Becca Havian
@beccahavian.bsky.social
Host of the podcast, "Hold That Thought" https://linktr.ee/holdthatthoughtpodcast
We reach for labels because they promise relief — a way to stop explaining ourselves.
But we don’t talk enough about what we give up in exchange for that shorthand, that clarity.
Would you rather be clearly defined or loosely understood?
But we don’t talk enough about what we give up in exchange for that shorthand, that clarity.
Would you rather be clearly defined or loosely understood?
January 21, 2026 at 9:06 PM
We reach for labels because they promise relief — a way to stop explaining ourselves.
But we don’t talk enough about what we give up in exchange for that shorthand, that clarity.
Would you rather be clearly defined or loosely understood?
But we don’t talk enough about what we give up in exchange for that shorthand, that clarity.
Would you rather be clearly defined or loosely understood?
Raisin Bran is actually good and we don’t talk about it enough
March 13, 2025 at 5:57 AM
Raisin Bran is actually good and we don’t talk about it enough
Sometimes we make decisions we regret…
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Naked in the Town Square
And I put myself there
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January 1, 2025 at 5:08 PM
Sometimes we make decisions we regret…
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A reminder that you can always retreat to the bathroom or your aunt’s closet if you need a moment of peace… And you can read this while you’re there ;)
The "Let Them" Theory
A mantra for the holidays
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December 25, 2024 at 10:42 PM
A reminder that you can always retreat to the bathroom or your aunt’s closet if you need a moment of peace… And you can read this while you’re there ;)