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🇯🇲Tony Rebel 🇩🇴
@aorridge.bsky.social
Life enthusiast. Champion for justice at @aclu.bsky.social. Founder of the nonprofit Live 2 Dream Inc. 🇯🇲🇩🇴 Opinions are mine. RTs ≠ endorsements.
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Black Girl Magic is beautiful, but it has never told the whole story. You are more than what the world calls you when it wants your brilliance but not your boundaries. So this piece is a Black man’s prayer for Black women. 🙏🏾
aorridge.com/DearBlackGirl
#BlackGirlMagic #SipThisSlow #TheWordsAreWarm
Dear Black Girl, You’re More Than Magic
To the Black women who make room for everyone else. This is the moment we make room for you. This is reverence. This is gratitude. This is the truth Black women deserve to hear without hesitation.
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Black Girl Magic is beautiful, but it has never told the whole story. You are more than what the world calls you when it wants your brilliance but not your boundaries. So this piece is a Black man’s prayer for Black women. 🙏🏾
aorridge.com/DearBlackGirl
#BlackGirlMagic #SipThisSlow #TheWordsAreWarm
Dear Black Girl, You’re More Than Magic
To the Black women who make room for everyone else. This is the moment we make room for you. This is reverence. This is gratitude. This is the truth Black women deserve to hear without hesitation.
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November 17, 2025 at 2:35 PM
There was a time when Black stories didn’t need permission to shine. Living Single was that time. This is my love letter to a show that held a generation. 🙌🏾
🔗 aorridge.com/LivingSingle
#SipThisSlow #TheWordsAreWarm #LivingSingle #ErikaAlexander #KimColes #QueenLatifah #90sTv
The Brownstone That Raised Us
A Love Letter to Living Single, the Show that Held a Generation
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November 16, 2025 at 7:51 PM
Your calling was never supposed to fit into other people’s comfort.
Step where the light is.

🔗 aorridge.com/YouBelongToT...
#SipThisSlow #TheWordsAreWarm #Calling #Purpose
You Belong to the Work, Not the Room
There is a moment in life when the rooms you walk into start speaking louder than the purpose God placed inside you.
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November 14, 2025 at 2:18 PM
There comes a moment when survival is no longer the assignment. When peace becomes the new path. If you feel that shift, this is for you.
🔗 aorridge.com/LetTheWarriorRest
#SipThisSlow #TheWordsAreWarm #Healing #LetTheWarriorRest
Let the Version of You That Survived Rest
There is a truth I have been wrestling with as I take on the journey of writing my book, I Sketched My Soul in Color. A truth that keeps coming back to me in the quiet parts of the day. A truth I trie...
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November 13, 2025 at 1:55 PM
They say “never forget” while practicing selective memory.
Forget who burned churches. Forget who stormed the Capitol. Forget who built the cage.

America’s mask is cracking — and the mirror’s getting honest.

When Hate Thinks It’s Holy
🔗 aorridge.com/WhenHateThinksItsHoly
#Mamdani #NYC
When Hate Think It's Holy
The Masks Are Slipping
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November 7, 2025 at 2:22 PM
Some of us were raised by love that sounded like fear. But I wrote this piece, “The Sky Ain’t Scared of You,” as a reminder that protection isn’t the same as belief. Let your children dream beyond your worry, because wings don’t work in cages.

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The Sky Ain't Scared of You
I grew up around folks who dreamed too small,
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October 30, 2025 at 10:32 PM
When you remember who you are, discounts expire. Your love, your time, your energy…all full price now.

No More Discounts on a Full-Price Soul

Get into it!

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#SipThisSlow #TheWordsAreWarm #Substack
No More Discounts on a Full-Price Soul
There comes a moment when you can feel your spirit sigh.
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October 30, 2025 at 12:49 PM
Leadership isn’t about control.
It’s about contribution.
It’s about love that tells the truth even when it trembles.

This piece is a love letter to transformation, service, and the sound of becoming.

🔗 aorridge.com/FinallyFree

#MomentumEducation #LT223 #FinallyFree #Substack #SipThisSlow
When Love Leads, Freedom Follows
Two weeks ago, I completed staffing my tenth Leadership Team for Momentum Education.
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October 27, 2025 at 1:26 PM
This week, VP Kamala Harris walked on stage in NYC with her head high and her spirit steady.

We live in a world that tries to bury Black women under critique and impossible standards, yet she still stands. She still tells her story.

✍🏾 aorridge.com/TheCalling

#107Days #KamalaHarris
The Calling That Cannot Be Buried
Titles fade. Cynicism shouts. But calling does not die. Kamala Harris is proof of that.
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September 26, 2025 at 3:15 PM
Vice President Kamala Harris reminded me of something. Truth does not wait for the “right time.” Truth breaks in and demands to be heard. She carried herself with a power that shook the room and a grace that could not be denied.
#107Days #KamalaHarris #MadamVicePresident #BlackWomenLead
September 25, 2025 at 4:13 AM
America baptizes devils in holy water the moment the coffin closes. I will not mourn #CharlieKirk who mocked our pain, excused our deaths, and dressed white supremacy in the language of patriotism.

This is the truth as I see it. And I stand on it.

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#SipThisSlow
When Death Finds a White Supremacist, Don’t Ask Me to Cry
Last week, I was alerted while working that Charlie Kirk was murdered.
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September 17, 2025 at 2:15 AM
Receipts do not lie. #Slavery was not a mistake. It was not two percent. It was the blueprint. The operating system. The business plan that turned America into a superpower.

The truth cannot be erased.

Read it and let the truth move through you.

