, Montréal, Québec, is a city that greets you like an elegant embrace from a cold, beautiful French companion. Skeptical friends shook their heads, imagining blizzards and endless frost. But it was worth it. Every chilled moment led to one of the finest trips of our lives. ### Why Go to Montreal in Winter? (Because It Is Pure Magic) We should have visited Canada much sooner; for this reason, Montréal quickly rose to the top of our 2025 list. Hockey players who glide like poets on ice. Bagels that outshine any others (New York is a contender we have yet to try). Restaurants that inspire wonderment. The second-largest city in Canada, an economic powerhouse, and the largest French-speaking city in North America. That proud French heritage is shown on every street corner and stop sign. Montréal is beautiful, especially during the Christmas season, when twinkling lights and festive garlands transform the cobblestone lanes into a winter wonderland (especially if you get snow). Reaching Montréal was effortless (for us traveling from the US): just two flights landed us at Montréal-Trudeau Airport, a sleek terminal with a Nordic warmth, all clean lines, welcoming wood, and streamlined processes. We hopped in an Uber and arrived downtown in 30 minutes. The wind whipped through the buildings, chilling us before we could make it into our accommodations. Winter in Montréal demands preparation. Temperatures can dip to -20°C, but that is part of the allure. Bundle up and discover a city alive with holiday spirit. ## The City Montréal reveals itself through its distinct neighborhoods, each offering a unique lens on this bilingual gem. We explored the highlights at a winter's pace, bundled against the chill yet warmed by festive lights. **Old Montréal** enchants with 18th-century stone facades and cobblestone streets, where Notre-Dame Basilica glows like a lantern (especially if you go to the light show inside, highly recommend) and the Old Port buzzes with activity and **plenty** of amazing restaurants of all types that cater more to the tourists. It is the postcard heart, romantic and historic, a must-see. **Plateau-Mont-Royal** pulses with bohemian energy: colorful spiral staircases climb row houses, street art explodes in vivid murals, and trendy cafés serve espresso amid twinkling Christmas garlands. Perfect for aimless wanders, like us, and people-watching. Also, the food is phenomenal, plenty of unique places to eat at here (you're going to see a theme here... Montréal has some of the best food in the world...from all over the world) **Downtown (Centre-Ville)** towers with modern skyscrapers and luxury shops, anchored by the underground city, a climate-controlled maze of boutiques and eateries. Holiday windows dazzle with displays, and Place des Arts hosts twinkling light shows. **Mile End** exudes creative cool: indie shops, vintage stores, and the epicenter of bagel lore with St-Viateur and Fairmount (More on that latter). Portuguese chicken spots and dive bars full of locals. **Mount Royal** , the city's green lung, rises centrally a snowy playground for sledding, if there is enough snow, and panoramic views. In December, its paths crunch underfoot, sometimes making it an icy climb, toward the illuminated chalet, overlooking a bustling metropolis below. These quarters blend seamlessly, connected by an efficient metro and busses which can (normally) get you from one to another without much fuss. Montréal is a city of contrasts: old and new, French and English, creative and business. Oh, and have we mentioned the food... ## The Food The food scene is a highlight, and was the top reason we wanted to go to Montreal. A paradise for the palate; anything you could desire from Vietnamese to Caribbean to classic French cooking. Let's begin with the bagel wars: St-Viateur and Fairmount, the two legendary shops. Hand-rolled, wood-fired, and sesame-crusted, they are denser and sweeter than New York's, perfect with smoked salmon (if that's your thing), cream cheese or butter, and a steaming coffee. They had plenty of bagel options if sesame is not your thing, just remember to bring cash, and decide before you get to the counter... might as well get a half dozen at each place, as we were split on our favorite "Montréal Bagel shop". If you are looking for a more common bakery for a Pain au chocolat, AKA a chocolatine, AKA a chocolate croissant, for most of us (Editor's Note: surprisingly contentious naming for this chocolate pastry), plenty of cafes all over the