That’s fair enough. It certainly is completely different for everyone and I appreciate you sharing your thoughts. It’s cool to hear. Thankfully, I’m okay, but we are all on a journey in our own way and it’s great to hear a snapshot of yours. Take care.

… although it sometimes results in me taking onboard their issues and it can be a real toll on my own wellbeing, and leaves me little time to focus on myself. The unconscious choices as you put it, are sometimes tricky to recognise or understand. It adds to the load… How can you combat that?

to take hold. I understand that there will never be a ‘straight answer’ that will be appropriate for everyone, but what you have said is an inspiration as a starting point. I always try and take the approach that people have the best positive intentions which leaves me vulnerable in many ways…

Well, thank you for sharing. That’s very generous of you and extremely admirable that you want to help others who are struggling. It’s such a positive thing that you seem to have such a solid framework in terms of how to deal with negative influence and can recognise when these influences are likely

Hi! Sorry to be intrusive - and feel free to not share in an open forum - but I just wanted to ask how you cut such people out? It’s hard to not be drawn back without feeling guilty.

That certainly would put the cat among the pigeons! I’d certainly be up for it, but the £££ worries me!

Absolutely. Potter is my choice for the reasons I outlined under the Moyes comment - just didn’t want to come across too biased by leading with him!!

… AND AGAIN!! SACK!! 🐾🔵🟢

I heard bits and bobs of it… I can’t believe Lampard was suggested towards the end!! No way!!

I hope that you’re right. I’m just a little concerned for the reasons I said above. He would bring a level of excitement though, for sure!

Yeah, I find it difficult to understand why some are so determined that it should be Ruud… he left PSV under a cloud & appeared to be a divisive figure among fans & wider club during his time there.

Worry about some PSV fans who’ve said the team weren’t fighters under him, which is what we need.

Time to see what we really have in him now!🤞