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Stephen
@bearlybent.bsky.social
Bi+ activist, harness racing fan, partner, house music afficionado, system, friend. Toronto will always be my home. Pronouns he/they.
💕: Kieran Charlie and Dorian.
Reminder to self regarding that "doing something big on autism" moron: he speaks at a fourth-grade level.
September 23, 2025 at 12:28 AM
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After years of fighting for visibility for bi+ people, we're finally seeing a major shift. There's more authentic representation than ever before. While there's always more to be done, we've made progress and that is worth celebrating.

#BiVisibilityMonth #BiPride #BiPlus #LGBTQIA+
September 23, 2025 at 12:15 AM
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#Toronto! Celebrate great work by bi+ writers this Friday! Fantasy, realism, poetry, and more! Featuring: Kamila Rina; Kathy Friedman; J.M. Frey; Jacqueline Chia; Sanchari Sur; and Rachel A. Rosen. In the atrium at the new Glad Day Lit venue at 32 Lisgar, 6:30 pm. www.eventbrite.com/e/bi-arts-fe...
Bi+ Arts Festival Author's Showcase
Featuring poetry and fiction by fantastic bi+ authors.
www.eventbrite.com
September 14, 2025 at 6:26 PM
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Happy to help raise $$ to pay #queerartists at this years Bi+ Arts Festival. Cool stuff to bid on including some of my stickers and a new tshirt! #bipride #bisexual
Bid at www.32auctions.com/biartsfestiv...
September 13, 2025 at 2:29 AM
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"I just want to say, go birds, fuck ICE and free Palestine," "Hacks" star Hannah Einbinder at the #Emmys
September 15, 2025 at 12:50 AM
Horrid.
JD Vance on homelessness: "I don't know why we accepted that it was reasonable to have crazy people yelling at our kids. You should not have to cross the street in downtown Atlanta to avoid a crazy person yelling at your family. Those are your streets."
August 22, 2025 at 12:54 AM
I'm sadly not surprised at all.
Conservative Leader Pierre Poilievre comes wants to make sure everyone knows he's a full blown transphobe, in case there was any doubt.

He even included a shout out to JK Rowling. This hate should be disqualifying from any politician.

"women's rights advocate" go fuck yourself
August 21, 2025 at 1:28 AM
Luna, Averie, Bandit, Nutmeg, Cinnamon and Balor. I live vicariously through all of them. #cats
August 11, 2025 at 9:23 AM
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Plot twist- he just came for the fireworks. He left disappointed….
On a serious note we need more of this…
Protect our wild life… 💚
#bluesky
August 7, 2025 at 7:38 PM
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So much love and effort went into getting the Bi+ boat ready this afternoon. Can't wait to join Amsterdam's Canal Pride tomorrow with 70 incredible folks by our side. It's going to be a beautiful day! 💖💜💙

#bi #biplus #amsterdamcanalpride
August 2, 2025 at 3:15 AM
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The 12th annual international Gender Census 2025 is now open until at least 30th August 2025!

survey.gendercensus.com

It's for anyone whose gender (or lack thereof) isn't described by the M/F binary. It's short and easy, and results are useful in academia, business and self-advocacy.
July 30, 2025 at 4:02 PM
I will always remember Kathy and our wedding day, 19 years ago. On my first visit to Los Angeles, she gave me Paul Polybear, the teddy bear that is sitting next to me in bed right now. My tattoo on my left arm will always be a memory of her ("Softflame") and me ("Polybear").
July 22, 2025 at 5:48 AM
Failure to launch today. At least tomorrow is a new day, another chance. #bleh
July 22, 2025 at 1:17 AM
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That’s right, fuckface.
July 21, 2025 at 6:13 PM
When I was a boy, I could never fall asleep if a thunderstorm was happening. However, I could always sleep through a storm if I was already asleep.
July 20, 2025 at 9:04 AM
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For @theguardian.com I wrote an introduction to a feature on “My Toys,” a new photography project from Gabriele Galimberti www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle...
‘It’s not just pleasure – it’s resistance’: portraits of people with their sex toys around the world
Gulim in Kazakhstan keeps her very first one as a souvenir while Coco in Thailand breaks the law by having them, and Serena in Italy says they’re essential. But there’s still a stigma when it comes to...
www.theguardian.com
July 19, 2025 at 5:30 PM
From Berkeley Breathed.
July 18, 2025 at 6:06 PM
Goodbye and good riddance!
July 17, 2025 at 12:51 AM
I've been seeing this from the NY Times, and I'm aware that the article is written with 45-47 in mind. I'm Canadian, and right-wing families are here too. My parents have passed on, and they're not included in my thoughts, but as for the rest of my blood family, my answer is "nope, fuck you all".
July 14, 2025 at 11:52 PM
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July 10, 2025 at 6:59 PM
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If you need some music to heal you, lift you up and give you a wee bit of hope - can’t go wrong with this set, still magical 4 years on. youtu.be/H2I6V0NlaHg
Fred again.. - Studio Live (London, April 2021)
YouTube video by Fred again . .
youtu.be
July 10, 2025 at 4:54 AM
I'm reminded of a phrase from a game show several years ago: "You are the weakest link. Goodbye."
July 8, 2025 at 7:40 PM
My moods overall through the past year have, I believe, been improved, but depression has always stayed. I guess I can say it's morphed in many ways. A month ago my home looked terrible, recycling and garbage bags everywhere. Before Pride, one night I cleaned up a lot of what was on the floor... (1)
July 8, 2025 at 6:45 PM