city with amazing coffee and doughnuts as well. For lunch, we have to recommend the Italian delights at Renzo Sandwich, where fresh panini or a cheese steak burst with flavor. If you are looking for quick seafood lunch, then head to Brit & Chips for crispy fish (with some unique choices like salmon) and thick-cut fries, a comforting nod to British pub fare amid the holiday chill. Evenings called for indulgence. While these two places we did not get to, they have been highly recommended: La Banquise, poutine reigns supreme: golden fries smothered in squeaky curds and rich gravy. Schwartz's Deli delivers smoked meat on rye, juicy and mustard-kissed, another highlight of Plateau-Mont-Royal. Our standout dinner was at Taverne Gaspar, a classic French brasserie overlooking the park and St. Lawrence River. Steak frites arrived perfectly seared, with herb butter melting into frites as crisp as fresh snow, with a nice view of the Montreal ferriswheel. ## The Christmas Markets No Montréal visit in December is complete without the Christmas Market. Tucked in the heart of the city, it evokes the festive markets of Europe with wooden stalls, mulled wine, and handmade ornaments twinkling against the light. Small wood fires and smoked meats fill the air, families bundled in scarves laughing over hot cider. It is not as vast as those in Germany or France, and we wished for more scale and vendors, but it captures that same joyful essence. A perfect pause to sip hot drinks, shop for local crafts, and soak in the holiday glow before returning to the city's embrace. By trip's end, we were enchanted as snow fell like confetti, wisked beteween the buildings. Montréal in winter, laced with Christmas cheer, felt authentic. Cold outside, warm within. Just go! * * * ## Practical Tips Venturing to Montréal in winter? These essentials will keep you warm, fed, and moving seamlessly through the chill. 1. **Dress like an Arctic explorer** : Layer thermals, wool sweaters, a waterproof parka, or a Gore-Tex jacket. Also bring nice boots or shoes with some grip as some areas like parks can get icy. 2. **Stay in the right neighborhood** : Opt for Plateau-Mont-Royal for bohemian charm and walkable cafés (our choice); Old Montréal for historic romance and tourist spots; or Downtown (Centre-Ville) for underground city access and luxury hotels like the Ritz-Carlton. Proximity to metros beats isolation further out. 3. **Master transport** : unlimited passes are a steal! I think they had 1-day, 3-day, and 7-day for very reasonable prices. Ubers are reliable and a good choice if you are going somewhere off-metro. Walking is magical but short bursts only, otherwise it gets too cold. 4. **Book dinners ahead** : Use OpenTable or call directly. For casual eats and lunch at places like Schwartz's, arrive early or embrace the line. 5. **The underground city** : RESO network spans 32 km of heated tunnelsshops, food courts, even cinemas. Your winter lifeline between sights without frostbite, but some of the best places are outside…. 6. **Install a translation app** : French dominates; Google/Apple Translate bridges gaps politely. Remember the Cold saps the power from batteries. 7. **Currency and costs** : CAD is king, cash is required for some places like Fairmount and St. Viateur’s; cards accepted everywhere else and are the default. 8. **Health kit basics** : Lip balm, moisturizer, and electrolyte packs combat dry air. Pharmacies like Jean Coutu are plentiful.s * * * ## Related Vlogs
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December 23, 2025 at 1:30 PM
New Zealand: Winter
Hey there, fellow wanderers. It's Ben and Kayla, back from another slice of the world that left us equal parts exhilarated and exhausted. New Zealand in August (better late than never posting that blog huh)? August is winter for down under, when the South Island turns into a snowy playground and the North Island hums, best time to visit! We're talking crisp air that bites just enough to make your coffee steam like a dragon's breath, landscapes that look like they were painted by a cinematographer, and food spots that punch way above their weight. If you've ever dreamed of trading your work laptop for a fjord cruise or an alpine run, this is your sign. We spent six nights total, four in Queenstown and two in Auckland, absorbing every drop out of it like a kauri tree absorbing carbon . Think of this as our love letter to Aotearoa, served with a small side of fun and a heap of gratitude. ## Queenstown We landed in