idk. it just really gets to me because i don't think i have a shallow opinion on this stuff. i try not to center my own voice in conversations abt weight and body type but that doesnt mean i dont care strongly about it. and yeah, tummy is just nice. and i know how shitty the world can be about that.

like i dont think i every actively decided to date or play with someone because of their body type. i think it just works out that way because im more comfortable with people that arent clinging to the myth of popular beauty norms and you get that more from people who dont fit that mold

im not trying to posture having the Correct Position on this its just something I've had to mull over a lot. like idk I've had a lot of really cool fat ppl in my life and i tend to relate more with how they've viewed and talked about bodies than the skinny cis ppl I've known

like. first of all is it a crime to have a preference in body type? its not considered weird when people like skinny girls. but moreover its only an active choice insofar as it feels like leveling the scales. most of the people i know irl aren't skinny. its kinda jarring when All the porn is.

i think a lot of my kinks are very contextual. a foot is just a part of the body but being trapped very close to someones body is Really Good and socks are the only other commonly worn garment that pressed you as close as underwear does, and if anything are much harder to escape

i would always prefer a well intentioned fumble from a friend to the rambling of a horny stranger who thinks 25 bucks buys consent, unless the metric is which one i will file away to mock internally for the rest of time in which case good news youre nowhere close to peak material

could even be good. whos to say

youre right the the pfp adds a not-unwelcome sinister aura to this

its okay sometimes playing in this space brings weird feelings! and if u wanna talk it out more at all privately i am happy to, but know that id be direct and patient with you if a line were actually crossed

i wasnt upset at you lace! it genuinely would be neat to see that side of you if you genuinely feel it, just know i dont need you to force it!

if it ever happened im sure itd be an interesting thing to explore and discover but do know you are classified as so small in my head and you dont need to perform bigness for me <3

skeptical. the lace i know is like 🤏 this big idk that she can put me anywhere

this is very cute... i dont prefer for people to perform any larger than they generally feel around me but this is a very sweet image... <3

but like follow your heart. if its ass its ass and oh noooo i guess i just go there now oh nooooo if i haaaave to

being switchy is such a delight

yeah, this would work on me.