Barry Selby
@barryselby.bsky.social
Love & Relationship Expert, Speaker, Author, Podcaster, Spiritual Guide
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Happy International Left Handers Day! Where are my fellow left handers at?
August 13, 2025 at 9:24 PM
Happy International Left Handers Day! Where are my fellow left handers at?
When you begin a new relationship, whaf do you realy feel is the most challenging thing? Is this the hardest thing for you? Or is it giving up your dating profile? Or is it adjusting to a new person?
Let me know, below.
Let me know, below.
August 12, 2025 at 1:05 AM
When you begin a new relationship, whaf do you realy feel is the most challenging thing? Is this the hardest thing for you? Or is it giving up your dating profile? Or is it adjusting to a new person?
Let me know, below.
Let me know, below.
ACTIONS PROVE WHO SOMEONE IS. WORDS JUST PROVE WHO THEY TO BE.
Notice who you trust this week.
Follow me for more wisdom!
And reach out if you want to upgrade from words to actions.
Notice who you trust this week.
Follow me for more wisdom!
And reach out if you want to upgrade from words to actions.
August 10, 2025 at 11:49 PM
ACTIONS PROVE WHO SOMEONE IS. WORDS JUST PROVE WHO THEY TO BE.
Notice who you trust this week.
Follow me for more wisdom!
And reach out if you want to upgrade from words to actions.
Notice who you trust this week.
Follow me for more wisdom!
And reach out if you want to upgrade from words to actions.
THIS IS MY KIND OF RELATIONSHIP!
When both partners have done their work… aah, that’s the relationship for me. How about you?
I have space on my calendar for a few committed individuals who are ready and committed to their work. Message me for details.
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
When both partners have done their work… aah, that’s the relationship for me. How about you?
I have space on my calendar for a few committed individuals who are ready and committed to their work. Message me for details.
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
August 10, 2025 at 12:08 AM
THIS IS MY KIND OF RELATIONSHIP!
When both partners have done their work… aah, that’s the relationship for me. How about you?
I have space on my calendar for a few committed individuals who are ready and committed to their work. Message me for details.
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
When both partners have done their work… aah, that’s the relationship for me. How about you?
I have space on my calendar for a few committed individuals who are ready and committed to their work. Message me for details.
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
WHEN YOU CHANGE YOUR INNER EMOTIONAL CLIMATE, THE WORLD AROUND YOU CHANGES TOO.
Join my Emotional Freedom Experience & have more peace, clarity, & truth that becomes your default state.
Starting July 9th, just 5 individuals, 3 spots left, will you grab one of them?
Send me a message: FREEDOM!
Join my Emotional Freedom Experience & have more peace, clarity, & truth that becomes your default state.
Starting July 9th, just 5 individuals, 3 spots left, will you grab one of them?
Send me a message: FREEDOM!
June 27, 2025 at 7:36 PM
WHEN YOU CHANGE YOUR INNER EMOTIONAL CLIMATE, THE WORLD AROUND YOU CHANGES TOO.
Join my Emotional Freedom Experience & have more peace, clarity, & truth that becomes your default state.
Starting July 9th, just 5 individuals, 3 spots left, will you grab one of them?
Send me a message: FREEDOM!
Join my Emotional Freedom Experience & have more peace, clarity, & truth that becomes your default state.
Starting July 9th, just 5 individuals, 3 spots left, will you grab one of them?
Send me a message: FREEDOM!
LET GO OF WHAT IS NOT YOURS!
June 26, 2025 at 6:00 PM
LET GO OF WHAT IS NOT YOURS!
TURN YOUR EMOTIONAL WOUNDS INTO WISDOM
You were never meant to stay wounded. You were meant to rise.
In my Emotional Freedom Experience, you will transform pain into power, beginning July 9th, 30 days, with my guidance for five committed individuals.
Send me a message with the word FREEDOM.
You were never meant to stay wounded. You were meant to rise.
In my Emotional Freedom Experience, you will transform pain into power, beginning July 9th, 30 days, with my guidance for five committed individuals.
Send me a message with the word FREEDOM.
June 25, 2025 at 7:58 PM
TURN YOUR EMOTIONAL WOUNDS INTO WISDOM
You were never meant to stay wounded. You were meant to rise.
In my Emotional Freedom Experience, you will transform pain into power, beginning July 9th, 30 days, with my guidance for five committed individuals.
Send me a message with the word FREEDOM.
You were never meant to stay wounded. You were meant to rise.
In my Emotional Freedom Experience, you will transform pain into power, beginning July 9th, 30 days, with my guidance for five committed individuals.
Send me a message with the word FREEDOM.
YOU DON’T HAVE TO PERFORM FOR LOVE.
Don’t shrink yourself for love. Or over-give, or chase approval for love.
