by all means be critical of heteronormativity in media. examine what you like and why. I just don't think fandom spaces should operate within a framework that necessitates "proving" the validity of one's opinion based on arbitrary rules

i feel like I have more in common with other bisexuals/pansexuals, as well as asexuals and non-binary people because they just understand what it's like to be excluded. to be not 'enough' of a minority.

i rag hard on transmeds and truscum because they were a large part of the reason it took me so long to realise the dysphoria i felt even existed.

obviously i had personal choice and responsibility, but these kinds of individuals didn't help me in my self discovery to put it lightly.

im just so fucking awkward and i hate it.

this isn't anyone's fault but my own necessarily, i just don't have the energy to try anymore - even if i really do care about someone or like them.