Aotearoa
Formerly bigflamingjess on twitter.
I'm not at all minimizing the physical aspect, that is the biggest part of a lot of people's trauma. But it's not a requirement when it comes to whether or not a parent was abusive.
I'm not at all minimizing the physical aspect, that is the biggest part of a lot of people's trauma. But it's not a requirement when it comes to whether or not a parent was abusive.
The times he minimized my feelings, the times he made me feel like I was never doing enough to "reach my potential", the times he threw hissy fits any time I didn't agree with him. Yes, the physical abuse is a significant factor in my trauma, but it's not the main one.
The times he minimized my feelings, the times he made me feel like I was never doing enough to "reach my potential", the times he threw hissy fits any time I didn't agree with him. Yes, the physical abuse is a significant factor in my trauma, but it's not the main one.
When I think of what my father did to me, whether intentionally, or through a flash back, the physical abuse is rarely the main thing on my mind, if at all. What fucked me up the most is the emotional, and mental abuse he put me through.
When I think of what my father did to me, whether intentionally, or through a flash back, the physical abuse is rarely the main thing on my mind, if at all. What fucked me up the most is the emotional, and mental abuse he put me through.