Queenstown mid-afternoon; It felt otherworldly, mountains, lakes, and somehow we were on an island!? The airport's a modest affair, quiet and efficient, but stepping out? That's when New Zealand hits you. The air's sharp, laced with pine and that faint, tinge of adventure. We grabbed our rental car, a small (by US standards, mid-sized by everyone else’s) SUV that promised to conquer whatever roads we'd throw at it, and pointed it toward our exciting apartment at Stay of Queenstown. It's one of those boutique spots tucked into the hills, with insane views of the lake and that make you forget where you came from. Oh and did we mention that they gave us, fruit, a loaf of bread, some pastries or cookies, eggs, bacon, milk, and more every afternoon! Oddly enough that was one of the most exciting things of the trip; we loved to come back to every evening and seeing what was left for us! We dumped our bags, fired up the laundry machine, because nothing says "vacation" like sorting socks and shirts, but it had to be done, and oddly it’s kind of relaxing. Downtown Queenstown's a compact buzz of energy, all ski adventure junkies in puffy jackets, rubbing shoulders with underdressed tourists, and tour groups getting back from their bungee jumps. We sauntered down to the wharf, the lake lapping at the docks, with a cold wind blowing down from the mountains as soon as the sun sets. That's where we found Public Kitchen and Bar, a spot that looks out over Lake Wakatipu with the kind of casual vibe, but had some upscale dishes. I went for the surf and turf, a hearty plate of steak and prawns that arrived sizzling, the meat charred just right with a nice crust, just the way I like it. Kayla opted for the pork belly, slow-cooked to that melt-in-your-mouth tenderness and a Tuscan white bean and rosemary stew that balanced the fat with a warm winter feeling. A quick peach ale and a mocktail helped us wash it all down. Conversation flowed easy, the kind where you plot the next day's chaos while the sun dips behind the Remarkables. Queenstown's got that pull, you know? It's not just a town; it's a movie. The next morning, the forecast called for snow, and we weren't about to sit it out waiting for it to come. We bundled up and drove the winding road to Arrowtown, a historic gold-rush village that's equal parts charming and frozen in time. The streets are lined with those old wooden facades, that have been nicely repainted giving it a more modern look. We parked and ducked into Wolf Coffee Rosters for flat whites, New Zealand's gift to caffeine addicts, strong and velvety with just the right foam. One of us was looking for a tea or matcha which was a little harder to find, but the locals were kind enough to direct our quest to another small café. While sipping, we wandered the shops, picking out postcards with scenes of sheep-dotted hills and fjords that look too perfect to be real. We scribbled notes to friends back home, stamps applied, and dropped them off in a (community) post office that probably hasn't moved since the 1800s. By afternoon, the snow had started in earnest, fat flakes swirling like confetti from some party. We hit the road again, looping through the countryside, camera in hand. The landscape unfolded like a black-and-white postcard come alive: alpine trees against snow-blanketed mountains, the lake churning a deep navy and wild below. We pulled over at viewpoints, snapping shots until our fingers went numb, the cold seeping through gloves like an unwelcome guest. Until we couldn’t take it any more…and we headed back. Back at Stay of Queenstown, we thawed out with hot showers and mugs of tea, watching the wintery-mix barely pile up outside, and mostly melt away. But when the storm let up a bit, we couldn't resist. Queenstown Gardens called, a 30-hectare oasis right on the lake's edge. We crunched along paths lined with ancient huge trees, passing along the lakes edge watching the huge snowcapped mountains loom in the distance, that now looked enchanted under the setting sun. It's the kind of place where you feel small, in the best way, nature reminding you she's the boss. We looped back as dusk fell, bellies rumbling again, dreaming of tomorrow's heat. Day three dawned clear and biting, perfect for scaling heights. We caught the early gondola up to Bob's Peak, the brand new cable car swaying gently as Queenstown shrank below. At the top, the views are obscene: 360 degrees of jagged peaks, the lake a mirror of turquoise even in winter. Have we