i feel like there should be some ounce of courtesy to at least reach out to someone. it makes sense to me, at least. especially if the owners are people you consider friends.

Also if anyone tries to be like "ew lol you're x years old and making ocs that's so cringe lol" just remember every character in your favorite book or movie or game or TV show is someone's oc.

Ian Malcolm is Micheal Crichton's oc
Gandalf is J.R.R. Tolkien's oc
Cloud Strife is Tetsuya Nomura's oc

I’ve heard some stuff that is speculation but whether or not it’s true doesn’t matter. It won’t bring mare back so there’s no use in bringing it up imo. We at least know it’s a fact that people advertised mare very openly in their search info.

I love the people I know in this community but at the same time I feel like opening the app is a wild card of wondering what community issues are coming up this week and it’s like playing bingo but it isn’t fun and the prize is “oh no not this again”

something that is Very Not Good, and I realized that I could just put my energy toward a community that isn’t as draining. Hell, I get more invested in Instagram reels about weddings that a MIL fucked up more than the communal issues of That Racist Guy We All Know Is Racist from the xiv community.