you are Right my monitor is being silly 😭

eating this omg

jen (explodes

what is the Point bruh

not their lack thereof. you did not have to loudly hurl slurs at them to lose that respect, all you had to do is quietly show you never held that respect first. if you dont think they had to yell at you for you to see their passivity as aggression, recognize your own silence is capable of Worse.

6.) "i did all that stuff, now they wont talk to me!"
did they yell at you
"no they just withdrew. thats so petty and mean and evil!"
when they quietly withdraw their own respect of you and you treat that silence as violence, you need to know it was Your whiteness that started it.