mentioned the snow capped mountains, gorgeous, with the trees, un-real, like something you would paint (if I could actually paint). We took a quick walk through this enchanted winter wonderland, and took a quick hike with the limited time we had before our appointment at the Onsen (which was the LAST SPOT available for the week). Walking though the tall pine trees in to the snowy mountainsides felt like a hallmark movie setting. While there was no accumulation of snow at the lower elevations, there was quite a bit at the higher elevations… “Hello early Christmas cards!” After a few hundred photos and probably an hour of video we had to head back. We lingered a little longer a the lookout, quietly watching the snow, breath fogging the air, before heading down for something more indulgent. Onsen Pools and Day Spa became our sanctuary, a tri-onsen ritual that started in a cedar sauna, heat wrapping around us like a steam blanket, sweat beading as eucalyptus steam cleared our heads. Then the hot pool, steaming mineral water sourced from the mountains, soaking away the chill until your muscles turn to jelly. The cold plunge? That's the gut check, a shocking dip into icy depths that jolts you awake, every nerve firing like fireworks. We rotated through it twice, emerging pink and invigorated, the kind of reset that makes you feel invincible. Our last full day in the south was pure bucket-list magic. We boarded a flight with True South Air, a single turboprop high winged Cessna Caravan glided us over the Fiordland National Park like a trip on the Magic School Bus. The pilot dipped low over glaciers and valleys, pointing out peaks that looked carved from the earth. Milford Sound appeared like a dream: sheer cliffs plunging into deep navy waters, waterfalls cascading in silver wispy threads, seals quietly lounging on the rocks below. We touched down on a small strip, transferred to a cruise boat, and motored out through the fjord. The air was damp and alive with bird calls, the mountain peaks looming like a sentinel. We spotted dolphins slicing the surface, their fins flashing gray, a little too quick for me to get a photo or video with the camera, but they where there. Lunch on board was a simple ham and butter sandwiches and kiwifruit, tart and juicy, the fruit's name suddenly making perfect sense. The cruise looped through the sound, narration weaving tales of Māori legends and early explorers, before we flew back to Queenstown. Sitting in the co-pilot seat was amazing, it was wild to fly though the mountains watching the pilot as he manipulated the controls expertly. The hearing the turboprop wind up again spooling to insane speeds, you could feel the power in your chest. The controls looked familiar to the planes I had flown before but the performance was well outside the realm of my experience. I worked hard to capture every angle of his movements, capturing the light, hoping to recreate the moment in the future, for those who watch our YouTube channel. The Pilot was a well educated man, fun to talk to as we soared over the mountains, gleefully taking my camera to get a shot of an alpine lake only on his side. It felt personal, it felt special, like once in a lifetime experience that we are unbelievably thankful for. Dinner that night was low-key, some meat pies we picked up from the local store, and bao buns the meat rich and sweet. We ate and chatted as we packed our bags for our flight to the big city of New Zealand, Auckland. Four nights in Queenstown flew by, leaving us hooked on that adrenaline-laced high, what an experience… ## Auckland The next morning, we bid farewell to the south island with a short flight north to Auckland. The InterContinental Auckland welcomed us with an early check-in miracle, our room overlooking the harbor, all sleek lines and harbor views. Bags dropped, we worked with the concierge to book a tour for the following day and hopped a recommend ferry to Devonport, the crossing a breezy 12 minutes across the Waitemata Harbour. Devonport's a seaside village frozen in charm, white and colorful cottages hugging the hills; reminding me of california, maybe San Francisco. We strolled the wharf first, fishing boats bobbing, the smell of salt and seaweed thick in the air. The small beach stretched out, gritty sand crunching underfoot, waves lapping with that rhythmic insistence, and harbor noises coming from afar; as we watch Auckland proper from a distance. We willed our selves away from the ocean air as we started to peruse