🔗 aorridge.com/AmericaLedger
#SipThisSlow
Slavery Was America’s Business Plan
America does not get to play innocent.
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September 17, 2025 at 2:14 AM
Some love never leaves.
It lives in your bones.
It hums in the quiet.
It walks with you, even when the world can’t see it.

This is for my daughter.
The one I never got to hold.
The love remains. 🧡

🔗 aorridge.com/TheLoveRemains
#SipThisSlow #TheWordsAreWarm #Substack #Daughter
The Day I Lost Her
Some dates do not fade.
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September 17, 2025 at 2:13 AM
Have you ever noticed how you’ve been editing your story to make others comfortable? Shrinking your truth just to keep the peace?

What if it’s time to stop apologizing for who you are…
and start reclaiming the pen?

🔗 aorridge.com/ReclaimYourP...
#SipThisSlow #TheWordsAreWarm #Substack
You Can’t Hold the Pen and Blame the Plot
You ever wake up in the middle of your own life and realize…
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September 17, 2025 at 2:12 AM
Some of the most powerful acts of love are the quiet ones.
No fixing. No centering yourself.
Just presence that says, I see you. I hear you. I am here.

Check out my new post!
🔗 aorridge.com/HoldingSpace
#SipThisSlow #TheWordsAreWarm
The Ministry of Showing Up
There is a quiet ministry in loving people well.
aorridge.com
September 17, 2025 at 2:12 AM
You can be excellent and still be overlooked.
Talented and still stuck.
Grateful and still grieving the dream.

This piece is for the overachievers who keep showing up even when the room won’t open.

🔗 aorridge.com/BoxedBrilliance
#Excellence #SipThisSlow #TheWordsAreWarm
When Excellence Become a Cage
There’s a weight that brilliance carries.
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August 12, 2025 at 6:19 PM
You don’t owe your power an apology.
You don’t owe your purpose any more excuses.

This second half of the year isn’t about hustle. It’s about alignment.

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#TheSecondHalfIsSacred #SipThisSlow #TheWordsAreWarm #Substack
The Second Half Is Sacred
This Monday morning, we’re not clocking in like robots.
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July 7, 2025 at 2:04 PM
🕊️You cannot bury the song if the spirit still hums.

I wrote this for Arrows. For AJ. For Ari. For every trans person fighting to be seen, protected, and free.

🔗 aorridge.com/SpiritStillH...

#TransRightsAreHumanRights #SipThisSlow #TheWordsAreWarm #YouCannotBuryTheSong
You Cannot Bury the Song if the Spirit Still Hums
This weekend is the NYC Pride March.
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June 26, 2025 at 2:53 PM
Sometimes we survive things that we were never meant to carry alone.
Sometimes we write because silence is too heavy.
Sometimes the other shoe never drops—We just rise.
🔗 aorridge.com/TheOtherShoe

#SipThisSlow #TheWordsAreWarm #SaturdayReflections #ISketchedMySoulInColor
Why Are We Always Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop?
A Saturday Morning Reflection
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June 22, 2025 at 1:39 AM
They gave us Juneteenth, then banned the truth.
But we still here. Still dreaming in color. Still building what they can’t imagine.

I wrote this for the visionaries, not just the survivors.
🔗 aorridge.com/JuneteenthUnfiltered
#Juneteenth #SipThisSlow #TheWordsAreWarm
The Retaliation Will Be Televised: Juneteenth and the Black Imagination
Can we not pretend we don’t see what’s happening.
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June 17, 2025 at 7:59 PM
In honor of Tyler Perry’s #StrawNetflix, I wrote about the real cost of poverty. Not the kind that shows up on balance sheets, but the kind that breaks you slowly and silently. This post is for the ones holding on with bruised hands and borrowed faith.
🔗 aorridge.com/IfItWasYou
The Price of Being Poor: If It Was You, Would You Still Judge?
I was watching Tyler Perry’s Straw on Netflix last night starring Taraji P.
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June 8, 2025 at 7:52 PM
For the ones fighting alone…in love, in family, in spaces that stopped seeing you.

You’re tired. That’s not weakness. That’s truth tapping your spirit.

Choosing yourself doesn’t mean you didn’t love them. It means you finally started loving you too.

🔗 aorridge.com/OnlyOneFighting
If You're the Only One Fighting...
I feel like someone needs to hear this.
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June 3, 2025 at 3:14 AM
Five years ago, George Floyd was murdered. Five years of remembering. And for me, five years of knowing how close that could’ve been.

This piece isn’t just reflection…it’s survival, grief, and resistance in one breath.

🔗 aorridge.com/NineMinutesStolen

#GeorgeFloyd #BlackLivesMatter #SipThisSlow
Still Can't Breathe. Still Black. Still Here.
Nine minutes stolen.
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May 25, 2025 at 5:25 PM
I’m just going to say it…Some of y’all don’t like women. I’m convinced!

You want their bodies, their brilliance, their loyalty but not their full humanity. And it shows. Especially on these damn podcasts

🔗 aorridge.com/PodcastPatriarchy

#SipThisSlow #TheWordsAreWarm #MicCheck #ProtectBlackWomen
Mic Check: Podcasts, Patriarchy, and the Men Who Don’t Like Women
This is something I’ve been thinking about for quite some time.
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May 22, 2025 at 5:57 PM
Just days before the anniversary of George Floyd’s murder, the Trump administration moved to end federal oversight of police departments that kill us.
🔗 aorridge.com/ConsentToKillUs

It’s a white nationalist rollback. 😒

#GeorgeFloyd #BreonnaTaylor #BlackLivesMatter #PoliceReform #SipThisSlow
The Consent to Kill Us: A Reckoning With America's Rotten Soul
I saw the alert on my phone and had to say something.
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May 21, 2025 at 5:48 PM