In my Emotional Freedom Experience, beginning July 9, break the cycle of people-pleasing & reconnect with self-respect.
Send me a message with the word FREEDOM and I will send you deets.
Don’t shrink yourself for love. Or over-give, or chase approval for love.
In my Emotional Freedom Experience, beginning July 9, break the cycle of people-pleasing & reconnect with self-respect.
Send me a message with the word FREEDOM and I will send you deets.
June 24, 2025 at 8:56 PM
YOU DON’T HAVE TO PERFORM FOR LOVE.
Don’t shrink yourself for love. Or over-give, or chase approval for love.
In my Emotional Freedom Experience, beginning July 9, break the cycle of people-pleasing & reconnect with self-respect.
Send me a message with the word FREEDOM and I will send you deets.
Don’t shrink yourself for love. Or over-give, or chase approval for love.
In my Emotional Freedom Experience, beginning July 9, break the cycle of people-pleasing & reconnect with self-respect.
Send me a message with the word FREEDOM and I will send you deets.
ARE YOU READY FOR EMOTIONAL FREEDOM AND GREATER SELF-TRUST?
Watch this video and send me a message with the word “FREEDOM” and I’ll send you details.
Watch this video and send me a message with the word “FREEDOM” and I’ll send you details.
June 24, 2025 at 5:40 AM
ARE YOU READY FOR EMOTIONAL FREEDOM AND GREATER SELF-TRUST?
Watch this video and send me a message with the word “FREEDOM” and I’ll send you details.
Watch this video and send me a message with the word “FREEDOM” and I’ll send you details.
LET'S TALK ABOUT WHY OTHERS TREAT YOU LIKE THEY DO!
Simply put, the relationship you have with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship - the way you treat yourself is the blueprint for how others will treat you. I get a lot clearer, so watch this!
Simply put, the relationship you have with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship - the way you treat yourself is the blueprint for how others will treat you. I get a lot clearer, so watch this!
May 16, 2025 at 5:58 PM
LET'S TALK ABOUT WHY OTHERS TREAT YOU LIKE THEY DO!
Simply put, the relationship you have with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship - the way you treat yourself is the blueprint for how others will treat you. I get a lot clearer, so watch this!
Simply put, the relationship you have with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship - the way you treat yourself is the blueprint for how others will treat you. I get a lot clearer, so watch this!
LET'S TALK ABOUT MIXED SIGNALS!
Stop over-analyzing mixed signals. Here is how to know if someone is genuinely interested in you. You want to know, don't you?
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#attraction
#mixedsignals
Stop over-analyzing mixed signals. Here is how to know if someone is genuinely interested in you. You want to know, don't you?
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#attraction
#mixedsignals
May 15, 2025 at 7:43 PM
LET'S TALK ABOUT MIXED SIGNALS!
Stop over-analyzing mixed signals. Here is how to know if someone is genuinely interested in you. You want to know, don't you?
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#attraction
#mixedsignals
Stop over-analyzing mixed signals. Here is how to know if someone is genuinely interested in you. You want to know, don't you?
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#attraction
#mixedsignals
LET'S TALK ABOUT YOUR HEALING JOURNEY!
Do you feel stuck in your healing journey? If you have been doing the inner work but still feel stuck, there is a reason. Watch this.
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#healingjourney
#feelingstuck
Do you feel stuck in your healing journey? If you have been doing the inner work but still feel stuck, there is a reason. Watch this.
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#healingjourney
#feelingstuck
May 14, 2025 at 6:17 PM
LET'S TALK ABOUT YOUR HEALING JOURNEY!
Do you feel stuck in your healing journey? If you have been doing the inner work but still feel stuck, there is a reason. Watch this.
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#healingjourney
#feelingstuck
Do you feel stuck in your healing journey? If you have been doing the inner work but still feel stuck, there is a reason. Watch this.
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#healingjourney
#feelingstuck
LET'S TALK ABOUT RECOVERING FROM BETRAYAL!
If you have been betrayed in your relationship, the hardest part is not being unable to trust others again—it is actually about being unable to trust yourself. How do you rebuild your self-trust after being betrayed? Watch this! And reach out for support.
If you have been betrayed in your relationship, the hardest part is not being unable to trust others again—it is actually about being unable to trust yourself. How do you rebuild your self-trust after being betrayed? Watch this! And reach out for support.
May 13, 2025 at 5:23 PM
LET'S TALK ABOUT RECOVERING FROM BETRAYAL!
If you have been betrayed in your relationship, the hardest part is not being unable to trust others again—it is actually about being unable to trust yourself. How do you rebuild your self-trust after being betrayed? Watch this! And reach out for support.
If you have been betrayed in your relationship, the hardest part is not being unable to trust others again—it is actually about being unable to trust yourself. How do you rebuild your self-trust after being betrayed? Watch this! And reach out for support.