the streets, walking from shop to shop, peering in the windows at the curiosities. Tucked away was Paradox Books, a warren of shelves crammed with everything from satirical political books to a non-fiction book on ocean conservation or even the latest smut hit. We lost an hour there, Kayla unearthing a multitude of books she wanted to read, but didn’t want to carry; Me flipping through travelogues that made me itch for seeing more of the world. I finally settle on that ocean conservation book with some encouragement from the lady at the counter, as it was partially written by David Attenborough, in to the bag it went. Climbing Mount Victoria capped it off, a short but steep huff to the summit. We timed it for golden hour, the sun gilding Auckland's skyline across the water, the Sky Tower piercing the clouds like a needle. The view's panoramic, hazy volcanoes in the distance, ferries tracing white wakes. It's the kind of vista that lingers in the mind, a reminder of how this city's sprawled between sea and sky. We took the ferry back, we wandered the harbor, yachts gleaming under lights, street performers strumming guitars. Dinner at The Conservatory felt like stepping into a greenhouse dream: glass walls dripping with ferns, tables lit by candlelight amid tropical plants. Neither of us were terribly hungry, but we had to get something. Auckland's got that urban pulse, but nights like this make it feel intimate, made the world feel smaller. Our second day was a whirlwind tour, no car needed, just a van and a driver who knew every shortcut. First stop: Hobbiton, that slice of Middle-Earth in the Waikato countryside. Stepping onto the set is surreal, those hobbit holes burrowed into green hills, (fake but real) smoke curling from chimneys like Bilbo's just inside. Our guide spun Tolkien lore as we wandered the party tree and Bag End, the attention to detail mind-blowing: handcrafted thatch roofs, gardens bursting with veggies that looked plucked from a fairy tale (surprisingly most of them real). oh and the wildest part is when they take you inside one of the hobbit-homes; they actually encourage you to touch and interact with the set, not something Disney would allow… It's nerd heaven, but even if you're not a Rings fan, the pastoral beauty hits hard, sheep grazing peacefully, the air thick with grass and history. We posed for the obligatory photos, Kayla channeling her inner hobbit, as I nearly bump my head on every doorway. From there, a quick dash to Rotorua, the geothermal heart of the North Island. The landscape shifts dramatically: steaming vents, bubbling mud pools, that sulfur whiff like rotten eggs mixed with promise. We didn't linger long, but it was enough to hear stories of the earth opening up with steam in peoples back yards. First a quick stop at a “secret spot” for lunch for a quick meal before heading to a cultural center to learn more about the Māori. Te Puia was next, a geothermal wonderland and Māori cultural hub. Geysers erupted in towering plumes, hot springs simmered turquoise, the ground warm underfoot like it's alive. The arts center stole the show: carvers shaping wood masks and adding eyes, weavers twisting plants into intricate patterns. We could not pass up the opportunity to pick one up, which we were told was a protector mask that would protect a home or household. The guide was clever and funny as she joked the whole time with a dry sense of humor that many in the group missed (at least initially). On the drive back, our driver pulled over at a roadside stand for ice cream she swore by. It was the real deal, creamy vanilla from local dairy, scooped generous and cold. Simple pleasures like that make tours worthwhile. The day stretched long, from Hobbiton greens to Te Puias steams, but we collapsed into bed satisfied, Auckland's lights twinkling outside. Our final morning was a gentle wind-down. We ascended the Sky Tower, Auckland's iconic spire, elevator whisking us 220 meters up. The enclosed viewing platform offers 360-degree panoramas: harbor glittering, volcanoes still hazy on the horizon, the city a mosaic of dark roofs and blue sea. We lingered, tracing our route on the maps, before dropping back down to the street level for some quick shopping. Queen Street's a shopper's vein, boutiques hawking merino wool sweaters soft as clouds and Manuka honey jars that promise miracles. We grabbed some local chocolates laced with that special honey. Then it was off to the airport, flight bound for our next adventure. New