Did you know it is so much more vulnerable to express that you have a need than to tell your partner they are doing something wrong. Feeling that we are right is a toxic balm for our fear.

◾Power exchange without ongoing dialogue is tyranny.
◾Power exchange without enthusiastic mutual creation is dictatorship.
◾Power exchange without regular reconstruction is authoritarianism.
◾Power exchange without mutual respect is despotism.

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Power exchange without freely given, enthusiastic, fully informed consent is coercive hegemony at its worst.

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If you ever need an example of how two people in a 24/7 D/s relationship can show beautiful love that radiates in every setting, from teaching a class to High Protocol to an amazingly fun and sensual scene, look no further than @athenakali.bsky.social and her icarus. I am in awe of them.

Enjoyed teaching "Plastic Wrap Possibilities" & "Sounding & Electrical Play" with @darkodysseyevents.bsky.social WinterFire this weekend & our highlight - a High Protocol Experience for 100+ attendees.

Connected D/s time in community is one of the best forms of radical learning & acceptance 🔻▪️❤️

Power exchange is a loving connection built on mutual respect. It's not just about dominance & submission but an energetic flow where both partners empower each other.

Without your gift of submission, my dominance cannot exist.
Mutual respect begets deep connection.

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i am fascinated by the intersection of D/s, meditation, spirituality and neuroscience…