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Day 3: Remove your trash pile. Day 4: Clean your clean/wash pile (dishes, laundry, fold, whatever). Day 5, put away the things you are keeping and are cleaned.

Build up your accomplishments slowly. Provie to yourself that no matter how long it takes you, you can get this under control.
November 16, 2025 at 10:26 PM
The next day? Take out 2 trashbags, until your trash is up to date. You are now not behind on trash - you have an accomplishment you can celebrate.

Want to declutter? Day 1: Collect all of your crud into one spot, even if that is not where everything ultimately goes. Day 2: Sort; keep/clean/trash.
November 16, 2025 at 10:26 PM
That way, you can't say "I want to do vacuum", but you can't vaccum because there's too much clutter, so you never clean the clutter OR vacuum.

Break the tasks down into segments as small as you think are manageable. Start very easy, very small. You want to declutter? Take out 1 trashbag.
November 16, 2025 at 10:26 PM
The first step is not blaming yourself for the chaos. Blame leads to guilt, which leads to inaction.

Rather than going room by room, list out ALL of the tasks you want to get done. Sort those tasks based on what has to happen first, before other tasks can be done.
November 16, 2025 at 10:26 PM