Boundaries reveal people. If someone feels the need to proclaim their truth instead of receiving yours, then they're entitled, manipulative and asymmetric to the situation.

It’s shitty to use someone else’s courage to communicate their needs as an excuse to centre yours.

Boundaries aren't destructive FYI. Things can end gracefully with a slow fade, a delicate appreciation for what a connection means whilst acknowledging that it isn't sustainable.

Destruction is intentionally distorting someone else’s character. Rewriting the narrative in rage.

Aries as a sign isn't one for intentionality. It’s all or nothing, but it isn't strategic. I'm sure there's more to your chart than your Aries Moon, but I wouldn't at all attribute what I'm saying to Aries. If anything, it’s Aries placements that have taught me why this is necessary.

Not at all, I'm sorry. Aries moon is known for impulsivity.

Ily genie! :) it is calm as heck on here :)

I hypothesise that if the ascendant is ruled by a 12h placement, then the individual will only feel truly ‘seen’ by a partner who has their DSC ruler placement (in the other person’s chart) aspecting their own chart ruler.

The rules of the synastry game change quite drastically when someone’s chart is ruled by a 12h placement.