LET’S TALK ABOUT ATTRACTING A HIGH-VALUE PARTNER, THE RIGHT WAY!
Attraction is not about tricks—it is about alignment. Watch this. And reach out for support and guidance.
#TheLoveDoctor
#datingexpert
#relationshipexpert
#attraction
Attraction is not about tricks—it is about alignment. Watch this. And reach out for support and guidance.
#TheLoveDoctor
#datingexpert
#relationshipexpert
#attraction
May 12, 2025 at 6:22 PM
LET’S TALK ABOUT ATTRACTING A HIGH-VALUE PARTNER, THE RIGHT WAY!
Attraction is not about tricks—it is about alignment. Watch this. And reach out for support and guidance.
#TheLoveDoctor
#datingexpert
#relationshipexpert
#attraction
Attraction is not about tricks—it is about alignment. Watch this. And reach out for support and guidance.
#TheLoveDoctor
#datingexpert
#relationshipexpert
#attraction
LET'S TALK ABOUT HOW PEOPLE TREAT YOU!
There is a reason people treat you the way they do. This video explains the one shift that will change how they treat you!
#TheLoveDoctor
#datingexpert
#relationshipexpert
#Respect
#selfrelationship
There is a reason people treat you the way they do. This video explains the one shift that will change how they treat you!
#TheLoveDoctor
#datingexpert
#relationshipexpert
#Respect
#selfrelationship
May 9, 2025 at 5:45 PM
LET'S TALK ABOUT HOW PEOPLE TREAT YOU!
There is a reason people treat you the way they do. This video explains the one shift that will change how they treat you!
#TheLoveDoctor
#datingexpert
#relationshipexpert
#Respect
#selfrelationship
There is a reason people treat you the way they do. This video explains the one shift that will change how they treat you!
#TheLoveDoctor
#datingexpert
#relationshipexpert
#Respect
#selfrelationship
LETS TALK ABOUT SELF-RELATIONSHIP!
Do you honestly, vulnerably, proudly, love yourself?
It is clear who doesn’t love themselves. It shows through how they treat others.
My core work is helping you love yourself authentically and honestly.
Message me and grow!
Do you honestly, vulnerably, proudly, love yourself?
It is clear who doesn’t love themselves. It shows through how they treat others.
My core work is helping you love yourself authentically and honestly.
Message me and grow!
May 8, 2025 at 6:30 PM
LETS TALK ABOUT SELF-RELATIONSHIP!
Do you honestly, vulnerably, proudly, love yourself?
It is clear who doesn’t love themselves. It shows through how they treat others.
My core work is helping you love yourself authentically and honestly.
Message me and grow!
Do you honestly, vulnerably, proudly, love yourself?
It is clear who doesn’t love themselves. It shows through how they treat others.
My core work is helping you love yourself authentically and honestly.
Message me and grow!
GREAT RELATIONSHIPS DON’T JUST HAPPEN.
They require attention and more!
Also notice they are walking side by side, facing the same direction. This is another useful key to healthy relationships!
Want more? Message me.
#thelovedoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#healthyrelationship
They require attention and more!
Also notice they are walking side by side, facing the same direction. This is another useful key to healthy relationships!
Want more? Message me.
#thelovedoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#healthyrelationship
May 8, 2025 at 6:17 PM
GREAT RELATIONSHIPS DON’T JUST HAPPEN.
They require attention and more!
Also notice they are walking side by side, facing the same direction. This is another useful key to healthy relationships!
Want more? Message me.
#thelovedoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#healthyrelationship
They require attention and more!
Also notice they are walking side by side, facing the same direction. This is another useful key to healthy relationships!
Want more? Message me.
#thelovedoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#healthyrelationship
LET'S TALK ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP STANDARDS!
Have prospective dates told you that your relationship standards are too high? Then watch this!
#TheLoveDoctor
#datingexpert
#relationshipexpert
#relationshipstandards
#YouDeserveBetter
Have prospective dates told you that your relationship standards are too high? Then watch this!
#TheLoveDoctor
#datingexpert
#relationshipexpert
#relationshipstandards
#YouDeserveBetter
May 8, 2025 at 3:36 AM
LET'S TALK ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP STANDARDS!
Have prospective dates told you that your relationship standards are too high? Then watch this!
#TheLoveDoctor
#datingexpert
#relationshipexpert
#relationshipstandards
#YouDeserveBetter
Have prospective dates told you that your relationship standards are too high? Then watch this!
#TheLoveDoctor
#datingexpert
#relationshipexpert
#relationshipstandards
#YouDeserveBetter
LET’S TALK ABOUT THE ONE BELIEF THAT KEEPS YOU STUCK IN PAINFUL RELATIONSHIP CYCLES!
There is one subconscious belief shaping every relationship you have ever had. Want to know what it is? Watch and then reach out!
