A.J. Singletary
arthurjack.life
A.J. Singletary
@arthurjack.life
Open and honest for #mentalhealth 💥 | WashU and Northwestern alum, he/him 🏳️‍🌈 (taylor’s version) | Views are my own | #bipolar #recovery
Pinned
90 meetings in 90 days, day 1: if I don’t have the first drink I won’t get drunk. And I’m not having a drink today. 🙏 #odaat #recovery
ALX 🚂 WBG. Not me crying on Amtrak because I’m headed to inpatient #rehab. 😢

I’m determined. Determined to surrender. 🙏

Grateful for the love of family, friends, and colleagues on my sobriety journey—I couldn’t do this without you. 💜 Cya in a few weeks. #recovery #mentalhealthmatters
November 25, 2025 at 11:55 PM
We’re meant for more in this world simply bc we still exist. Keep going. 🌎 #perseverance
November 25, 2025 at 1:40 PM
Higher power/God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference. Amen. 🙏 #recovery
November 24, 2025 at 5:30 PM
It’s weird to get rejected from rehab. Like yeah I almost died twice, but my case doesn’t warrant inpatient care? 😑 #recovery
November 24, 2025 at 4:05 PM
I’m packing for a long trip and mumbled “just trust that you have what you need” so I think I have a new mantra now. 🙏 #faith
November 24, 2025 at 12:13 PM
90 meetings in 90 days, day 78: not me using retinol and applying self-tanner before going to rehab. 🙄 #odaat #recovery
November 23, 2025 at 9:43 PM
90 meetings in 90 days, day 77: all packed up and nowhere to go… yet. 🧳 #rehab #recovery
November 22, 2025 at 12:20 PM
90 meetings in 90 days, day 76: everything happens for a reason but damn the logic is hard to understand sometimes. 😟 #odaat #recovery
November 21, 2025 at 7:51 PM
90 meetings in 90 days, days 74-75: God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference. Amen. 🙏 #odaat #recovery
November 20, 2025 at 3:45 PM
90 meetings in 90 days, day 73: been going to meetings for 2 yrs and just had the most powerful spiritual experience in one. Grateful. Lucky. 🙏 #odaat #recovery
November 18, 2025 at 1:19 PM
90 meetings in 90 days, day 72: what was assuredly traumatically negative is now surprisingly dramatically positive. 💥 #odaat #recovery
November 17, 2025 at 6:39 PM
I’m #sober, not perfect. ❤️‍🩹
November 17, 2025 at 2:27 AM
90 meetings in 90 days, days 67-71: suffering several seizures while getting sober sucks, but I’m staying steadfast. 🫨 #odaat #recovery
November 16, 2025 at 12:22 PM
Nurses are amazing humans. 🫶
November 13, 2025 at 8:49 PM
90 meetings in 90 days, day 66: everyone wants to see the sunrise from the mountaintop but not everyone wants to climb the mountain to get there. 🌄 #odaat #recovery
November 10, 2025 at 1:41 PM
90 meetings in 90 days, day 65: new phone number, who dis. #step1#odaat #recovery
November 8, 2025 at 4:11 PM
90 meetings in 90 days, days 63-64: not them saying “this is what life’s about” and me assuming they’re talking about dogs and not their children. 🐕 #odaat #recovery
November 7, 2025 at 1:22 PM
Apologies Mr Straight Contractor™️ that you have to listen to my Taylor Swift dance remixes and not the usual 80s soft rock. 🪩 #gayswiftie
November 5, 2025 at 3:27 PM
90 meetings in 90 days, days 61-62: it’s about attraction not promotion. 👣 #odaat #recovery

(as he posts to social media 🧐)
November 5, 2025 at 1:37 PM
90 meetings in 90 days, day 60: is there a good soundtrack for when you’re (legit) writing down the digits of people you love and want to keep in your life, symbolically cutting ties with everyone else? 🖤 #odaat #recovery
November 3, 2025 at 11:31 PM
I stop and pray for the United States every day when my commuter train stops at Arlington Cemetery. 🇺🇸 #godblessamerica
November 3, 2025 at 2:50 PM
90 meetings in 90 days, day 59: practicing being curious, not judgmental. 💚 #odaat #recovery
November 3, 2025 at 12:10 AM
90 meetings in 90 days, day 58: treating others like they’re God in drag. 💅 #odaat #recovery
November 1, 2025 at 5:34 PM
90 meetings in 90 days, day 57: there are people in my home group sober longer than I’ve been alive (I’m 40). Their very presence in a meeting is an act of service. ❤️‍🩹 #odaat #recovery
October 31, 2025 at 4:17 PM
90 meetings in 90 days, day 56: I don’t have an opinion on outside issues in the rooms, and I won’t draw the AA name into public controversy (i.e., no politics) ✋ #odaat #recovery
October 31, 2025 at 1:19 PM