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AnynameIwant
@anynameiwant.bsky.social
Your average guy trying to make it through life with severe MCAS. Sorry ladies, I'm in a committed relationship.
*Atheist
*Democratic Socialist
*Very Strongly Pro-choice
*Very Strongly LGBTQ+ Supporter
*Ex-volunteer firefighter
When you know, you know. But you have to 'kiss a lot of frogs' first. I went on over 2 dozen 1st dates, over 7 months this year, after my ex left. I met my GF at the 7 month mark and she is absolutely amazing! 😁 (picture from our 1st date) Good luck if you are searching!
November 29, 2025 at 1:44 PM
I'm thankful for my loving GF. This was the message I sent her after spending most of the day with her.
November 28, 2025 at 11:55 AM
I guess I'm going to be doing the food shopping for our relationship. 😂 (we don't live together... yet) And yes, we have different primary languages.
November 21, 2025 at 6:43 PM
She is the best thing that I have ever found on the internet. ☺️
October 21, 2025 at 7:07 PM
IYKYK 😏😊
October 13, 2025 at 5:41 PM
Update: the date went amazingly. I should be seeing her again this weekend. 😍
October 3, 2025 at 2:32 AM
It has been a rocky journey to get to this date, but I think we are actually set to meet tonight. I must say that I am very excited about the date based on how passionate our conversations have been via text. #Dating
October 2, 2025 at 5:32 PM
And another date just dropped... 🥴
September 21, 2025 at 12:05 AM
After being overwhelmed with too many dates, I let 2 matches go, but I had a first date planned for tonight already. Then I got 3 new matches... Now it is likely I will have at least 2 more first dates in the near future. (my first dates usually end up being 3-5hrs, so I can only handle one per day)
September 19, 2025 at 2:57 PM
Live your life to where you get messages like this.

My date was a Chinese immigrant (in the US 2 years) that speaks very limited English. We talked a lot through a translation app, but I was still able to make her feel valued throughout our date. I will be seeing her again.
September 5, 2025 at 2:16 PM
The 2 black woman I've been with can't stop reaching out to me up to 20 years later. 🤷 (both are married to white guys) Full disclosure, I dated one of them for about 5 years.

I have no qualms about dating another black woman and it will likely happen sooner than later. One of my matches:
August 23, 2025 at 10:00 PM
Last set
August 6, 2025 at 11:04 PM
Some more photos
August 6, 2025 at 11:02 PM
Photo dump of my travels in July.
August 6, 2025 at 10:59 PM
I was on the retired NYC fireboat John J Harvey (built in 1931) on Saturday (6/28) and they activated the deck guns by the Statue of Liberty. It was a very moving experience with everything going on.
June 30, 2025 at 2:26 AM
Literally last night. 😂
June 21, 2025 at 3:16 PM
Said way back in 1993...
June 3, 2025 at 2:12 PM
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April 26, 2025 at 9:26 PM
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April 12, 2025 at 12:18 AM
Princeton, NJ Protest. Hundreds and even more couldn't be there because the town ran out of parking (with 3 large parking garages and on-street parking).
April 5, 2025 at 11:32 PM
March 25, 2025 at 9:57 AM