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#BeABetterPartner
There is one subconscious belief shaping every relationship you have ever had. Want to know what it is? Watch and then reach out!
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#BeABetterPartner
May 6, 2025 at 6:44 PM
LET’S TALK ABOUT THE ONE BELIEF THAT KEEPS YOU STUCK IN PAINFUL RELATIONSHIP CYCLES!
There is one subconscious belief shaping every relationship you have ever had. Want to know what it is? Watch and then reach out!
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#BeABetterPartner
There is one subconscious belief shaping every relationship you have ever had. Want to know what it is? Watch and then reach out!
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#BeABetterPartner
LET'S TALK ABOUT YOUR SELF-WORTH!
This is the fastest way to build unshakable self-worth! and a reminder - you do not wake up one day magically confident—you build it, decision by decision.
#TheLoveDoctor
#datingexpert
#relationshipexpert
#selfworth
#confidence
This is the fastest way to build unshakable self-worth! and a reminder - you do not wake up one day magically confident—you build it, decision by decision.
#TheLoveDoctor
#datingexpert
#relationshipexpert
#selfworth
#confidence
May 2, 2025 at 7:50 PM
LET'S TALK ABOUT YOUR SELF-WORTH!
This is the fastest way to build unshakable self-worth! and a reminder - you do not wake up one day magically confident—you build it, decision by decision.
#TheLoveDoctor
#datingexpert
#relationshipexpert
#selfworth
#confidence
This is the fastest way to build unshakable self-worth! and a reminder - you do not wake up one day magically confident—you build it, decision by decision.
#TheLoveDoctor
#datingexpert
#relationshipexpert
#selfworth
#confidence
LET'S TALK ABOUT HEALTHY BOUNDARIES!
Do you know how to set boundaries without feeling like you will lose someone? If you are afraid to set boundaries because you think you will push people away, listen up!
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#boundaries
#healthyboundaries
Do you know how to set boundaries without feeling like you will lose someone? If you are afraid to set boundaries because you think you will push people away, listen up!
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#boundaries
#healthyboundaries
May 1, 2025 at 5:57 PM
LET'S TALK ABOUT HEALTHY BOUNDARIES!
Do you know how to set boundaries without feeling like you will lose someone? If you are afraid to set boundaries because you think you will push people away, listen up!
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#boundaries
#healthyboundaries
Do you know how to set boundaries without feeling like you will lose someone? If you are afraid to set boundaries because you think you will push people away, listen up!
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#boundaries
#healthyboundaries
LET'S TALK ABOUT SELF-WORTH AND WALKING AWAY!
Did you know that walking away from a bad relationship can be your greatest act of self-worth! Let's dive in.
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#WalkAway
#selfworth
Did you know that walking away from a bad relationship can be your greatest act of self-worth! Let's dive in.
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#WalkAway
#selfworth
April 30, 2025 at 7:32 PM
LET'S TALK ABOUT SELF-WORTH AND WALKING AWAY!
Did you know that walking away from a bad relationship can be your greatest act of self-worth! Let's dive in.
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#WalkAway
#selfworth
Did you know that walking away from a bad relationship can be your greatest act of self-worth! Let's dive in.
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#WalkAway
#selfworth
LET'S TALK ABOUT RED FLAGS!
Here are some relationship red flags you can’t ignore, as they might not be obvious—until it’s too late!
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#redflagsindating
#redflag
#DateBetter
Here are some relationship red flags you can’t ignore, as they might not be obvious—until it’s too late!
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#redflagsindating
#redflag
#DateBetter
April 29, 2025 at 5:20 PM
LET'S TALK ABOUT RED FLAGS!
Here are some relationship red flags you can’t ignore, as they might not be obvious—until it’s too late!
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#redflagsindating
#redflag
#DateBetter
Here are some relationship red flags you can’t ignore, as they might not be obvious—until it’s too late!
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#redflagsindating
#redflag
#DateBetter
LET'S TALK ABOUT LETTING GO OF SOMEONE WHO IS NOT RIGHT FOR YOU!
You KNOW they are not right for you, yet you still are unable to walk away. Let’s talk about why.
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#lettinggo
#WalkAway
#ChooseBetter
You KNOW they are not right for you, yet you still are unable to walk away. Let’s talk about why.
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#lettinggo
#WalkAway
#ChooseBetter
April 28, 2025 at 4:49 PM
LET'S TALK ABOUT LETTING GO OF SOMEONE WHO IS NOT RIGHT FOR YOU!
You KNOW they are not right for you, yet you still are unable to walk away. Let’s talk about why.
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#lettinggo
#WalkAway
#ChooseBetter
You KNOW they are not right for you, yet you still are unable to walk away. Let’s talk about why.
#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#lettinggo
#WalkAway
#ChooseBetter