Zealand left us with full hearts and fuller bellies, a reminder that the best trips aren't about checklists but the tastes, the views, the unexpected chats with locals who treat you like family. Queenstown's wild spirit, Auckland's cultured hum, Milford's majesty, and Hobbiton's whimsy. It's a country that demands you show up, and rewards you tenfold. If you're plotting your escape, go now. Pack layers (especially in winter), an appetite, and zero expectations. Aotearoa will handle the rest. * * * ### Practical Tips for New Zealand in Winter Okay, so you’re inspired to chase that New Zealand winter magic? Excellent choice. But a little preparation goes a long way. Here's a dose of practical advice, straight from our experience, to maximize your adventure. 1. **Layers, Layers, Layers:** Seriously. Don’t underestimate the New Zealand climate. It's wildly variable. You can experience sunshine, rain, snow, and gale-force winds all in the same afternoon. Pack warm hats, fleece jackets, waterproof outer shells, and warm socks. Like an onion, easily peeled back or added as needed. 2. **Driving in Winter Conditions:** If you plan on renting a car, be prepared for potentially challenging driving. Roads can be icy or snow-covered, particularly in the South Island. Consider a 4x4 vehicle for added stability. Check road conditions before you set off (NZTA website is your go-to) and be comfortable driving in potentially adverse weather. If you’re not experienced in winter driving, consider sticking to public transport or organized tours. 3. **Embrace the Indoors:** Winter in New Zealand is a cozy season. Don't be afraid to seek refuge in charming cafes, warm pubs, and inviting restaurants. It’s a great excuse to indulge in hearty comfort food! Shopping is also fun, depending on where you are coming from the conversion rate might be nice! 4. **Booking Ahead is Key:** Popular activities and accommodations, particularly in Queenstown, book up well in advance during peak winter season. Secure your flights, tours, and lodging early to avoid disappointment. 5. **Embrace the Off-Season Perks:** Winter travel has its advantages. You’re less likely to encounter crowds, prices are generally lower (excluding peak holiday weeks), and the landscapes have a unique, ethereal beauty under a blanket of snow. 6. **Be Prepared for Short Daylight Hours:** Winter days are shorter. Plan your activities accordingly and be mindful of the limited daylight hours, especially if you’re hiking or exploring remote areas. (This was really tough as days could be really limited) 7. **Understand the Māori Traditions:** If you have the opportunity, learn a little about these traditions and consider attending a cultural performance or visiting a local marae (meeting place) or other cultural center. 8. **Pack a Good Camera (it’s gorgeous out there):** You’re going to want to capture those epic landscapes. Make sure your camera is charged and you have spare batteries. The cold drains power quickly, Including your cellphone! 9. **North vs South:** the South Island may be busy in winter with the skiing and winter events, but the north island can be much more relaxed in the winter. The South Island is more adventurous and harder to travel in general vs the North Island, which can be easier to travel some distance. The South Island is also colder and more wild, if that’s your thing; otherwise the North Island has some nightlife in places like Auckland! Good Luck; Have Fun! * * * ## Our New Zealand Videos
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November 10, 2025 at 11:38 PM
Australia: Winter
I can’t tell you if an Australian vacation is for you, but I can tell you it was for us! Australia. The name conjures images of sun-drenched beaches, relentless wildlife, and a vaguely unsettling emptiness called the outback. We went looking for that, sure, but what we found was something a little more nuanced, a little more… muted. It was winter, after all, and that would ultimately guide our trip. The sun still beat down, but the humidity was a rumour; the rain, however, was real. The crowds thinned, and a certain ”winter” stillness settled over the place. Not the frantic energy you see in the tourist brochures, but it was far from empty, especially as we made it further north, but that’s for later. ## Sydney We started in Sydney, a city that’s undeniably beautiful even when it's raining. The harbour, the Opera House, it’s postcard perfection. Sydney was more than we could have imagined, but the winter gave it more of a hustle and bustle vibe. Clearly a heads-down working season for most, with the party being promised when summer had returned. We headed to the Opera House, not for a show but for the sheer audacity of its ‘sails.’ You have to see them up close, don’t you? Everyone calls them ‘sails.’ And, I get it. From a distance, squinting against the harbor’s glare, they certainly _look_ like sails. But standing here, next to them, under them, it’s something else entirely. They don't feel like sails. They feel protective, like a thick concrete shell. A deliberate act of protection. It's an interesting thought – this idea of protection. In a world saturated with TikToks, Reels, and the endless churn of “free” short-form content, where fleeting attention spans are the currency of the realm. The shells feel like a fortress. They’re a protective cage that shelters the fragile rituals inside from the roar of the world, the hum of traffic, the noise of tourists, the endless stream of TikToks and Reels that now saturate our visual landscape. The “sails” are not catching wind; they’re keeping it out—a fortress built against the relentless assault of the algorithm protecting these legacy-arts. You think about what's happening inside. The rehearsals, the performances, the quiet, focused work that goes into creating something. Something that demands more (or is it less?) than a swipe and a like. It’s a sanctuary, really, from a different time, when you had to go out for a show. The Sydney Opera House had its fair share of controversy and scandal during its time, especially being over 1000% over budget and 10 years late. Still some of the best shows and concerts in the world are played on its stages. It does still have a bit of an elitist-air about it. The Pope gave a speech there, Nelson Mandela gave a speech there, Thin Lizzy played, and Queen Elizabeth II opened it; it definitely had the gravitas. But Who deserves to be on that stage, that’s an exercise left to the reader, go on the tour, watch a show, its worth it. You can’t visit Sydney without some fish and chips. It's practically a civic duty. It's a greasy, simple dish that was, without a trace of irony, everything a good meal should be. The fish, battered and fried to a golden hue, was fresh enough to practically sing a note of the ocean itself, even with the rogue dusting of "chicken spice" (which apparently is the most popular). And the chips – perfectly executed: soft, yielding within, with a satisfying crunch on the outside. It's the kind of dish that doesn't ask for compliments; it just delivers ### Bondi Beach In the afternoon, we hopped over to Bondi Beach, which, despite being in winter, was a place where people still lined up for an early sunset. The Bondi to Coogee walk was a cliff‑side affair that felt more like a dare than a stroll. The rocks were slick with sea spray, and the waves roared like a thunderous clap as they impacted the cliff face. We took a break on a ledge and watched the surfers—some of them looked like they’d spent a lifetime on a board, but for others, the winter water was the challenge. We sat on a ledge, watching surfers wrestle with the cold water. Some moved with the fluidity of years of practice, while others just looked like they were trying to survive a dunking. It was fitting that a life-saving club was only a few feet away. Looking at those waves and the rip-current sucking and dragging the water back out to sea after every crash, you knew why the TV show Bondi Rescue was filmed here. ## Cairns We needed a break from the urban sprawl, so we flew north to Cairns, a gateway to a different kind of Australia: the tropical north of the continent. The Daintree Rainforest. Forget everything you think you know about jungles. This wasn’t a dripping, sweaty, insect-ridden nightmare. It was… calming. The air was clean and crisp, it was. Our guide seemed to know every inch of that place. He didn’t talk much, but when he did, it was to point out a camouflaged bug, a nesting bird, or the numerous plants. Some of which, like the cycads, have existed since the dinosaurs. He treated the rainforest with a reverence I found moving. We spent the day hiking through the dense undergrowth, the sunlight filtering through the canopy in dark dappled patterns. There’s a feeling of enclosure, of being watched, but it's not threatening. All those stories of drop-bears, the koala's carnivorous cousin, and the episodes on Animal Planet dedicated to the horrors of Australia turn out to be mostly falsehoods. It’s gorgeous here, sure, there are some dangerous plants and animals, but with some common sense, it's more TV show special and less everyday life. Oh, and if you are planning this trip, quick tips: **Rent a car, and Stay in Port Douglas** (much better spot)**!