Man, I wish I wish you could as well. I would love to read about such experiences.

It has been wild. Over the last 6ish years, I went from not having it in common with any IRL friends/partners to having 5ish I've actively had sessions with and 2ish who are interested.

I mean, some people have the kink of doing that to others without wanting it to be done to them. I love brainwashing my consenting partners but absolutely hate the idea of someone else having the same power over me.

I would say no (and I know people who do that without the brainwashing). The act of being brainwashed is not vanilla, but I would consider the result to be vanilla.

Honestly, this is one of the best arguments for crypto. To make it harder for an organization to control currency usage. I hate that it is becoming necessary.