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Bella DePaulo
@belladepaulo.bsky.social
Author of "SINGLE AT HEART: The Power, Freedom, and Heart-Filling Joy of Single Life." Always have been single, always will be. I write the "Living Single" blog for Psych Today. Bylines in NY Times, Wash Post, Atlantic, etc. TEDx talk, 1.7 million views.
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In our culture, being a woman, being single, and being independent are three taboo identities — markers of defiance that society is unwilling to accept.

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October 7, 2025 at 10:38 AM