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thinking out loud
this is every ADHDer’s dream
June 24, 2025 at 12:06 AM
awwwww congrats Tori!!! SO PROUD OF YOU AND YOUR PARTNER!
April 9, 2025 at 3:33 AM
oh its more like, I don't think I will make it to 65 given that I'm 33 and so many things can kill me before I get to that age, like another pandemic or nuclear war or a climate disaster
April 6, 2025 at 6:08 AM
of course we have many overlapping interests! glad you’re here 🤓
April 3, 2025 at 5:27 PM
me, looking at my gold hoop earrings, wondering if that now counts as an investment 🤔
April 3, 2025 at 5:24 PM
listen, I won’t judge anyone for chasing joy and purpose right now. above all else, have a reason to live NOW. if/when that desire extends into the future, you can invest in future you then
April 3, 2025 at 5:20 PM
I’m refraining from investing in anything that has a restriction around when I can access that money. Life feels too unpredictable right now to not have access to funds quickly. But this isn’t financial advice, haha. I’m just a girl 🤷🏽‍♀️
April 3, 2025 at 5:18 PM
hi, hello, we are your people 💓
April 3, 2025 at 5:14 PM
no notes 👏🏽
April 3, 2025 at 5:11 PM
relatable. when did “after” begin for you? I know it can be different for everyone, but I’m curious about your perspective, specifically
April 3, 2025 at 5:09 PM
right, anyone denying the changes isn’t living in reality. my hope is that we, as a collective, can find a way to create a better reality, as soon as possible. because you’re right, this isn’t it!
April 3, 2025 at 5:08 PM
so fair. I struggled with this same thing when I was younger. turns out the ability to project yourself into the future, “episodic future thinking”, can be hard for people with trauma, anxiety or depression to do. definitely was a trauma response for me!
April 3, 2025 at 5:06 PM
is it negative or is a healthy skepticism of something we once took for granted 🤔
April 2, 2025 at 9:13 PM
honestly, yeah!
April 2, 2025 at 9:12 PM
I totally get that! I found myself needing that 401k money and not wanting to take it out bc of the massive taxes… so now I’m mad at myself for having put it there in the first place ☹️
April 2, 2025 at 5:58 PM
Glad I’m not alone, but also sad for us???
April 2, 2025 at 3:57 PM
Exactly. I don’t even think it’s being pessimistic at this point!!
April 1, 2025 at 10:38 PM
you have great vibes btw
April 1, 2025 at 9:43 PM
Now that I’ve read the Facebook tell all, Careless People, I’m sticking with this over Red Note
April 1, 2025 at 9:40 PM