There’s also no guarantee that existing in these lifestyle spaces will eventuate to cli🐜s just bc they see you at these events.

If anything, I’ve had people say an event ticket is cheaper than 📖ing. 😭🤪

To protect my own peace, I opt to attend completely out of town or the fresh events.

Not for a lack of trying but idk, when you see a community thematically based on safety, consent etc etc, do the opposite, it’s just safer to distance and exist on the outside, til I can deem it’s safe enough. (cont)

I used to agree with that last point but for a while now (thankfully there are brand new events popping up), certain popular Sydney events I do not feel safe in. I won’t divulge more but safety is so important on a personal level so how does one engage with a problematic cohort professionally (cont)

My experiences being entirely in the Sydney’s current and past lifestyle scene so I can’t speak about Melbourne’s.

I’d been attending these parties prior to SW as a lifestyler and now as a worker with my partner who is a face out Pro-Domme and…
I gotta say, I do feel this sentiment and the discourse being shared with other workers. There’s so much to say on this but I agree wholeheartedly.

Gender is a spectrum (and a construct!) so the limits are what you feel for it as it relates to you!
I am not a man, nor a woman but I am genderfluid because I can and feel like I flow between those binaries and exist outside of it too. 😊

This was so much fun and chaos driven, thank you for entangling me in your web full of Easter eggs and one tied up bunny. 🫶🏽🐰

Oh amazing, thank you. I’ll keep an eye out! ☺️