** ### Fitzroy Island Then, there was Fitzroy Island. The wind at the dock was warning that the ferry ride might require some sea legs, and potentially some medication, of which we lacked. The large ferry arriving late to the dock was also an omen of what was to come. Luckily, the ferry was a large ocean-going craft; the waves and wind pounded against it, sending a heavy sea spray onto the windows, resulting in a surrealistic painting out the window. The large catamaran, along with the 100+ passengers on board, eventually made it to the awaiting dock on Fitzroy Island. We quickly picked up our snorkeling gear and made it towards the beach, and looking to make the most of our limited time, right into the water. The water was slightly murky, due to the forces of nature tossing and churning the water that was, to our appreciation, protected by the island. I’m a natural swimmer, to be honest. I’m at home in the water, maybe even part fish. Something about the silence of the underwater world, the weightlessness, the sheer _otherness_ of it all… it was mesmerizing. While I wish we would have had the opportunity to dive futher out, on one of the well known reefs of the Great Barrier Reef, logistics and weather got in the way. But Fitzroy Reef is not without its charm. The sea turtles. Those ancient, graceful creatures glided effortlessly through the water. They weren't show-offs, they were simply _being_ ; they just existed, in their own slow, deliberate rhythm. Maybe just slightly curious about the hairless primate, swimming around them, but not enough to distract them from eating. It’s a reminder that there are things in this world far older, far wiser than we are, much less anxious and worried. Their personalities definitely match that of Crush from Nemo, laid back and chill. There is plenty more reef to see here, although the current was picking up and the sun was still shining, and we had a picnic lunch back on the beach, calling our names. With only an hour left on the island before our ferry left, it was time to enjoy one of the best beaches in Australia, but not for too long. We had been warned that if we missed our slot, we would be on the island overnight...which could have been fun, but paying for another hotel was not in the budget, and we didn't bring any camping gear. ## Brisbane Our final stop was a fleeting afternoon in Brisbane, with a mandatory pilgrimage to the Lone Pine Koala Sanctuary. Look, I get it. Koalas are cute. They’d been drilled into our heads as a national icon of Australia. The experience felt… slightly manufactured. The scent of eucalyptus was overpowering, the crowd overwhelming. The koalas, perched awkwardly on branches, seemed more bored than charmed. It felt like a checkbox. An obligation fulfilled. The Kangaroos, however, are more intriguing. You enter a double-fenced-in area that’s significantly larger than one would expect, and there they are in the distance. can walk right up to them as they lie in the grass, relaxing in the setting sun. Kangaroos had slightly wiry hair, a little like a Jack Russell terrier, maybe slightly smoother, dark eyes, and their sizes ranged from medium dog-sized to a full adult human. There were quite a few kangaroos of obviously different species, and some of them were absolutely jacked, like they had been on the protein powder and pre-workout like a fitness influencer. Others were much more… bunny-like.. little more cuddly looking, but still not something to be trifled with. Brisbane was gorgeous on a Friday afternoon; there was so much more to see and do than what we had time for, which just means we’ll have to come back. ## Australia Australia, it turns out, is not a monolith. It's a collection of landscapes, personalities, and experiences, each with its own unique “flavor”. It’s a place of beauty and unsettling silence. It's a place where the sun shines relentlessly, but the chill lingers in the air ( at least in Sydney). It’s a place that wants to be seen, not just visited. It's a place I suspect we are going to be thinking about for a long time, especially the parts we haven’t seen yet. Now, onto New Zealand... * * * ## Related Vlogs
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